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Yes I completely agree!!

“non men attracted to non men” is exclusive to women who only like women because lesbian is not an umbrella term. that definition means that you’re attracted to everyone but men but what actual lesbians only like girls.

in your quest to make Lesbian more inclusive you ended up excluding the originals, and the face of the lesbian community.

idk if i already made a post like this and if i did idc

#lgbtq #lesbian discourse #discourse

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Reminder that no matter your opinions, nobody, NOBODY deserves to be harassed, suicide baited, sent death treats, intentionally triggered, abused, stalked, traumatized, mentally ill, raped, murdered, anything.

This is absolutely unconditional. Especially for internet discourse of all things.

In an ideal world, everyone could be compassionate to eachother regardless of ideological differences.

You can dislike someone. Hate them, even. But they still don't deserve death or trauma just because they're a transmed or a tucute, or an anti-shipper or a pro-shipper, etc.

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Well I the definition of gay and lesbian are wrong. Lesbians are women attracted to only women. Gay is men attracted to only men. Idk if you’ve already added them but you should add nblm and nblw terms. These are the terms that actually fit. Trixic and feminamoric are the nblw terms and toric and virmoric are the nblm.

Working on this carrd, please tell me if there's anything I got wrong so far!

I'm still working on part two and three (going to add things about the asexual spectrum, as well as terms such as achillean, sapphic and neptunic, and the whole part on romantic attraction! It'll probs be long and take a while to complete, but this is what I've got so far. Tell me if there's anything I got wrong or should change, and you can also suggest sexualities / resources I should talk about in it!

List of sexualities I'm planning on adding in upcoming parts: asexual, queer, grey-ace, demisexual, gynesexual, polysexual, questionning, skoliosexual, achillean, neptunic, sapphic (an explanation of the term and it's uses) and I'm looking to add more!

The aim here is to show as many labels as possible in order to help people that are questioning and looking for a label to find one. I'll add a part on microlabeling as well, and will try to present these in the most helpful and least harmful way possible.

That being said, I am still learning and don't know everything, so I am very open to constructive criticism and suggestions from people who'd like to help!

Thank you so much for reading, and I hope you have a nice day <3

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Ah yes trixic and femiamoric are just terms made by random anime blogs on tumblr. This really just hurts my brain. Also I blocked the username because well I am not a total ass. Please don’t ask for the @

#interesting take #well I got blocked so idk #discourse #lgbt discourse #non bianry #non binary lesbian #lesbian discourse #opinon #opinion #trixic #feminamoric #nblw

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Wait but it is kinda “fair”? Lesbian does mean women attracted to only women after all. Maybe you should try using nblw terms? Those would be the terms that properly describe your sexuality in relation to your gender. I bet it does suck to see people invalidating and stuff but some of us are just trying to get people to understand that lesbian and non-binary don’t mix. Also btw the nblw terms are trixic and feminamoric in case you don’t know about them!

I’m so angry that every day when I come onto tumblr I see someone invalidating nonbinary or pronoun variant lesbians. I just recently began exploring my sexuality through the lens of being a lesbian and already people want me out due to my complex feelings about gender. It’s not fair. It’s also not very accurate. For example, he/him lesbians are more and more being seen as some new fangled internet phenomenon when… they’re not. Sorry if you don’t “get it”, but that’s not my problem.

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Lesbian isn’t an umbrella term or “under an umbrella term”. Lesbian is just simply a term to describe women who are attracted to only women. It’s not you that isn’t valid. It’s the combination of your gender identity and sexuality that isn’t. There’s nblw terms that do actually properly describe your sexuality(trixic and feminamoric). Also regarding the tags you most certainly do matter. Not sure who actually said that to you but I can say that most of the people who disagree with non-binary lesbians don’t think you don’t matter.

Just because I’m a genderqueer lesbian does not mean I’m not valid. •_•

Lesbians are under an umbrella term, get used to it.

#reblog #discourse #lgbt discourse #response

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Talking about something that could be a trigger for anyone who’s trigger is s*xual assault and related topics.

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Okay so this is something I haven’t really talked about but I just felt the need to talk about it. I don’t know what to call what happened.

