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snekdood · 1 year
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Yknow what makes me reaentful? How ive been sexually abused so much growing up, no one did shit besides shove me off to a therapist, ive been promised by feminist spaces that ill have a place to heal within them, and as soon as my abusive ex tries to smear me and project their behavior on to me by accusing me of doing that shit too, all the sudden everyone acts suspicious, and i still dont get any of that promised healing. Its hard not to feel like my ex did this intentionally to prevent me from having a space to heal. And its my issue with the "believe victims" narrative because it seems to me like people dont actually want to believe victims but to believe the victims they *like* and *agree more with politically*. If people can just say whatever about someone and you feel obligated to believe them because "believe victims", its very clearly going to be exploited by abusive people, and while i dont think we should stop per se, we need to have some sort of actual system to vet who is and isnt telling the truth, like a pseudo-courtroom. At the very least let everyone and their side of the story actually be heard. Bc idk how you guys plan to believe two victims at once who are accusing eachother other than throwing your hands up and picking one or deciding that we're both bad, which doesnt seem very fair to me since people seem to looove demonizing me for no discernable reason.
#anyways ive lost faith in feminist spaces in actually being a place to heal#it kinda just feels like cliques to me dawg.#maybe it used to be sorta healing but i never actually got to find a support system or anything anywhere.#like idk man. maybe the reason ppl go to the right is bc yall are cutthroat and do everything based on vibes.#if i cant even get help and healing from yall like you promise whats the feminism label even for besides for spreading awareness?#because i feel like ill always be excluded because i dont fit the recquired aesthetic.#there needs to be a space for dudes to go to heal too. and id ideally not have to go to one of the mra type spaces.#idk but im just disenchanted with this whole movement. so many unfulfilled promises.#too many terfs infiltrating it also.#im left out in the cold and no one cares and everyone pretends to care about victims but cant even bring themselves to image that i#was the one who was victimized. why should i rely on these spaces at all. its clear yall favor the more fem person in any situation#like this.#also unrelated but related this website is trash and most people on here suck so fucking much.#the mostly cliquey cutthroat spaces for being so 'caring' like you like to think yourselves as.#'oh well we have to be careful so just in case we're gonna kick you out!!' oh really#is that the feminism you were talking about?#youll leave me out on the streets based on a rumor? and if you find out theyre lying then what will you do? are you gonna come over to me#weeping about how you shouldnt have believed them and how sorry you are? bc chances are ill already be dead from starving#but yknow. believe whatever anyone says about someone else. sorry i meant victims*#itd be so so funny to me if someone came up to me with that justification for why they ostracized me and then be like 'how can you be mad!#i didnt know better!! you cant be mad at people for not knowing better >:(' the hell i fucking cant lmao!#yall perpetuated a narrative about me to actively grind my name in the dirt. and im not allowed to be mad?#yall ostracized and excluded me from spaces i need to rely on for community and healing.#yall did nothing for me and threw me in the fucking trash. yeah. i think im allowed to be upset with you and want you to go fuck yourself.#if you believed them and found out theyre a liar. cool. leave me the fuck alone though. go make a post about it and try to rectify the#situation you contributed to you pos.#yknow. maybe itd be one thing if you believed them and i didnt do anything and you apologized.#its a WHOLE OTHER FUCKING THING. WHEN YOU BELIEVE THEM. IM INNOCENT. AND *IM*THE ONE WHO WAS#SEXUALLY ABUSED AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSED TO THE FUCKING MOON AND BACK. and then think an apology is enough.#like go fuck yourself. ive been alone with this trauma this whole time you pieces of shits.
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heyitsphoenixx · 2 years
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michael james way mr. michael romance please listen ok i know you know we have a psychic connection you were in the crowd at my first concert you ordered pizza for the line at my mcr show ok listen. last minute next show. cross out the last song and put disenchanted. itll be so good i swear to god youll get so many hand hearts in the crowd i promise ok thank you i love you
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arosebyan0thername · 6 years
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And shout out to millenials and gen z for circumventing a capitalist government and putting socialism into play through the internet. We use paypal and gofundme as healthcare plans and it works because we all know what its like to not be able to afford necessities so we all help when we can, because why wouldn't you donate to someone's surgery fund if you have extra money that week? Why wouldn't you help someone buy their medication or get groceries or move to a better home?
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zibizuba · 4 years
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bold-moves · 7 years
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IDEES LEVEES: Martial Arts Schools.
I currently work for a martial arts school. I’ve studied the martial arts for almost half my life but I never considered running a school until about 7 months ago. I went looking for an opportunity to find out how a school was run and I basically went from school to school until someone said yes and my current dojo gave me shot. 
7 months later its been both the best and worst choice I’ve made in a long while. 
I’ve been disenchanted with my experience for a while now and because of that I wont begin to list the things I dislike but instead I will talk about the things that I think work.
Marketing: Spending the money on proper SEO is critical. In theory, you may have the crappiest product to offer but if you can get your name to the top of the Google list, youll have more opportunities to sell your snake oil to unsuspecting buyers. And if you have a good product, all the better.
Curriculum: The curriculum should change monthly. There should be a set curriculum that you can augment slightly for each month. Now this is provided you have a mixed style and not a traditional one. Ill also add that the best way to hide repetition is with sparring and lots of it. 
Kids Curriculum: This should be based on things they may encounter in the streets with a mix of the basics. Parents bring their kids to martial arts classes for one of 5 reasons , increase confidence, increase discipline, anti-bullying and fitness. This last reason is the most important. They bring their kid to tire them the f*ck out. If your curriculum is not based in these things then I promise that more often than not, all of your years of knowledge will go in one ear and out of the other. They’re kids.
and lastly...
Employees: Get real employees and pay them. McDojos are notorious for getting students to teach their classes for them. They sometimes keep people from belt promotions until they’ve taught the class. Other times, they actually get outside people (Like Me!) to teach classes and barely pay them a dime, stringing them along until they’ve completely lose all hope and wonder for the martial arts industry. They do all of this while raking all the dough for themselves. I say this because if you don’t incentivize and compensate people properly you’re going to have massive turnover and you’ll be left working even harder than before. 
I get it, its a business. A hard business.  You dont have to be so dang shady with it though.
If you cant afford to pay them a real wage, then don’t have them work full time. Don’t give them real wage responsibility if you have no intention of moving them up in the school. It’s easy, man. 
Thats all for today.
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zibizuba · 4 years
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