#but yeah the pyramid of maslow's gonna be on there lol

[burntblueberrywaffles]

Can’t wait for tumblr wrapped I made some banger memes so far this year

#my notifications are ruined but what’s new #used to get so excited when I saw notifs and now I’m just like -_- which meme is it #knowing ppl like my memes does make my lil brain happy tho #EDIT cause this was in my queue: well I know at least what two of my top posts are #the 2 ao3 memes really blew tf so unless I somehow makes 20k posts that’s gonna be in there LOL #would have preferred for a post I put slightly more thought into than my two ‘oh no ao3 is down’ memes be my top post but whatever #this might as well happen lol #EDIT AGAIN (side effect of reorganizing your queue semi frequently is that some posts end up in purgatory for way too long) #but yeah the pyramid of maslow's gonna be on there lol #burntblueberrywaffles

[lets-talk-spirituality]

What happens with a person hasn't had sex in years and hasn't masturbated in months either? i was looking at the maslow pyramid of needs and i was wondering if this person can advance to the safety needs part if she hasn't had sex in years? (sex is what he is missing on the first rung). I would like know what you thinks, believes, knows or can you say about it ¿What pros or cons could this person bring? I hope I didn't ask at the wrong place and time but since I read your post on sex magic I now think is place appropiate. I hope I'm not wrong

Lol this post is mirroring so much in my life right now. This is that weird shit. Well first off the pyramid goes up so it wouldn’t be safety needs your blocking, it’s self esteem. Not masturbating… I’d look into why. I went through a period of depression and so I didn’t masturbate for a long time. Part of it is also about my body image, I didn’t feel fuckable, not even to myself. And finally the other part of it is like struggling to let my body feel good. Masturbation is about connecting to your body and pleasuring your body. Why? The same reason you pleasure your soul and mind. It’s part of you. Sometimes we don’t masturbate when we struggle to give ourselves pleasure. That’s a deeper wound that needs addressing.

What I wrote about on Saturday 2/18:

I lost touch with my sexuality for self preservation and now I have to figure out how to safely get in touch with it again the human animal of it like that craves wants to taste and experience all sorts of shit, I had to shut down that part of myself

Maybe my sexual wound is also contributing to my block around music that sacral energy sigh

That’s why he’s always trying to get me to masturbate to unstick my sexual energy which is heavily blocked so that I can create again and can hear melodies again

Not crying is blocking me too, that’s why I used to cry after sex and now I don’t have that. I think I’m trying to be open but feeling feelings is gonna really open me up.

Can I get in touch with that part of myself alone? That part that I think feelings for another will open me up to… can I do it on my own?

Part of it is letting everything flow through me and not blocking it

So yeah magic has been on one lately. NGL sorta freaking me out deeply but okay.

#ask box #sex magic #sex magick