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#crossover. we were a gay friend group but we were HIGH SCHOOLERS in the middle of nowhere. we werent gay as in 'dating queerly' we were
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im slowly becoming more certain that ive lived an aromantic or aspec experience but im starting to think my experience was VERY much not the norm for those
#i feel like ive rarely had romance pushed onto me. ive been flirted with for usually a day or a couple days which felt so bad but its
#over quickly. there was no background pressure for a relationship. i was never grilled or pressured by my family
#in school my best friend was a boy which got me some 'oh they must be dating' but (a) nobody gave a shit about me enough to push lol
#and (b) you can only consistently have guy friends for so long in a small school before people just get used to it
#i feel like dating in high school wasnt really a thing. and i could be wrong but if ir was a thing it was a thing the same as having your
#own car and playing varsity sports and doing spirit week etc etc. that was a world so outside mine it genuinely felt like there was no
#crossover. we were a gay friend group but we were HIGH SCHOOLERS in the middle of nowhere. we werent gay as in 'dating queerly' we were
#gay as in 'queer expectations for future dating' which was a very aspec INCLUSIVE experience
#its very likely that the only reason i didnt experience this constant overwhelming pressure to conform that i hear from other aros is just
#because im not very observant of emotions. im an autistic outcast who only cared about dating as a concept not a reality yknow? you would
#have probably had to say it directly to my face if you wanted me to think you thought i was supposed to be in a relationship
#i was just chillin. i dunno. anyway all this is to say i fuckin love valentines day
#its a family holiday to me :)
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