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Defund and abolish is making more and more sense. End qualified immunity for police, too.

How many more are buried there?!!!

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I think Peeta is an okay dude at some parts but you guys really ruin him by turning everything into Everlark. 🤦

Like, I've just seen a heartbreaking post about how The Capitol stripped him of all of his humanity and at the end it says "But he still learned to love Katniss despite everything" LIKE WHAT THE FUCK? THE POINT OF THE BOOK. OUT THE WINDOW. INTO THE DUMPSTER. THAT IS ON FIRE. AND THE SPREADING THE ASHES OVER THE ARCTIC OCEAN.

Now I am no saint and I am a die hard Everthrone shipper but for the love of god I don't romanticize anyone's trauma like wtf 😭

I said it once, I'll say it before, you're sexualizing, overlooking and romanticizing the bad parts of it all just like The Capitol citizens did in the books

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the first woman who saw cave paintings must've felt craaazyyyyyy. she couldn't even reblog them..

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Mean Girls (2004) House MD (2009)

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My little Zukka head canon is that Zuko would tell Sokka how he got his scar. Zuko would be like “Yeah it was bad but it set me down the path to joining Aang. So I try to see the good instead of dwelling on what can’t be changed.”

And Sokka is just like “I’m so glad you have grown sweetie” and just takes his sword to go murder Ozai in prison.

Zuko had his ‘over coming anger’ arc. Sokka on the other hand has been looking for a reason to murder that man.

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“Fight well. Keep us safe. I love you.” 😭😭😭

These platonic soulmates have my whole heart omg

#the poppy war

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please put emphasis on platonic soulmates in media. on unconditional love and loyalty based off of pure friendship. on heart wrenching breakups between best friends that change their lives. on knowing someone else better than they know themselves. on being a shining light for each other and finding happiness in the darkest places. on fighting side by side until the end, because a lover may visit your grave but your best friend will be in there with you

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i love you insane, unhinged female characters who fuck everything up. i love you female rage that ruins everything else. i love you evil women who don't give a shit.

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what murdaaaaaa

posting this Rin here bc a kind soul in my asks reminded me I hadn't :)

#the poppy war

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‘I have become something wonderful, she thought.

I have become something terrible.

Was she now a goddess or a monster?

Perhaps neither. Perhaps both’

#the poppy war

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"trust your gut" is such evil advice it's like. my gut is telling me there's 1000 ways everyone including friends want to attack and kill me like it's Dark Souls over here

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Something that literally changed my life was working with a friend on a coding thing. He was helping me create an auto rig script and was trying to explain something to me but his words were just turning into static in my brain. I was tired and confused and there was so many new concepts happening.

I could feel myself working toward a crying meltdown and was getting preemptively ashamed of what was about to happen when he said, “Hey, are you someone who benefits from breaks?”

It broke me.

Did I benefit from breaks? I didn’t know. I’d never taken them.

When a problem frustrated or upset me I just gritted my teeth and plowed through the emotional distress because eventually if you batter and flail at something long enough you figure it out. So what if you get bruised on the way.

I viscerally remembered in that moment being forced to sit at the table late into the night with my dad screaming at me, trying to understand math. I remembered taking that with me into adulthood and having breakdowns every week trying to understand coding. I could have taken a break? Would it help? I didn’t know! I’d never taken one!

“Yes,” I told him. We paused our call. I ate lunch. I focused on other stuff for half an hour. I came back in a significantly better state of mind, and the thing he’d been trying to explain had been gently cooking in the back of my head and seemed easier to understand.

Now when I find myself gritting my teeth at problems I can hear his gentle voice asking if I benefit from breaks. Yes, dear god, yes why did I never get taught breaks? Why was the only way I knew to keep suffering until something worked?

I was relating to this same friend recently my roadtrip to the redwoods with my wife. “We stopped every hour or so to get out and stretch our legs and switch drivers. It was really nice. When I was a kid we’d just drive twelve hours straight and not stop for anything, just gas. We’d eat in the car and power through.”

He gave a wry smile, immediately connecting the mindset of my parents on a road trip to what they’d instilled in me about brute forcing through discomfort. “Do you benefit from breaks?” he echoed, drawing my attention to it, making me smile with the same sad acknowledgement.

Take breaks. You’re allowed. You don’t have to slam into problems over and over and over, let yourself rest. It will get easier. Take. Breaks.

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What the sneef? I'm snorfin' here!

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I love doing the little *?* Head tilt because I'm just a confused little dog!! I don't understand!