Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
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Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
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Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
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Leigh Bardugo, King of Scars
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all art should come to you in a vision if it doesnt come to you in a vision you shouldnt make it
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*loading my shotgun* so get this... He's a chubby chaser
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Kink spaces in my town are so toxic.... Why do none of you motherfuckers wanna talk about boundaries with me 😭😭😭 it's like bro I'm not letting you beat the shit out of me for funsies wtf
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Why are German Doms the actual worst bro 😭 I've never met a dominant man from Germany that knows how to respect boundaries wtfff
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The Crucible by Arthur Miller
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wags my stupid fucking tail
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Neon Genesis Evangelion, “The Beast that Shouted “I” at the Heart of the World” (1996)
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I watch my life pass me by
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Tinder bio idea: I won't ruin your life but I will ruin your day 😘
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