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I am a cisgender bisexual woman and I think my boyfriend, whose cisgender, might be asexual, a heteromantic asexual. Now he is intimate with me, but he doesnt usually initiate our intimate sessions and we are only intimate on special occasions. This doesnt change how I feel for him, but I am afraid that he is self conscious about talking to me about his questioning sexuality because ya know...societies toxic standards for manliness. Sand I just want him to be accepted and I've seen so much, just, judgment on heteromantic asexuals.

There is a special brand of judgement het aces face. And yes, asexual men do often find themselves in conflict with specific toxic traits our culture says men should have. From what you describe, it is possible that your boyfriend is on the asexual spectrum, in which case it would also be likely that he faces such things.

However, be careful not to project this as a certainty since he has not communicated any of this to you. There are other possibilities for his situation, whatever it is, and only he can decide how he wants to define and label his sexuality. In my opinion, you could share info with him if you think he doesn’t have it, try to help him feel comfortable discussing these topics with you, and overall just keep supporting him as I would bet you are based on what you typed here.

#asexuality #asexual #lgbtqia

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Alright, due to the amount of requests so far, the ace headcanon fics probably won’t be a quick thing(especially since I got assigned in total eight pages of college reflections today, all due in a week or less). I’m already writing them, but I’ll probably post multiple fics at a time instead of posting as I finish.

More requests are still welcome for now, and I’ll try to make a small update schedule. Thank you!

#asexuality #asexual #lgbtqia #not an asexual problem #writing #lgbt #ace headcanons

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Noctis from final fantasy XV is aroace and loves his friends with his whole being and really wishes they would drop the whole "so lucky to marry lunafreya" thing even though as arranged marriages go at least it's to a friend, and could 100% have been worse

Ooo, this one sounds super fun. Shall do.

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Edna Mode is hella aroace!!

Pfft, yeah she is. And she is also the BEST aunt.

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Dick Grayson is demisexual panromantic

It shall be done. I already have a request for Raven and Robin in the Teen Titans tv show, so this one will probably be a Nightwing one? Or at least tied to the comic books instead of the show.

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Eragon, from Christopher Paolini's Inheritance Cycle, is gray-ace. He only seems sexually attracted to Arya, while the feelings he gets for Nasuada and Trianna feel more like romantic attraction

Confession time: I haven’t read that series, and I’m aware that it is long. I’ll have to go to the library, get the first book, and read at least that, but I’ll still write something for him.

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About Bart: Not any continuity in particular. You can choose whatever you like since I'm a fan of them all.

Yaaaaay

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Honestly my biggest Ace headcanon is Bart Allen. (Impulse) I kinda think I'm reinforcing ace=childish stereotypes with it, but I don't care. I like it, and it fits most canon characterizations of him.

Headcanons don’t have to be held to such high standards since they’re an individual thing. Is there any specific continuity or comic line you want me to base this on?

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Draco Malfoy is ace and gay af for Blaise Zabini and Harry Potter

Ask and he shall receive a ficlet shortly. I’ll probably start tomorrow, guys, since it’s getting late where I am. Thank you.

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hc: ciel phantomhive is suuuuuuuuuuuper ace and loves lizzy with his whole heart

I’ve seen Black Butler, loved season one, so this’ll be a fun one. I’m thinking something fluffy with him and lizzy, but also obviously ace stuff.

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I've always felt that Raven from Teen Titans was acearo and Robin was aspec. Could be me projecting onto my favorite characters tho lol

Nah, I see it. Plus, puuuuurple. I’ve seen literally every episode of Teen Titans, so this should be easy for me. Thanks

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WONDER WOMAN IS A BIRO ACE ICON AND NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT AWAY FROM ME

YOU ARE RIGHT AND I RESPECT YOUWRITING ANY PIECE WITH WONDER WOMAN WOUKD BE MY PLEASURE

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I've always felt like Kyoya Ootori was a bi ace with a crush on both Tamaki and Haruhi but ESPECIALLY Tamaki

I’ve seen some Host Club, though that was a while ago, so I’ll probably watch an episode or two before writing this. Thank you!

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Ace head cannon for Edward Elric from fma? :0

I haven’t seen fma but I’ve been meaning to! I can make time to watch some episodes and then write this.

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There’s a lot of things. Too many, honestly. Shows, movies, video games, and books are all fair game. If it’s popular, I’ll probably know about it. However, some big ones are Star Trek, Merlin, Zelda, SU, She-ra, and I’m currently reading Good Omens

Ace Headcanons

Hey guys, I feel like writing stuff and I also feel like being interactive, so tell me your ace headcanons and if I know enough about the character, I’ll write something about them. If I don’t know enough about the character, chances are I can learn about them real quick, so don’t be afraid to ask for anything, even super obscure stuff. The only thing there is that if I say I don’t know a character yet, you could expect a little more time to pass.

Also, this is for free and all, so they’ll be short and simple if I get a lot of these. If you ask first, I’ll probably make that one longer.

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Ace Headcanons

Hey guys, I feel like writing stuff and I also feel like being interactive, so tell me your ace headcanons and if I know enough about the character, I’ll write something about them. If I don’t know enough about the character, chances are I can learn about them real quick, so don’t be afraid to ask for anything, even super obscure stuff. The only thing there is that if I say I don’t know a character yet, you could expect a little more time to pass.

Also, this is for free and all, so they’ll be short and simple if I get a lot of these. If you ask first, I’ll probably make that one longer.

#asexuality #asexual #lgbtqia #not an asexual problem #writing #lgbt #aromantic #ace headcanons #fics #free fics #comissions #kind of #its free

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Here’s the score instead I guess. It’s a fun piece.

#music #piano #Haydn #juries #finals