#and i cant really be mad bc 5 of his coworkers quit a month ago and there's no one else who can cover

[legobabyofficial]

:/

#its the busiest week of the year at my husbands restaurant - the local college's grad weekend #and he's worked doubles the last 3 days #today he was supposed to only work lunch & then we'd use the afternoon to go run the errands we couldnt get done this week #but one of his coworkers is having an extremely flimsy and fake-sounding family emergency #and he might have to work another double #leaving me to solo parent for the 4th day in a row #and i cant really be mad bc 5 of his coworkers quit a month ago and there's no one else who can cover #and since he's training to be head chef he's gotta take this all on and show responsibility yknow #i just...fuck. i havent had a saturday evening with him since october #plus if he works a double he's gonna be too bone-tired to make my mother's day anything special at all #i thought i knew what i was getting into marrying a chef but it looks like i really really didnt. #some weeks i feel like a single parent and it sucks #but tbf things will ease up a LOT after this week. grad weekend is literally their busiest weekend all year. #i just miss my husband.

[fuck-customers]

Long and kind of off topic mb

I have no where else to complain about this but tbh this is mostly just the story as to Why I am quiting my awesome job, which i dont Want to Do, but I Have to do.

So I work at t bell and I love my job. It’s stressful sometimes, but i love my coworkers and managers. They make it worth it. I love it there. But This is a fuck coworker/sister/roommate and her bf (this is not work related technically I’m sorry)

Some bullshit went down at home, I hate her bf bc he’s emotionally abusive. This is the same guy who came into my work and practically yelled at my manager about how rude I am (based on shit that happened at home the night before, he literally disrupted my work day to complain about me being mad at his abusive behavior and He blamed Me for it. This was a couple months ago… anyway….)

He was back at it again, except worse. Ill give the basic details and say he and i had a screaming match bc he was trying to control my sisters money and He started raising his voice at her. He started yelling at me bc I told him not to yell at her. It became a huge thing. It was awful. But Well, I really thought that after this fight and his obvious manipulative behavior, our mother calling and threatening to call the cops and her explaining to my sister that what he is doing is early if not mid-term signs of abuse that just as well could escalate, my sister would finally go through with changing things. Like she mentioned kicking him out. We talked about getting our own place w out him. I just It didn’t happen. He sat her down and convinced her it was Our fault for his temper, and all this bullshit.

So I said to her that if he stays, Im moving out. I cant do this anymore.

He’s staying. So now I’m moving out of state to live with our mom in Vegas.

This is where it gets work related: I have to leave my good ass fucking job because living with him is DAMAGING to me. Like fr my mental illnesses are going Haywire, I’m getting so bad again I actually started thinking about self harm again (something i haven’t even thought about in nearly 4 years)

I have to put in my two weeks tomorrow (2/5) and I’m moving on the 20th. Im so mad and heart broken. So much shit is going down like I have to rehome my rats, I have $50 to my name that isn’t going to be enough to get me what i need to move.

This could be been avoided but my coworker/sister is in too deep to do what she needs to do for her safety and for mine tbh And i cant do it anymore

I’m sorry this is way off topic i just am so mad that i have to fucking quit and move because of them. My co-workers and managers were all heartbroken when I told them.

Thankfully, I should have an in at a Vegas location, thanks to my GM. It just wont be the same without them tho.

#fuck coworkers #submissions #submission