#again it sounds like you're seeking self betterment through surface level/materialistic standards

[mangopit]

i think this will make the girlies mad but it is simply my subjective truth. it is my ick and imo a red flag if someone must look good always, all the time. if you are unable to be seen in public or on social media without flattering clothing/makeup, i think you care too much about surface level things to be my close friend. like maybe you're insecure about something and trying to hide it. but ultimately my view is that your approach to things that unnerve you is one of avoidance and deflection, and that is a friend red flag to me

#'what if i just want to look good all the time for myself?' i just can't imagine not being able to sit in ugliness for a while. personal ick #'what if i'm just working on myself and trying to feel more comfortable in my own skin?' #again it sounds like you're seeking self betterment through surface level/materialistic standards #that is an ick to me #'what if i'm only doing this bc society will mistreat me otherwise?' #i'm SO sorry but as an overweight asian-am girl with fucked teeth #i say if good clothing is the one thing separating your societal rejection and acceptance i don't think you're as rejectable as you think #i think you're projecting your own values of appearance onto the world around you #and i personally would not like to partake #woohoojazelyn thoughts #and you may say 'jazel you're just saying this to be inflammatory and different' #i'm not but also this is my blog and i'm allowed to silently ick people all i want. eat my ass about it