I read May His Memory Be A Blessing months ago and commented then, but I'm still thinking about rabbi Miriam and what a brilliant character she is. Especially in her POV, just seeing her thought process is so interesting. She's so full of wonder and love, exactly the kind of person I'd expect to be a rabbi. No real point to this just saying thanks for this woman I think about now and then
Awe, thank you so much! Because May His Mem Be a Bless was one of the first fics I published, it's sad, and it's Jewish, it hasn't gotten at much attention as some of my other fics. It's the one I feel to be the most artistic though, haha. So, anyway, I really appreciate comments and messages like these!
I'm glad you like the character of Rabbi Miriam! The whole idea for the fic was born because I thought it'd be interesting for Dean to express his genuine, personal anger with God to an atheist, who is a religious leader. My original thought was to make him be in a church alone, just sobbing/screaming at the idols, and a pastor's like, "You good?" Then I remembered I don't really know what church or pastors are like, lmao. And, the concept of an atheist rabbi made more sense to me than an atheist pastor. From there, I just tried to make her loving, quirky, bold, passionate, wise, and helpful.
Some more Rabbi Miriam tidbits that (for now) only exist in my brain:
She plays the fiddle
Her wife is a fat Black Jewish woman who's a mechanic and owns/runs her own garage. They met at community college when they both went back to school to take a class for fun
Their son Dudi's adopted, trans, bi. DOES TRY to hit on Dean when they first meet, but then Miriam's like, "Young man WHAT are you doing? This is my friend the widower with the recently revived husband I've been telling you about." "Oh SHIT, sorry y'all. Hey Dean, good to finally meet you!"
She drinks a lot of Manischewitz which Dean clowns on her for cuz "Rabbi it's WINE. If you're going to drink, have a real drink, like beer" "Dean that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard" "And it's so sweet! You'll be pissing corn syrup!" "What I piss is none of your business"
She has a sister. That sister has a husband and 2 kids. Dean dated one of them in high school. Yes, Lenny Cortez. Neither Dean nor Rabbi Miriam have realized this connection yet
She and Sam aren't as tight as her and Dean, but they do love to hang out and talk about literature
Her and her wife both grew up with Yiddish speaking grandparents but they didn't retain much. When they got together they decided to relearn Yiddish together. Their son's a native speaker
She did a lot of peyote back in the day
Her and her wife have EXTENSIVE record and book collections. Just walls of them
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All-of-a-Kind Family Review
All-of-a-Kind Family by Sydney Taylor
CW: Scarlet Fever, Money Problems, Lost Child, Police Propaganda, Parental Problems, Jealousy
5/5
I recently overheard a conversation about Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. I couldn't help but think about the fact that I've never read the book nor seen an adaptation. I was raised on Sydney Taylor's All-of-a-Kind Family instead.* Certainly they aren't quite the same, but it was my story collection about young girls in a large family. I decided it was time to revisit this part of my childhood, and I'm very glad I did! I have been able to gush about it with my mom and remember things that had been lost to time. Taylor is an excellent author and Suzanne Toren did an amazing job narrating the audiobook.
All-of-a-Kind Family is about 5 Jewish sisters growing up in a tenement house in New York City in the early 1900s. Ella, Henny, Sarah, Charlotte, and Gertie are all very close. The book follows these sisters, their family, and a family friend as they go through roughly a year of their life. This family loves the library, seeing new things, and finding clever ways to spend their allowance. They get themselves into a fair bit of trouble, but they always have each other to count on when that happens.
This book is told in vignette-like chapters as it progresses through time. Each one is a little story from their lives, but it retains continuity as it goes from one to the next. For example, the first chapter is about a lost library book. The book is being paid back throughout the rest of the chapters, being brought up in a couple of them. I quite enjoyed this style of writing. There were some background plot lines to tie the whole book together, but I was specifically captivated by the chapter-long plots. It kept me from being able to predict what would come next. This was a relief, for I had forgotten much of All-of-a-Kind Family in the decades since reading it last.
One of the most interesting things about reading All-of-a-Kind Family now is that it's historical fiction from before even my mom was born. The book was written about the turn of the 20th century, it was published in 1951, and I read it in 2023. I had a lot of fun trying to figure out what was included as historical and what was just normal for Taylor. Tenement life is not something I knew a lot about. It was interesting to learn about the candy they had, all of the peddlers trying to sell things, and the fashion, among other things.
I certainly loved all the Judaism in All-of-a-Kind Family! This is likely why I was raised on the series, because it was a group of young Jewish kids. I'm only one of 3 instead of the large number in this family, but there was still plenty of relatable content. I smiled at all the Yiddish included, the voices done by the narrator, and all of the holidays they celebrated. Although each holiday was explained to Gertie, the youngest child, it's clear that the book was written for a Jewish audience (but don't let that discourage you if you aren't Jewish!). It was interesting to see the religion from their perspective, as they're clearly more conservative than I am. Women did not typically go to synagogue, and when they did, they were separated into sections. They also had the two sets of dishes that kosher rules dictate. I keep kosher-style. This means that I follow the basic rules only. Not everyone practices Judaism the same way, so I appreciate that variety being represented in what I read.
All-of-a-Kind Family is aimed at children, likely to be read to them by their parents. Each chapter is very much its own story, the children are young, and the other characters are referred to in ways a child would (ex. Mama, Library Lady). Still, it seems to have transcended time and age-range. Someone of any age could get something out of this book. The point of view for the book is 3rd Person Omniscient. That means you get to know what's going through the minds of the adults too. It also has some relatively universal themes like familial love, money problems, a love for reading, and the weight of responsibility. Don't be afraid to read a children's book for your own pleasure, especially this one.
If you like historical fiction, books about Jewish characters, or stories that take place in New York City, give All-of-a-Kind Family by Sydney Taylor a chance! The girls and Mama have all kinds of adventures for you to join them on. And if you need me to up the stakes, if you're a fan of Little Women, you can challenge me to read that while you read this! Now let's get to reading about these book lovers!
*I want to make it clear that I am snubbing Little Women, it just wasn't part of my childhood.
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