#and to not fetishize us and dually prop us up as 'the founders of the community' while spitting on us?

[rebellum]

Gently sitting down white trans people and explaining to them that no matter their gender most white trans people can and do use the "white woman's tears" tactic

#its so like. insidious. and hard to call out. #bc if you call out someone out they just pile more on you know? #and if they arent a woman theyll be like 'are you saying by using white tears im like a white WOMAN' #and if they are a woman theyll be like 'are you insinuating that because im a WOMAN i am faking crying to get attention? ur a transmisogyni #st' and its like. no. no i just think you should maybe examine why you always say shit like 'i want her to step on me yass queen slay' when #you see a hot black person. #its also bizarre when trans fems do it bc that same example i used happens to them too so often!! and its a thing that trans fems discuss! #the masculinization of trans fems thru framing their love as aggressive. like 'step on me' kinda bs #but yeah regardless of gender i find that if a white trans person CAN use white tears in a queer space then they will #oh boohoo are the big mean poc bullying you by asking you to listen to us and not speak over us and act like we arent here? #and to not fetishize us and dually prop us up as 'the founders of the community' while spitting on us?