So basically I was maybe 9-11. My memory is pretty foggy so I don’t really remember. What I do remember is what happened for the most part. There was this older boy who went to my daycare. He was around 2 years older then. I had this “crush” on him. Me I think two others(who are a year younger than me) really wanted him to play with us. Since he was one of the only kids near are age. He made this deal that if we would show him are crotch area he would play with us. I don’t remember how many times we did this but it definitely happened more than once. I think I eventually told my mom and it stopped but like I said I don’t remember a lot. I tell myself it wasn’t that bad. I don’t view him as bad. I don’t view what happened as “wrong”. That I’m overacting about it all. I also sometimes question if it even happened. Maybe I made it up some how since I don’t remember very well. I want to ask my mom and see if she remembers what happened but I’m scared that she won’t remember at all. That I’m just making a big deal of it. Like it wasn’t even that bad. It could have been way worse.

I still wish I knew what this would be considered but well I don’t. So I guess that’s my vent post.

#TW #trigger warning #tw #vent post

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It not being real does not make it okay. It’s still wrong. Cringe culture can sometimes tie into ableism but like I said not inherently. This is also coming from someone who is neurodivergent. Obviously being being neurodivergent doesn’t mean I speak for all but still worth possibly mentioning. Anyway it’s obvious you won’t change this any time soon just like I won’t.

I see so many people critiquing adults for liking media aimed at children on here, and like, you’re engaging in cringe culture. That is what you are doing. That’s ableism and cringe culture for fucks sake.

If an adult likes a media targeted at children and makes adult content for it within their own community, that is fine? They’re not shoving it in the faces of children just by making it, fucks sake.

#brain ouch #smh #ship discourse #discourse

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Yes for some it is a special interest but I still wouldn’t label it as inherently being ableist. Regarding the second point how often is the content actually kept in a place where a child wouldn’t be able to find it. A parent monitoring the kids experience still won’t erase the chance of finding stuff like that. Honestly I think the adults are doing something at least somewhat wrong. Because a lot of things for kids feature kids. So an adult making sexual content of a child is wrong.

I see so many people critiquing adults for liking media aimed at children on here, and like, you’re engaging in cringe culture. That is what you are doing. That’s ableism and cringe culture for fucks sake.

If an adult likes a media targeted at children and makes adult content for it within their own community, that is fine? They’re not shoving it in the faces of children just by making it, fucks sake.

#ship discourse #discourse #wack

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No you did not. I was just adding on to your post

Every criticism is lgbtphobia when being lgbt+ is your entire identity

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Well I do agree there’s really nothing wrong with an adult liking children content but well not sure I would label it “ableism”. Or least not inherently. And by adult content do you mean sexual? Because that is kinda weird. Like imagine a kid searching pics of their favorite show and stumbling upon it. That would be bad.

I see so many people critiquing adults for liking media aimed at children on here, and like, you’re engaging in cringe culture. That is what you are doing. That’s ableism and cringe culture for fucks sake.

If an adult likes a media targeted at children and makes adult content for it within their own community, that is fine? They’re not shoving it in the faces of children just by making it, fucks sake.

#reblog #ship discourse #discourse #opionion

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I had to block an account dedicated to saying “all ships are good ships”...

Fuck no. Not all ships are good ships. Him x Bubbles is NOT a good ship. Any ships involving adults and children is pedophilia, and pedophilia is bad.

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I’m sorry but what- wtf is “bottomcest”?? Please tell me it has nothing to do with incest

5/14/2021

As sure as the day follows the night, bottomcest will remain valid.

#um what #brain about to go yeet itself into a wall #reblog

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Yea well not shit I’m not gonna threaten or harass someone. But I don’t think it’s petty to be upset about ships like that. Ya know?

Daily reminder that no matter how much you like or hate a ship that doesn't give you the right to be an asshole to people.

#reblog

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Well idk I think you should be allowed to be an ass to anyone who ships abusive, pedophillac, and/or incest relationships. Like usually would agree you shouldn’t be assholes to people but- kinda icky

Daily reminder that no matter how much you like or hate a ship that doesn't give you the right to be an asshole to people.

#ship discourse #discourse #icky

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Lol most of us aren’t like that

Every criticism is lgbtphobia when being lgbt+ is your entire identity

#reblog #discourse #lgbt

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I do agree but we should also talk about how it is still okay. Your safety is very important. Yes we should be able to exist without fear but realistically that probably isn’t gonna happen any time soon. So if something needs to hide to stay safe then there’s nothing wrong with that.

idgaf what message you’re attempting to make, but don’t tell people to hide their queerness. don’t normalize people going back in the closet or pretending to be cishet in order to survive/feel safe; queer people should able to exist and not fear being discriminated against

#reblog #lgbt #gay #lgbtq