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Happy Birthday Diego!🥰🎂💖

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S/I: Ok it’s time to put the angel on top of the tree

F/O: I don’t think you’ll fit on there

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Anyways,

Definitely don’t think about the first time you and your f/o make physical contact with each other.

Don’t think about how there heart beats a little or a lot faster.

Don’t think about them lingering in the moment for a second too long.

And don’t even dare think of the love struck look on there face that’s there for a second and gone the next.

Most importantly, don’t think of them looking and tracing over the spot where, for a glorious second, their skin had touched yours.

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🌸 Friendly reminder that you don't ever have to do anything to change yourself in order to be "worthy" of your F/O's love! They loved you first, they love you now as you are, and they will keep doing so.

You've always been enough for them, always will. Never forget that!

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crushing on a new f/o is just like *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records their scene* *screen records-

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you can have a crush on a character and it doesn’t ever have to be more than that if you don’t want it to be !!! sometimes we think of a ‘crush’ as a middle ground, a state in between ‘not an official f/o’ and ‘official f/o’, like it’s a trial period. and that’s totally fine if that’s what you want it to be! but it’s also okay if a crush is its own thing. you don’t have to “promote” them to full fledged F/O, and you don’t have to remove them if you don’t think they’re gonna end up as anything more. crushes can come in all different types, and some crushes are just more fun when they’re left as crushes. maybe you just like liking them. maybe you just like flirting with them, but you don’t want to do any kind of relationship stuff. that’s all okay! it’s okay to have whatever kind of dynamics you want!!!

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unresolved feelings prompts

stolen glances

hands always finding each other’s

sleeping on opposite sides of the bed but waking up entangled

eyes falling on each other’s lips

losing your train of thought when in each other’s presence

a very intimate kiss on the forehead/hand

almost saying i love you before stopping themselves

leaning in for a kiss but pulling away last second

hugs that last just a little longer than usual

touching each other's hands and feeling your soul being set on fire

a kiss on the cheek that almost turns into a real kiss

catching each other with someone else and being jealous

bandaging each other up and sharing a tender moment, grabbing your lover's face and not being able to let go

accidentally saying i love you

catching each other undressed and very obviously checking each other's bodies out

somehow always ending up in each other’s presence, even when you don't mean to

feeling like something is missing but not knowing what when you're not with each other

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chag chanukah sameach let’s get lit 🕎

#Sorry I'm a little late!💖

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If you think that masc/amab/male aligned people shouldn't be allowed in the selfship community or don't have a place here, get the fuck off my blog. Selfshipping is literally for everyone and anyone, not just feminine folks.

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I can't talk right now, I'm doing hot self-insert shit

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i'm sorry i have so many f/os, i just have a lot of love in my heart

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you know this already but

i’m all yours

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Things that make a selfshippers valid: a list

Having only one or very few f/o's (platonic or otherwise)

Having many f/o's (platonic or otherwise again;;)

Being ok with sharing

Not being ok with sharing

Having a specific type

Having a varying type

Being gay, lesbian, bisexual, pan, omni, poly, ace/aro, trans, any idenity in the LGBTQ+ community

Being poc

Having a disability

Being "ugly" (even though you're beautiful and don't realize it)

Liking evil characters

Liking good characters

Liking morally grey characters

Having a self insert

Having multiple self inserts

Writing your own au's and fanficiton

You are extremely valid no matter what!! So even if you don't fit what has been put on this list, your f/o's love you and you're amazing!!

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Imagine comforting your f/o who's struggling to accept themselves. Maybe something has happened recently that reminded them of something terrible that has happened to them. Imagine holding them as you pat their back. Perhaps they even cry a little. But you reassure them that this time - everything will be okay. You're together now. And you will stay with them through everything.

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anybody else have that moment where your f/o do some stupid shit and you yelled your screen by saying

“SWEETIE I LOVE YOU BUT WHAT THE FUCK ARE DOING?!?!?”

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Are you self shipping with a character who has 5 minutes screentime or are you normal

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ok but imagine the face your f/o would make when eating a lemon and they realize how sour it is! how does their face contort? do they squint their eyes and stick their tounge out? 🍋

or maybe vice versa, where your f/o reacts to the face you make when eating a lemon. what would their reaction be? would they laugh? maybe be a bit concerned?

bonus: if your f/o is a robot, imagine how confused they would be when seeing you eat a lemon and reacting from the sourness