#dating is inherently exclusive- most people aren't attracted to everyone else???

[biromanticbookbabe]

So I'm signed up for this online 30's speed dating event for WLW and sapphics right?

Here's the thing: It looks like they aren't even bothering to regulate it at all because I see tons of people who aren't in their 30s and even some men are listed in the people who are signed up for the event.

What's even the point of a specific event for 30 something WLW if just anyone can join it? :/

#As a 30 year old I'm not interested in 18/19 year olds and yet a bunch of them are signed up for a event for women in their 30s??? #any one who is in their 30s and wants to date teenagers is a total creep #I hope they realize that because I don't think they do #18 and 19 year olds look like children to me now #if you promise an event for women in their 30s please actually deliver it :( #If I'm using a site that's for women loving women- men shouldn't be allowed? I'm not looking for a man! #now I see why the lesbians and other sapphics get angry #I'm debating whether or not this is even worth my time because I'm not confident that it will be run well at all #so many people failed to understand the prompt or purposely don't care #they are either too young or the wrong gender- if you're not a woman in her 30s it's not for you? #If a woman is in her late 20s that's different but it was a bunch of people under 25 #dating is inherently exclusive- most people aren't attracted to everyone else??? #A lot of people fail to realize you CAN be pro equality and still not want to date most other people- it IS possible #Now selfish people are going to ruin something that isn't even for them :/ #I am the target audience for this event and they are making me not want to participate #I'm 30 and sapphic- questioning whether bi or lesbian but I belong there #Should I be surprised? I really don't know what to think honestly #I'm a little angry that they don't seem to care who attends because I paid for a ticket- not too much but still? #mychatter