#'oh its the aphobia' shut the fuck up biphobia hasnt made bi spaces turn into this nightmare

[235uranium]

bangs my head against the wall

#☢️.txt #i genuinely find aspec communities insufferable. only aroallo spaces are okay but theyre #usually dominated by cis straight men and like. ok good for them i do not relate tl a si #to a single thing here! #and some aroace complaining about ppl seeing ace and/or aro as modifiers. bitch it is a fucking modifer for me #if you get to call them full identities i get to call them modifers! why can no one here stand to have a single fucking disagreement! #'oh its the aphobia' shut the fuck up biphobia hasnt made bi spaces turn into this nightmare #where two ppl seeing their bisexuality in different ways causes them to downplay another #if you say ace/aro arent modifers you are doing the same shit you complained about. #theyre modifers and identities #'but these other-' shut the fuck up! plenty of ace/aro people see lesbian/gay/bi/ect as modifers. #whats with certain aroace ppl and being incapable of understanding their experience is not universal #why do i even try. my personal experiences with being aro are so far outside the norm that it barely matters #i need to just accept that i fit in more with trans bisexual spaces and kink spaces than aspec spaces #btw i know there is discourse around bisexuality but its definitely not to the level i see with aspec spaces.