#it's kinda like how some people prefer the term transGENDER because transSEXUAL feels connected to sex/sexuality

[carlyraejepsans]

hey. you probably won't see this, but i just wanted to say thank you for not being a jerk about bi lesbians. it's really disheartening how much hate we still get, and it's nice to see someone just. not doing that.

it's nice to know someone with a (probably?) big blog/account is in our corner.

not sure why i shouldn't be able to see this ask, i am not as big of a blog as some people think HAHAHAHA. but hey you're welcome. I'll always stand behind anyone who defines a label through their personal experience. as long as you're not trying to define other people's experiences for them, it's literally nobody's business but yours.

#to me it always felt like the bi/pan debate. if you try to define those words as something ontologically different you're gonna be biphobic #bi can mean whatever the hell a bi person wants it to mean. attraction to two genders and/or more/all genders equally #all genders but more some and less other. bi + other label (asexual/lesbian/gay/etc) like that's literally nobody's business but yours #and if someone prefers to use pan because they REALLY want to emphasize the ''all' part. or they don't like the prefix. then hell. go ahead #it's kinda like how some people prefer the term transGENDER because transSEXUAL feels connected to sex/sexuality #and that doesn't reflect their experience. yknow some people call themselves transexual because they physically transitioned. that's alright #but saying someone can't call themself that because they haven't. or can't cal themselves that at all because it's outdated... #that's when you become the asshole #mind ya bizz baby #answered asks