#into the masc/fem dichotomy which is what separates us into the 'dads' category lmao

[nonbinarynightcrawler]

My in-person D&D group is made up of 3 couples. We're all really good friends, and have our little offshoot hangout groups based on other interests. (Four of us have a "spicy chat" where we do fun and silly shipping content and jokes, the three that play FFXIV regularly have a discord for it, etc)

The two dudes/boyfriends in the group adopted me without question. We have a chat where the opening to a conversation is frequently "how do you do, fellow dads." They invite me on hiking trips and to video game nights. We trade garden tools and one of them came over to help me build a raised grow bed. And I really, really hope they realize how just affirming and nice that is for me. I didn't even start T until like 2 years into knowing them.

I don't know where this post is going, I just wanted to share something nice

#important asterisk gender is wonky and weird but the couples split evenly #into the masc/fem dichotomy which is what separates us into the 'dads' category lmao #i dunno i just. i love those guys #its really nice to feel safe and affirmed with other guys #something something experiencing the boyhood i never got to