#dude was clearly already annoyed with me because i didn't agree with whom on two things he was complaining about

[thesmokinpossum]

while i'm complaining  about men, I just got told in a slightly passive-aggressive tone by a man i've known for less than 5 months that "clearly, validating people's feelings is not my strongest suit" because I told him as kindly as I could that while he can call me when he's having panic attack, there's no real guarantee that i'm gonna be available and even less guarantee that i'm gonna be able to comfort him in whatever way in need, especially if he need any type of physical comfort and I'm just sitting there like...You know what my dude, if that's gonna make you get over your annoying ass desire to hug me then feel free to assume that i'm actually even meaner than that, imagine me as the world biggest bitch all you want, i'm fine with it

#dude was clearly already annoyed with me because i didn't agree with whom on two things he was complaining about #not gonna go in details because he deserves some privacy tbh #but i will say that no i'm not gonna pretend to believe that someone is always right just because they have mental health issues #i always try to see someone's point of view in a situation but i'm also very much the friend who will tell you if i think you're wrong #a lot of people claim to want that kind of honesty in their life but when it means being told that they were wrong it's suddently bad #anyway ok bro i have no emotional intelligence i'm cold and distant and i can't be your primary support now can you chill? #that's gonna sound so fucking mean but sometimes i wonder why he even bother with therapy #like if you need that much validation from a random girl you barely know what do you pay this fucker for??? #anyway let's hope he got the hint that no i'm not gonna pretend to be his best friend when i barely know him nor his mom nor his gf