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Tips on writing about: Birth!

So, I gave birth in early November. Just thought I'd quickly jot down some tips for anyone new who is writing about a character giving birth, anything to do with it, etc.

sometimes, a person will need inducing. This can be for many reasons. E.g. Medical problems (Gestational diabetes, Cholestasis), Being overdue with no sign of the baby coming, weight problems with the baby.

I'll be real, it hurts. Bad. Imagine period pain X10. With feeling like you need to go to the toilet. Bad.

Might think they can do it alone at first (I did), but will soon be begging for anyone to be called to come to them. (Also me).

Sometimes, an emergency c section is required. I had to have one for example because my labour wasn't progressing. In total, I was in labour for 15 hours. Active labour for 8 hours 20 mins of those 15 hours.

Please research on c sections! It's not easier, it's harder. You're awake when they cut you open, numb from the waist down, so you can't lift your legs (which is what they ask you to try and do before the surgery). All you can feel is tugging and pulling, but when the spinal block wears off later, you'll feel it. You can't bend down, lift anything heavy, drive, or walk too much for about 6-8 weeks. Or until a doctor says you can.

You can also get an infection in your wound. Requires antibiotics. (I was on two different ones for 10 days).

In my case, though others will be different, my wound turned properly into a scar after 7 weeks postpartum.

Sometimes a midwife has to break your waters, as you can go into labour WITHOUT them breaking.

To add to this, you have two waters when pregnant. Front and back waters. Front waters is what is typically shown to break. I had to have my front waters broke , but my back waters went a few days before getting induced. I didn't know until they said I didn't have any.

If having gas and air, it makes you feel like you're drunk. Like "I've just had a drink too fast" type of drunk.

You can cry during labour. I did. There's no shame in it.

BUT it's all worth it to have your little baby born and to see them and hold them for the first time.

#writing tips #factstho

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hi sweetie! congrats on your baby!!! I hope both baby and mother are well and in good health!! More love to you and your little pumpkin💕

Thank you so much! 💞 We're both well!

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My daughter Aurelia arrived on the 7th Nov weighing 7lbs 2 via emergency c section. She's thriving and doing well, is currently 8lbs 😊

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Sharing because while I don't get a reaction straight away if my blood sugar is high, if it's low I go into a hypo episode. Also with carrying a baby, it's not just my life it's my baby's life. Don't sneak it in their drinks.

Maybe he’s ordering a decaf because he has a heart condition, and you’re about to give him a heart attack and send him to the hospital.

Or maybe he’s just ordering a decaf.

Maybe she’s ordering sugar free because she’s diabetic, and you’re about to put her six feet under.

Or maybe she’s just ordering sugar free,

Maybe they’re ordering non-dairy because they’re intolerant, and you’re about to ruin their day. Maybe they’re allergic, and you’re about to sponsor an all black event in an open field.

Or maybe they’re just ordering non-dairy.

Maybe they ordered gluten free because they can’t process it, and you’re about to destroy their digestive tract.

Or maybe they’re just ordering gluten free.

Maybe they’re ordering this way just because they don’t want the food, for whatever reason.

But are you willing to bet their life on it?

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Hey, how you been doing?

Hi anon! Forgot my login for a bit.

I'm doing okay, thanks! I found out I have gestational diabetes and struggling to manage sugar levels. I have 9 weeks left until baby is born, I'm getting quite nervous.

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To writers, here's some tips on writing about pregnancy.

From a pregnant woman ☺️

Just remember everyone is different, and this is mainly based on my experiences.

- Morning sickness doesn't normally start until 6 weeks of pregnancy.

- Not everyone throws up.

- Not everyone has crazy cravings.

- Pregnancy is scary and worrying. But also exciting. It's okay to be scared.

- Body aches and pains don't start up usually until the second trimester.

- About showing, I started showing a bit at 10 weeks, while some may show earlier or later. There's no written rule on this, can be a mix of water retention, gas and baby.

- Acid reflux is a thing. And it's so uncomfortable. I can't eat anything without getting it 😂

- With hormones, crying at nothing can be a thing! But depends on the person.

- On a scan, you won't hear the heartbeat until 15 weeks. It's not a constant sound, they'll let you listen to it for a while. However, you can see it from 6 weeks.

- A baby won't be fully formed very early in pregnancy. If writing about a character having a scan and they see the fetus resembles a baby, this would likely be at 12 weeks and over. Not 4 weeks.

- You can find out the gender 15 weeks and over.

- Can I also say abusive and manipulative behaviour is not something to do with pregnancy hormones. That's just being a shitty person.

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Fics are starting up again in the upcoming week! Requests are welcomed!

Also have some news to share! I found out I'm having a baby girl! Only five months left!

#lotr #the hobbit #lord of the rings #the silmarillion #lotr elves #lotr fics #middle earth #haldir x reader #feanor x reader #fingolfin #feanor #legolas #thranduil #x reader #lotr fandom #bilbo #finrod #fingon #maedhros #maglor #ambarussa #curufin #curufinwe #feanorian

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Here's my baby at 10 weeks 4 days.

I'm now 3 months pregnant 🥰

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How do you make friends in fandoms? Asking for me

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Fics should be coming back in the near future, and may consider opening requests again.

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So I found out I'm 4 weeks pregnant 💖 🤰

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"Worried? There's no need to be-."

