#and you don't have separate searches for friends vs. dates which I think should be a separate search function but hey that's just me

[biromanticbookbabe]

Okay so I am trying this new dating/friend finding app as a newly minted lesbian with more ideas than experiences.

What bothers me about this app though is that you can't really age restrict or restrict by anything else- SO EVERYONE on the App sees your posts always. I'm a lesbian but do not know why they keep showing me tons and tons of people that would not date a lesbian.

They kind of threw all the lgbt people into a bucket and were like "but you'd date any other lgbt person RIGHT?"

#did a straight person design this app because HUH? #I feel like they misunderstood the prompt unless I did #I specified on my profile my age preferences (close to mine) #because WAY TOO MANY people on there are younger by a lot #and half their profiles contradict themselves which is fun #If anything this confused me more than anything #are there no just plain lesbians any more- because the app tells me no there aren't #I wish I were kidding #it's kind of bad that it doesn't really listen to age preferences or sexuality which both matter in dating??? #I love my lgbt friends but I'm not dating all lgbt people that's not how being a lesbian works...just no #and you don't have separate searches for friends vs. dates which I think should be a separate search function but hey that's just me #I said between 26-35 was a good age for dating (since I'm 29) #and 21+ for friends so we could go out anywhere if we wanted to #I want to go to gay clubs and lesbian bars!!! #not to drink just to dance and maybe see what else happens #there were a few hot girls on there though so not a total loss I have hope #this seems safer than the last app I tried since I just block anyone who gives me bad vibes #I want 2023 to be my gayest year yet! #mychatter #I'm excited!!!