#and i dont want to hear 'wahh wahh internalized misogyny is why everyone doesnt wanna write f/f and centers m/m more'

[dmbakura]

there's yaoi vs yuri discourse on twitter (again) and I'm just lmao because maybe people would want to create more f/f stuff if a lot of the fandom spaces surrounding these pairings didn't cultivate such hostility and policing to everyone doing it in a way that hasn't been approved of by the high sapphic council. I don't find it a coincidence that a lot of the types that complain about this shit don't even write fanfic or make fanart, they just use ao3 stats as a metric for fandom as a whole and treat it like some weird popularity contest. as a lesbian it's just embarrassing and it's gonna drive people away from wanting to engage with f/f spaces at all

#and i dont want to hear 'wahh wahh internalized misogyny is why everyone doesnt wanna write f/f and centers m/m more' #that is complete horseshit nonsense there's plenty of people just as passionate abt f/f and filling those rarepair tags #is it ever about engaging with them? no its always complaining about some non existent popularity contest