#and yeah go ahead and tell yourself im abusive or whatever to keep justifying why you're treating another queer person this way

[snekdood]

you will never be able to take me out of who i am 😌

#idrc what anyone does #or says #idc if its a chritsian republican #idc if its some 'left' leaning person who hates the way i identify #idc if its a family member who thinks they know me better than me #idc if its a bitter manipulative ex trying to paint me a certain way #like. it really doesnt matter what any of you throw at me. ill still always be me #the sooner you accept that the better off we'll all be #otherwise prepare to be consistently confronted w the fact that i am infact myself. #oh and uh. it also doesnt matter how much yall try to invalidate me and act like im not who i say i am ✌️ #like im sorry but ur only trying to delay the inevitable here. im always going to be me. its just like. not gonna stop happening #imagine calling urself a leftist and trying to come up w a moral reason to invalidate me lmao. #and are you suuuure its bc 'i invalidated my ex'? are you suuure thats the reason you want to think its fine? #are you suuure you're not just telling yourself they're telling the truth just bc you hate me? #are u suuuuuuuuuuure theres really a moral way to invalidate me- in spite of growing up with no validation and my ex lovebombing me w #validation and yall supposed leftists who supposedly care about other queer people are literally just their useful idiots literally #perpetuating their abuse? are you suuuuure you're totally fine w me being the only person to validate myself? u sure? are u so sure? #love bombing me w validation that they ripped away to abuse me n yall perpetuate their abuse by actively invalidating another trans person* #and yeah go ahead and tell yourself im abusive or whatever to keep justifying why you're treating another queer person this way #yknow. the way you've probably been treated plenty of fucking times too like what. do you think i dont know what its like to be fucking #invalidated? GOD you dense fucks. i wish you could relive my childhood and then come back to me and tell me how fucking easy it all is. #im so tired of yall THINKING you're so smart and you've figured it all out and you Just Know what kinda lesson i need to learn. #meanwhile everything you're trying to teach me is shit i know like the back of my fucking hand since growing up for me was like being in a #warzone. when will yall just accept the fact that my abuser IS in fact fucking abusive and thats all there is to it #all of these. fucking justifications to abuse me is just their way to keep perpetuating abuse and dressing it up w progressive language #i wish u all werent so fucking dumb and blind to fucking see that. but oh fucking well. im not going to help you if you need it now. #maybe yall just need to stop using me as an acceptable target for all the shit transphobic and queerphobic ppl have thrown at you.