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[valehirvas]

If I drove a bulldozer through an apple store and the cops just shoved me in a closet and pumped me full of DMT for 8 hours id literally just do it again the second they let me out

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Love it when people act like proving “rape or incest” exceptions for abortion are even possible, lmao

Quick, prove you were raped so you can access an abortion! How? I don’t know! Maybe you’ll have to get a rape test done at the hospital and prove you have sufficient bruising? Maybe it’ll require filing charges? Maybe it’ll require a full ass criminal trial which is gonna take longer than 9 months, lol.

Prove you were a victim of incest! How? I don’t know, because if you’re a victim of incest you might very well be a young child who doesn’t have the emotional strength and knowledge to even describe the abuse that’s happening to you, let alone advocate for your rights. And even if you are an adult, I dare you to go in front of a judge and detail the sexual abuse from you brother/father/uncle and come out of that untraumatised, all to get permission to have access to abortion. Make sure you get the courage up in just a few weeks!

What about threats to life of the mother exceptions? Quick! What’s the line you draw there? If a mother has extremely high blood pressure and diabetes and is at risk of death early enough in the pregnancy, is that enough for a termination? What about if the mother has an ectopic pregnancy? Or do we have to wait until the mother is suffering from sepsis and shock, blood poisoning maybe? Do mental health issues ever factor in?

It is literally impossible to place such restrictions on abortion that actually work, that are feasible and acceptable to those that would otherwise ban abortions outright.

Abortion on demand is the only answer.

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Ladies if you have kids consider sending your daughters to an all girls school. Can you being a 13 year old girl with a classmate like this creep?

Dear Care and Feeding,

I am shocked by a recent revelation about my 13-year-old son, “Luke.” His school gave all the kids laptops at the beginning of the year to complete schoolwork and attend remote classes. Students are expected to only use the computer for academic purposes, but of course kids will be kids. When my son’s school called me about what they found on his computer, however, it was beyond what I could’ve imagined. Apparently, Luke has been watching horrifying pornography involving necrophilia, as well as pornographic snuff films. I know that kids his age are often fascinated by sex, but there’s a huge difference to me between a teen watching a video of consenting adults having sex and them watching a video where someone defiles a corpse or is killed during sex. It’s hard to look at him the same way after I found this out. I asked him about it, and he says he came across these videos accidentally. However, I don’t believe that because the school explained that his internet browsing history showed that he was actively searching for this type of content on online search engines. It seems highly abnormal for a teen to be watching videos like this, and I’m worried about the impact they’ll have on him. I’m honestly considering sending him to a therapist, but my husband thinks that’s too extreme. What should I do about my son’s disturbing pornography habit?

Horrified in Houston

Dear Horrified,

Your son’s porn viewing habits could have gotten him in a lot of trouble at school; perhaps your husband will consider this when you reintroduce the conversation about therapy—as you should. The internet is filled with lots of shocking sexual content for unsupervised kids to discover, but your young son has managed to find—and to repeatedly seek out—images that are incredibly disturbing and difficult to process, even for adults. Therapy is not “too extreme” an option; it’s, in my opinion, an urgent and necessary one. Your son needs healthy ways to explore his budding sexuality; consuming snuff films could not be any further from that. It’s important that you get your son to someone who can help him to contextualize and move on from this interest into something more age-appropriate. I don’t think the two of you should be expected to know how to do that without the help of a professional. Please don’t take this lightly. Wishing you all the best.

How long would this have gone on if the school did discover it? Why weren’t they doing basic search history? Is he an only child in that house or does he have a sister?

She should have called him out about lying about how he came across it by accident.

Send the brat and the dad to therapy. What kind of father doesn’t see the issue with a 13 old watching this stuff?

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And what happens when they can’t pay?

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Hmmm

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I remember reading about this like last year, and basically rich peoples private ponds are having wild otters come in and eating their million dollar koi fish, so it actually has made them more popular with many of the working class in Singapore who already admired the otters, so its sort of similar to those capybara in Argentina

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my body, tearfully: when sleep???

me: my dude we just woke up!! It’s time for wakefulness and doing things and Productivity

my body, weeping: but???? when sleep?????

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Thank you for the context!!

People really do become ugly when their inside is ugly, it shines out just as much as a kind soul shines outward. ever read the famous silverstein poem, or did you sleep in class and inherited ignorance instead of truth.

I actually didn't attend school much beyond sixth grade thanks to abuse and disability. And yes, I actually slept through a lot of the bit I did attend, given how I couldn't sleep at night.

I also don't think we read Silverstein in Finland.

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People really do become ugly when their inside is ugly, it shines out just as much as a kind soul shines outward. ever read the famous silverstein poem, or did you sleep in class and inherited ignorance instead of truth.

I actually didn't attend school much beyond sixth grade thanks to abuse and disability. And yes, I actually slept through a lot of the bit I did attend, given how I couldn't sleep at night.

I also don't think we read Silverstein in Finland.

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The persistent idea that this is what really matters. Nothing else.

A lot of terfs on Tumblr are cute. I don't get it, why would you throw away that beauty? Why would you hate trans women?

… HUH? 😐

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You know what I love? When people call the whole community "queer". It's even better when I get called queer by Randos and then told not to tag it as a slur. Why not just call me a cripple because I'm disabled? Why not call me a bitch because I'm a woman? Why not use every other slur that applies to me?

And you know what I love more than being essentially called a freak by own community? Being told that I ought to not be offended because they graciously reclaimed it FOR ME. Thank you so much, I appreciate it so much when you have the audacity to tell me how offensive it is that I don't like being called something that a) means weird/odd/abnormal and b) is still used as a slur today.

It's so wonderful to be told by my community to shut the fuck up about literally being called an abnormality. This is totally not just catholic school all over again.

And the cherry on top is how fantastic it feels to be called queer by straight people because "it's not a slur anymore."

I'm so glad we're taking pride in being othered by straights for something I thought we couldn't control.

I'm so glad that I'm weird and abnormal for liking the same sex. Thank you. I truly appreciate it.

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i love that we and cats share pareidolia (seeing patterns where they dont exist), but instead of seeing faces in everyday objects like us, they see snakes

that computer cord? snake. string? small snake. cucumber? short fat straight snake

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i find it so weird that ‘terfs’ are the most hated thing on here. on my main blog, i have people that follow me with “F TERFS!!!” in their bio and “reblog if you would punch a terf” posts all over their blog. but nothing about neo nazis? y’know, people who actually kill? or pedophiles? do you know how many “block and be safe uwu” posts i’ve seen about terfs? but, again, 0 for people like neo nazis. 

honestly, i just think y’all are pussies. y’all want something to rage against that isn’t your own parents, and neonazis are too scawy to go against because they’d easily gang up on you, give you a panic attack, and make you delete. so you settle for terfs since the extent of their “””violence””” is hating porn and blogging about labias.

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I WANT MORE BISEXUAL & FEBFEM BLOGS TO FOLLOW !!!

lesbians are lovely ofc and i'll keep following them too, but y'all are the overwhelming majority on radblr and i personally prefer interacting more with the sisters i better relate to in terms of sexuality and experiences :,)

#bi & female exclusive! #promo

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