#and stating poof isn't really a slur. okay bud maybe not where you're from lol

[effemimaniac]

I wish ppl would stop commenting on my post about the lgbtwords carrd specifically mocking it saying the t slur is transfem exclusive because like, I disagree with the very premise of the whole thing and don't want to seem like I'm defending any part of it, but seriously? that's like the least egregious part, because it's true that trans women are the primary targets of that slur. when the average casual transphobe thinks or says tranny they are imagining something specific. specifically transfeminine. saying this alone is not saying that trans men don't face discrimination, it's just acknowledging the truth of what this word means and it feels like a denial of transmisogyny to not acknowledge that there is at the very least a significant disparity in how the word is applied.

#there are several things in that carrd that are far more egregious like their flimsy logic of claiming the d slur comes from aave and thus #non-black lesbians can't say it at all #(or any bisexual woman for that matter) #and stating poof isn't really a slur. okay bud maybe not where you're from lol #but also I disagree with the whole premise of people positioning themselves as authorities of who can say what so I feel as though I can't #address this in the replies. I wish ppl would just shut up about it can you let a joke be a joke maybe #make a serious post if you want to seriouspost ffs