#also about the being called a boy: both accidentally and deliberately as bullying oof

[jarvis-cockhead]

anyone else with long hair only ever get people assuming you must want it shorter or?? people are always like wow your hair is so long isnt it annoying? doesnt it get in the way?? wouldnt it be better if it was shorter???

#i get it from my mum a lot but it might be because shes only ever had super short hair #and doesnt like the idea of long hair #and because i used to have shorter hair. but i grew it out so people would stop calling me a boy #so now people think thats the only reason i have it long now when really i actually just like it?? #the length means i can get it completely out of my face. it stays behind my ears and doesnt pass over my shoulders #i do need it cut but i really dont want to lose much of the length but people assume i do?? #part of me would love to try shorter hair again but ive had really bad experiences with it before and im scared itll go like that again #but i do just genuinely like having long hair now. the only thing i dont like is it can be a pain and can get in the way #and i cant tie it up because i reeaally hate the feeling of it (well i can if i absolutely need to but i dont enjoy it) #i dont even like eg plaits i dont like the pulling feeling of it #but other than that its fine. i like it #i dont know why everyone always assumes i dont #also about the being called a boy: both accidentally and deliberately as bullying oof #its a shame because honestly the thought of looking like a boy is appealing but i dont think id ever do it now #or well a boyish girl is appealing. but i dont think i could pull it off #(tbh would be fun if there were magic potions or something to instantly change sex but unfortunately there are not) #i have no idea where this is going now jfjshfhs gonna stop rambling and actually sleep perhaps #anyway yeah its just!! really weird how shorter haired people see someone with long hair and think wow that must be so annoying for them