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#i need to rewatch this it's been years #i remember it being good tho #like. gay love story in a small town where the townspeople are supportive? #SIGN ME UP #it's so cute

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When I see people sharing so much of their kids' lives, I think about that one time my child told a joke, I shared that joke with ONE FRIEND in a private conversation, and my child said "can you please ask me next time, before you tell people something about me?"

And, yes, I absolutely should. So I apologized, and now I ask.

"I love that video of you, can I show it to a friend?"

"Can I tell a friend about how clever you were just now?"

"Can I share this in the family group chat?"

"Can I show your art to grandma and grandpa?"

And it's not like my kids don't like when I share their jokes and puns and fun moments. They love it! But they want to have control over what I share with people. Even without their faces or their names. Even people we know and trust.

And they deserve to have that control.

My children are small so the examples are small. They wanted me to ask, so I ask. Just like being told to kiss my grandma's cheek when I was a kid was far from traumatizing, but I don't do that with my kids because it's a way to practice consent and become aware of bodily autonomy.

It gets both me and them in the habit of asking for consent and drawing boundaries and seeing the lines between their life and my life, their stories and my stories.

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what's the first movie you remember seeing in theaters? don't try and be all edgy and cool and say like tetsuo: the iron man. be honest.

Go!!

#i know i saw phantom menace in theaters but i don't remember being there #i DO remember attack of the clones in the theater tho #bc that changeling alien scared the SHIT outta me

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Me rn.

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#why did i subject myself to this

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first 5 faceless emojis are how your summers gonna go

#❤️💖🍑💐⬆️ #oh okay then 😳 #sounds promising

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Dance, Girl, Dance 1940 | dir. Dorothy Arzner Costume design by Edward Stevenson

#aw Lucy 🥺♥️

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London was actually sunny

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just remembered music is real

This post is for fans of MUSIC only

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Buster Keaton Coney Island - 1917

#GAWD he's so hot #buster keaton

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People who switch pronouns in songs to no-homo the situation are so funny. The idea literally never even occurred to me as a kid. Couldn’t be me. I am a woman scorned. I am a man who had his heart broken. I am a guy who hates his hometown. I’m a country boy, I’m a city girl. I’m a slut. I’m addicted to cocaine. It’s a song, man.

#I'm a bitch I'm a lover I'm a child I'm a mother I'm a sinner I'm a saint

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'Especially always being the funny guy, it's hard to convince people that you're anything other than that. Just seeing Rhys really hone in on those moments was like 'Oh, shit, alright.' It's really beautiful.'

#ofmd

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I'm watching ds9 and I'm so sorry people who are obsessed with secondary/supporting characters. I get it now I understand your pain I am one of you. every episode I'm like man I hope I see my guy garak this time. I miss my guy garak. and almost every time there is no fucking garak. just watched the ep shadowplay and when bashir MENTIONED garak I leaped into the air and clapped my hands and cheered. crazy behavior. good show though. I am enjoying it

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Lilo & Stitch (2002)