#less in the 'permissive parenting made this child an assumptive demanding tyrant' way and more the like

[lighthouseborna]

is henry. a little bit spoiled, actually? is that where all the Audacity comes from?

#less in the 'permissive parenting made this child an assumptive demanding tyrant' way and more the like #he expects good things because many were simply Given to him which i recognize isn't spoiled so much as #............cared for ;slkfjg;ldkfjg #but is henry. a little bit spoiled? #does he just have to ask for things and he gets them is that what's happening here? #oh dear he's an only child several people were compensating for their own shitty childhoods with #he's spoiled isnt he #well #this has been a thought journey #you know i always thought it was interesting that people called kids who parents doted on them in this way spoiled #like i mean a parent can absolutely be -as said- too permissive but im not talking about that im talking about like #the kid is like 'can we do x thing i think it would be fun' and when its suitable to agree the parent goes yes! #and someone is like. Wow you are wrapped around their little finger #because i mean like;;;;;;;;;; the ability to say no is right there and if the kid simply Asked and didn't #demand and wheedle and beg and whine and moan and so on then like #are they spoiled or are they? asking for something they want in the hopes that they will get it?? #is that spoiled or am i accidentally airing out skeletons hold on #;skfjg;sldkjg #tbd(?) #my dash is very dead it's very unusual and i have resorted to thinking out loud here i try not to do that lmao