#and i don't want to misappropriate a label that already receives enough of it from even within our community (not just cishet women)

[pinkcarabiner]

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#is it possible to like...become stone? #like i really rn have no interest in topping but i have in the past #and it has nothing at all to do with my partner it's 100% my brain #it's also [redacted] but that's a bit too personal for tumblr #i've been calling myself a pillow princess instead of a high femme (ik you can use both) #because the term doesn't have the same rich history that high femme does #and i don't want to misappropriate a label that already receives enough of it from even within our community (not just cishet women) #idk i'm just stuck with my thoughts #and maybe some of it is internalized? like from only being a part of irl lgbt spaces that shame pillow princesses #sorry to whoever reads these #ily tho