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You have always been worthy, and you have always been enough. 🌸

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People will still love you even when you're not at your best, people will still love you even if you're not perfect, people will still love you even if you mess up and make a mistake, people will still love you when you're not feeling like yourself at a certain moment, people will still love you even if you don't love yourself.

People will still love you, no matter the circumstances. There will always be someone that loves you, even if you don't realize it right now.

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Hearts of growth

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remember to take breaks. the world can get real stressful if you dont take time for yourself.

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The good days will be back. For now just take it day by day, as long as you need to. Existing is enough. 🌸

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Asking for things we need can be hard. But necessary. Hinting at people for what you want may go over their head, or they may “get it” but feel exhausted by you hinting at it. And then we end up hurting our own feelings, thinking they don’t care.

One tip I have is to plan in advance. Verbally asking for things is harder for me. So my partner and I talked about it and came up with ways I can ask for things that he understands that are easier for me.

Here’s a silly example: I headbutt him when I want some attention and reassurance. No, really. Laying in bed, or even standing around, I give him a light headbutt in his chest and he then holds me and gives me reassurance.

So while I can’t verbally get the words out, we’ve met halfway and found a way that works for both of us. Just something to think about.

It doesn’t have to be a non-verbal way but even a different way of wording that you find easier to say that has been pre-communicated and understood between both parties. For example, maybe “my brain is being super rude” between you both translates to “I could use some reassurance right now”.

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Here comes the plot twist…

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All our paths look so different that it’s impossible to compare yours to anyone else’s.

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I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you cancel/postpone an event or activity because you’re not feeling up to it physically or emotionally, and then you feel better after resting/not doing the thing, this doesn’t mean that you were lying, or that you actually were well enough. You just gave yourself the time you needed to rest and recover. Look after yourselves.

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Celebrating a lovely Cherry Blossom Festival with some cherry blossom animals from across the years! 🌸💕 It was so wonderful meeting some of you in person!

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Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart

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sending all of my love to people who have been left out of friendships and group outings, you are no less worthy than those people are. you are not a bad person. you didn't deserve to be excluded.

i promise that one day you'll find people who will value you and your friendship and make you feel as loved as you deserve to be <33

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you deserve to feel loved and secure and worthy of all the good things in life

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