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HEY

wanna know some things I've learned the more I immerse myself in queer spaces?

transfem folks are incredibly funny and very good at putting up with my bad humour

I would trust someone who uses they/them or it/it's pronouns to help me figure out an outfit before anyone else

transmasc folks like to act tough but really were probably the sweetest motherfuckers alive

transphobes/homophobes really have no clue what they're talking about do they?

disabled queers seem very willing to commit acts of violence

you can pretty much guarantee anyone with trauma to have your back no matter what

the witches and satanists are chill

even if it doesn't seem like it at first there's actually a lot of us who are also alterhuman in some way

you can always trust the autistic folks to know something about pretty much anything

hey, you reading this, you're cute :3

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I haven't seen this version anywhere so I made one!

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lesbians, hear me:

being transmasc doesnt mean you have to be butch

being transfem doesnt mean you have to be femme

you can be a transfem butch lesbian

you can be a transmasc femme lesbian

it is only those who ignorantly believe that butch = man and femme = woman that think this isnt possible

#transmasc lesbian #transfem lesbian #transmasc femme #transfem butch #lesbian #lesbian pride #butch #femme #transmasc #transfem #for my lesbian followers

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tgif stands for trans gender it’s friday

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Remember the survey I did in June? Well, I'm doing another one! This survey is to collect information about people who feel that the multigender label describes them. If you don't feel that way, this survey is not for you, but it would be appreciated if you reblog this or share it with multigender people you know. If you are questioning whether you identify as multigender, you may take the survey, but please specify in the first question that you are questioning. 

You can take the survey here :)

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Hey fellow Pride Knights! Today is May 17th, which means it is International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia! A date which commemorates the day in 1990 when the World Health Organisation removed homosexuality as a mental illness. 

The LGBTQ+ community has come a long way since then and today is a day to celebrate this. We still have a long road ahead of us but we will never stop fighting! We hope you all have an amazing day today!

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Here's the thing:

Cis people really do feel like the gender they were assigned at birth.

Cis women really do feel like women, and cis men really do feel like men. They experience what we would call gender euphoria related to dressing and expressing themselves as their gender, whether that's in a femme way or a butch way or any other way. They feel joy and connection with their gender, with their sexuality and how it relates to their gender. They wear clothes, participate in activities, and express themselves in ways that affirm their gender identity.

Gender critical radfems and terfs will try to convince you that "no woman feels like a woman". They do this for several reasons. Firstly, it's to try to convince trans men they aren't trans, they're just women with no connection to womanhood because "no woman feels a connection to womanhood". They also do it to try to discredit trans women, by saying "If you feel like a woman, then you're clearly not a woman, because "woman" isn't a feeling, it's biology".

A lot of gender critical terfs and radfems claim they are "dysphoric women", and will try to convince you this is a normal state of womanhood. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say no, that doesn't sound normal at all, actually. Most women do not secretly wish they could be men, or more androgynous, or have a penis. Most women don't define their lives through suffering - they love being women.

If womanhood - or manhood - is making you miserable... you might be trans, or you might be gender nonconforming. See if dressing a different way makes you feel a spark of joy and happiness - seek euphoria!

Gender should be joyous, not drudgery.

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Hey fellow Pride Knights! Today is May 17th, which means it is International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia! A date which commemorates the day in 1990 when the World Health Organisation removed homosexuality as a mental illness. 

The LGBTQ+ community has come a long way since then and today is a day to celebrate this. We still have a long road ahead of us but we will never stop fighting! We hope you all have an amazing day today!

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:3

How about a picrew train? This picrew has so many labels in it! It’s very well done!

Link to picrew

@eccentric-kalki-talde @dreams-your-smp @mossybelovd @indigojupiter2 Tagging some friends but anyone can join in!