"PITYAFINWË!" The elleth yelled from one of the highest balconies, which so happened to be Feanor's bed chambers. Her voice was almost screeching, though nobody would guess that from her looks.

Pitya swallowed hard, placing the apple in her tunic pocket. "I have to go."

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It was a beautiful day, at least in Pitya’s opinion. The young elleth walked through the woods, giggling and twirling around. Such a cheerful elf, she was.

Nerdanel had sailed a year before, which prompted Feanor to find another soon to be wife. His fiancée only cared about her appearance, making sure she was to loveliest of all.

Realising it would soon be dinner, Pitya plucked a juicy apple from a tree, stuffed it in her dress pocket and ran back to the villa in which her and her family lived.

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Through her tears, Pitya briefly nodded and entered Arvo's home. The adrenaline was beginning to wear off, and she felt alone.

"She wants me dead." Pitya finally managed, staring into a cup of herbal tea. "A guard - she told him to kill me. I had to run."

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Pitya had got her basket and was being closely followed by the hunter, who seemed to watch her every move. Eventually, she settled down beside a bush and began to carefully pick the berries, making sure not to squeeze them. She looked behind at the right time, seeing the elf brandishing his sword to her.

“Why?” Was all Pitya could say.

The hunter sighed, bringing his sword down. “She wants you dead.” His voice shaky. “Better me than you. Now run!”

Pitya quickly scrambled to her feet, abandoned her basket and ran into the forest as quick as her legs would go. She only had one place in mind to go to for help.

He was walking up the path to his door when he heard feet on the ground behind him. Arvo turned, expecting to see one of his children running towards him.

“Pitya?” he frowned, dread pooling in his gut. Something was very wrong – you didn’t need foresight to know that. “Are you alright?”

He opened the door, ushering her inside.

“Come here, come here.”

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I’m sorry but personal events have made it impossible to write or do requests in my inbox.

Therefore, I am no longer writing for the requests in my ask box. I do apologise, however uncontrollable events in my personal life prevent me from doing so.

Thanks.

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Be on the lookout during these dates! I didn’t complete tolkiengenweek due to personal issues, but now it’s getting sorted I’m determined to do this in full.

Finwëan Ladies Week: October 5-11, 2020

Hello and welcome to Finwëan Ladies Week!

This is a week-long event celebrating the ladies of the line of Finwë! There have been events within the Silmarillion fandom focused on the sons of Finwë and their descendents, and to add to the fun this week was established to give his wives and daughters their own time to shine.

The first Finwëan Ladies Week ran from September 14-20, 2019. We are back for more in our second year, from October 5-11 2020!

Any content and creations about the ladies of Finwë’s line are welcome! You can create edits, gifs, fanart, fanfic, fanmixes, and more! This event will run from October 5-11, 2020! Please tag your posts with #finweanladiesweek AND @ mention this blog @finweanladiesweek so they can be easily found.

Below are some prompts for each day of the week. They are not mandatory, but they are here to inspire you. This page will lead to a detailed explanation for each one.

DAY ONE: Míriel Þerindë and Indis DAY TWO: Findis and Írimë Lalwen DAY THREE: Aredhel and Galadriel DAY FOUR: Later Generations DAY FIVE: Ladies Who Married In DAY SIX: Original Characters DAY SEVEN: Freeform

This event is being organized by mods Anna @arofili and Elle @elesianne. If you have any questions or suggestions, feel free to message this blog or reach out to Anna on their main blog.

For further clarification, check out our about, FAQ, and prompts pages! Happy creating!!

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When you teach your rabbit to hop on the couch 💖

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Our Tree

Word Count: 359

Pairings: Reader x Fingon

Trigger Warnings: Pregnancy

Plot: Fluff. Generated from this otp site. Reader and Fingon sit under a fruit tree in the middle of summer and talk about the good times.

“Remember our first date?” 

You smiled at your husband’s words, head laying in his lap. “I could never forget, my love.” 

Fingon smiled as he recounted the memory. “We went and had a picnic at the lake. We spent all day talking, and when the evening came we packed up and watched the sunset under this very tree. I looked at you, and thought you was the most beautiful elleth in the world.”

“Then we kissed, and it was amazing.” You finished, the big smile evident in your voice. 

“It was. That’s when I knew I loved you dearly and always will, no matter what.” His fingers threaded themselves through your hair, gently stroking the h/c tresses. You closed your eyes in content at the contact.

“I remember our third date. We ended up here after a day of riding and you asked to court me. I was the happiest of all.” You stated. 

Fingon chuckled, “You made me the happiest when you said agreed.” 

There was a peaceful silence that followed, hearing the birds chirp and the gentle breeze that carried the wonderful fragrance from the wild flowers. 

“We came here after we wed.” You started. “Just so you could get away from your royal duties for the day. I remember you left Turgon in charge and when we got back, he was asleep in the study.” 

Fingon laughed at the memory, “He hadn’t done anything.”

“You was annoyed at first!” You pointed out. 

“I was.” He agreed with a smile, leaning down to kiss your forehead. “Only because it would have taken me away from your presence for the following day.” 

“You know I don’t mind.” You said.

Fingon smiled and shifted his sitting position, “I know you don’t, but I do when we have our son to prepare for.” His hand moved to your swollen belly, feeling his heart swell with love when he felt the child kicking.

“Our child. We will take him to this very tree so he can experience the joys of it, also.” You placed your hand over his, looking up at Fingon. What followed was a loving kiss to your lips.

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