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*places an orange just outside a fairy ring to see what comes out* science is more of an art than a science

#tumblr shenanigans #science? #the fae

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Universal Monsters - art by Shag

#shag #josh agle #universal monsters #universal horror #horror art #halloween art #frankenstein #bride of frankenstein #the mummy #the wolf man

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A woman went viral for being turned down for a next interview for a role, she asks the recruiter what she did wrong, the recruiter tells her they were “concerned about her lack of effort in her appearance.”

She explains she wore a freshly ironed blazer with a collared top. Her nails were painted a professional beige. She got a blowout for her hair, so a professional style. She had on subdued gold earrings.

The only thing she wasn’t wearing was makeup; she states she really doesn’t wear makeup, and only had chapstick on, as her skin is sensitive. Her lawyer mother has already explained she has no legal case against the company for any type of gender-based discrimination.

Just in case anyone wants to ask why feminists still refer to the “pink tax” or rail against more and more elaborate makeup trends being pushed on girls and women.

Women being punished socially for not wearing makeup is still a feminist issue.

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I'm going to send the have a good day body euphoria eat a delicious snack spell at you

it's kinda unavoidable unless you can dispel magic

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I hope every writer who sees this writes LOADS the next few months. Like freetime opens up, no writers block, the ability to focus, etc etc you're able to write loads & make lots of progress <3

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It's important to drink a lot of fluids when you're sick so that your body has the raw materials to generate gallons of snot.

#literally sick rn #perfect post #10/10

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Due to personal reasons, I’ll be growing as a person and learning to love myself.

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When I see people sharing so much of their kids' lives, I think about that one time my child told a joke, I shared that joke with ONE FRIEND in a private conversation, and my child said "can you please ask me next time, before you tell people something about me?"

And, yes, I absolutely should. So I apologized, and now I ask.

"I love that video of you, can I show it to a friend?"

"Can I tell a friend about how clever you were just now?"

"Can I share this in the family group chat?"

"Can I show your art to grandma and grandpa?"

And it's not like my kids don't like when I share their jokes and puns and fun moments. They love it! But they want to have control over what I share with people. Even without their faces or their names. Even people we know and trust.

And they deserve to have that control.

My children are small so the examples are small. They wanted me to ask, so I ask. Just like being told to kiss my grandma's cheek when I was a kid was far from traumatizing, but I don't do that with my kids because it's a way to practice consent and become aware of bodily autonomy.

It gets both me and them in the habit of asking for consent and drawing boundaries and seeing the lines between their life and my life, their stories and my stories.

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Reblog In 5 seconds for good luck

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I need a boyfriend that I dominate and another one that dominates me but the one I dom in turn dominates the one that doms me. Like a Rock Paper Scissors throuple. Lol I don’t actually want this but it’s a funny concept to think about. and would heal the world

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Sokka's girlfriend looked great today.

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obvs acab but the scottish police force have the chance to do the funniest thing right now

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Happy Leland Melvin Day!!!

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even so much as sleeping on a surface that is too hard or so soft that it lets your spine dip in the middle is enough to make a person with a bad back have pain and issues functioning and walking for days. it's fucked up that mattresses that can fuck up people's backs are even allowed to be produced in the first place. just being able to sleep at night on something that doesn't cause you more pain shouldn't be a luxury. accessibility aids should come standard, not secondary.

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Its me, your feral godmother

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I’ve made so many plan A’s and plan B’s and C’s at this point.

What the Fuck am I supposed to do??

#my plans to move in with my bestie keep falling through or delaying #and every where else is expensive as fuck #I need houseint and rent to go down for real #I’m going to be stuck in my small as college town longer than ever planned for and for what? #a dead end call center job and failed college degree?? #absolutely not #but I can’t affford anything else #I can’t afford anything without a college degree that I flunked out of #but I also can’t afford to go back to that stupid ass miserable ass dead in college degree that I will do nothing with #and honestly I just I can’t afford to move out of this godforsaken town #But if I stay here #I’m gonna fucking kill myself #And I have a whole cat to think about #And he’s not even that expensive #But trying to move him from place to place would be a fucking nightmare #everything is a goddamn dead-end right now and I don’t know what the fuck to do