#piccrew #i suck at using electronics #it probably could have been better xD

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Just wanted to clear this thing up

Friendly reminder that if I haven’t answered your ask the same day, it means either: 

I want to treasure that ask forever

I dont feel up to social interaction

I didnt have time, and ended up forgetting about it

What it does NOT mean:

I dont like getting asks

You’re bothering me by sending asks

SAME APPLIES FOR UNANSWERED TAG GAMES!

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Can we get a Nix-operuit moodboard? With themes of thunder snow storms, and just how the gender feels, please? Thank you! -@validgendersonlytm

I hope you like it!

[Image description: a nine square moodboard with a light blue flag in the middle and full of pictures of lightning and snow. End description.]

No new requests please! I’m just clearing out the backlog.

#nix-operuit #aaaaa thank you #thunderstorm tw

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Hi sorry if im a bother but can i get some pronouns based off of magical girls and magic in general!

I'll be honest, I don't know much about magical girls, but I am a practicing witch, so I just stayed closely to magical pronouns in general, I hope that's okay!

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Mag/magi/magic/magical

Magi/magic/magical/magicself

Wan/wand/wands/wandself

Sep/sept/septor/septself

Orb/orb/orbs/orbself

Wiz/wizard/wizards/wizardself

Wit/witch/witchs/witchself

Staff/staff/staffs/staffself

#jay rambles #jays pronouns #pronouns #new pronouns #neo pronouns #mogai pronouns #magic pronouns #magical pronouns #wizard pronouns #witch pronouns

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hello! could we please get some pronouns themed around Venti from Genshin Impact? or just based around Mondstadt in general if that's too specific? tysm! (and feel free to ignore this if u need to! we hope u have a good day :])

So sorry for the long wait!!! I needed to wait for the spoons to research Venti 🥺

Ven/vent/venti/ventself

Wi/wind/windborn/windself

Bard/bards/bards/bardself

Sky/skys/skyward/skyself

Storm/storms/stormeye/stormself

#jay rambles #venti pronouns #kin pronouns #alter pronouns #fictive pronouns #mogai pronouns #neo pronouns #new pronouns #pronouns

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Do you have any dreaming themed pronouns?

Zzz/Zzz/Zzz/Zzzself

Dre/dream/dreaming/dreamself

Sle/sleep/sleeping/sleepself

Peace/peace/peaceful/peaceself

Snore/snores/snoring/snoreself

#jays pronouns #dreaming pronouns #neo pronouns #new pronouns #pronouns

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Hi, I hope you're doing well. If its not too much trouble, could you please reblog my donation post? It would really help me out, I'm trying to get safe housing, thank you https://paradise-was-always-lost.tumblr.com/post/669841119622971392/help-a-trans-girl-get-safe-housing-for-the

I hope you can get to a safe place! /gen

#jay rambles #terfs dni #terfs fuck off #not mogai #donation post #help her if you can please

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How to spot signs and symptoms of Breast Cancer 

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bro… my body my choice. don’t tell me i have to get a substance injected into my body when it literally doesn’t affect you at all. if u want the vaccine, then u get it. then you’re protected and shouldn’t care what i choose to do. and if u believe the vaccine doesn’t protect u, then there’s no reason to force it on everyone else. and same thing for masks, u wear one if u want, but don’t be forcing that on others. medical freedom is still a thing and should be cheered for. i’m sorry to rant but like wtf??? why would u be mad ur job is respecting its employees freedom??? (btw i’m 20 and think this so it’s not a generational thing, it’s a medical rights/freedom thing.) like seriously can u explain why ur mad? how does other people choosing whether or not to get the vaccine effect u at all??

Bro IM FINALLY IN THE ANON HATE CLUB! omg I thought I was too unpopular but lookit!

Let me be clear, I don't care if you don't get it or not. And I never said people should get it against their will or PERISH- What bothered me was that people were cheering to not get the vaccine when their fellow coworkers have up and died from covid, so like...I'm just frazzled that people still aren't taking this entire thing seriously to begin with

I'm sorry but I trust science more than I trust the strangers I work with every day