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i wanna DROWN in love

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my cat

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the people who are supposed to love me are quite often the ones that hurt me most

#sad thoughts #depression #gaslighting #toxic love #toxic #sad #sadness #broken #hurt

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“If someone would‘ve told us 3 years ago, that at some point we‘d never speak again, we would have laughed in their face. I don‘t know about you, but I‘m not laughing.”

— The Poetic Boy

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“Why do we try so hard for people who don’t even try for us?”

— Unknown

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Reason to Live #5590

  To give my cat lil forehead kisses. – Guest Submission

(Please don’t add negative comments to these posts.)

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“Sucks when you want to be heartless but you know that’s not who you are.”

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“To not have your suffering recognized is an almost unbearable form of violence.”

— Andrei Lankov

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abusers will go “i would never do that” while doing it, having done it, and planning to do it again

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gaslighting does not always involve them calling you “crazy”

sometimes gaslighting is you protesting over and over, and them saying “you don’t have to make such a big deal out of it”

sometimes it’s “i really tried my best with you, but clearly i couldn’t do it”

sometimes it’s “i would never do that to you”, “if you really asked me to stop, wouldn’t i have stopped?”, “i don’t know what i’d do if i ever hurt you”

“denying and rewriting your reality” is not a one-time conversation, either. it is a sneak attack, flying under the radar and taking you out, one communication at a time, never drawing all the attention at once.

it is not your fault that you never saw it coming.

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If you’re still alive, I’m proud of you.

I’m proud of you for pulling through the hard times. Even if things are not better now, I’m still proud of you.

Because when shit gets hard, and there is no hope, you stuck through all of it.

If that isn’t an achievement, I don’t know what is.

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i think sometimes it's really important to recognize your limits. while it's great to try and always push yourself to be better and push your limits, it's also super easy to get burnt out by doing so. recognize your limits. some days you will have the energy to push past them, and some days you won't—that's okay! it's important to find a balance between pushing yourself while also allowing yourself rest.

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“You don’t have to talk. Just sit by me and let me enjoy the peacefulness of your presence. You don’t have to entertain me. Your warmth is enough.”

- Korreain Johnson