#(and the range of women on whom I've had crushes over my quarter-century of having a mentality to have crushes)

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Kiss, Romance, Beautiful

Kiss : What’s the sweetest thing someone has done for you?

Oh... students who tell me how important I was to them - how I made a difference in their lives.

It never gets any less moving.

Romance : Perfect date?

Hard to do in a vacuum... the other person should be considered, I would feel?

To me... this may be sappy, but what would make it perfect is the company. I'm happy with a museum, a meal, a hike, a movie... probably a number of other things - as long as I'm with the right person, it's all lovely.

Beautiful : Who is your ideal significant other?

Well, I mean, there's fantasy ideal and there's realistic ideal. 😅

Sticking to realistic ideal: lots of it was in the previous ask? Intellectually open and curious, quirky sense of humor (that I find funny - and she finds me funny), enjoys being in charge and leading... definitely a top 😂... more social than me (but not overly so)... some shared interests, some unique ones...

There's the "dating site checklist": not religious, not a big drinker, non-smoker, not a conservative.

These days, probably the big thing is, someone who can tolerate the periods where I get minimally communicative - or maybe even reach out and help me through them.

#but that may be fantasy ideal 😔 #nothing else is particularly unique or remarkable? #there's a thought that I might not have the best idea what I'm looking for #because I don't have a lot of experience looking #I didn't mention anything physical because I don't think there are any 'must have's? #I mean I want to find them attractive #(and I very much want them to find *me* attractive) #(and show it - frequently) #but for me the yes/no on that seems to be mostly based on their face #and it's unpredictable which #(I mean... certainly I have *predilections*...) #(but they're not necessities) #(and the range of women on whom I've had crushes over my quarter-century of having a mentality to have crushes) #(is *highly* diverse) #(physically speaking) #(I will say this) #(boobs are a particular weakness) #(😂😂😂) #the lack of imagination on the dating question is also probably a 'not enough experience' issue #the first one was easy to answer though #thank you for the asks! 😊 #(only took me 48 hours to answer 😅) #asks