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calmmyfears · 1 year
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i hope you did at least one thing for yourself today. whether that's brushing your teeth, drinking a nice cup of tea, taking a break to listen to your favorite song or reading your favorite poem. it doesn't have to be grand to be meaningful. it is so important to stay close to what brings you joy and purpose in life. ❤️
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adastra-sf · 5 months
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Keep going
...even when the draft feels bad. That just means you've refined your eye for what makes "good" writing. You can always edit later!
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Terrible secret: There's a really awkward thing that happens to all writers (and other artists/creatives/makers). They get good enough that it becomes hard to write anything. As your skill increases, so do your standards. So everything you write feels mediocre.
The weird part is that this "mediocre" writing is far better than what you were writing before. You have just moved the goalposts on yourself as you improved. So you have to learn to give yourself permission to write anything. Even if you think it's bad.
What usually happens at that point is that you either:
A) end up not writing badly at all and surprising yourself with what you manage to produce, or
B) create something that has issues but is easily editable later on into something that meets your standards.
But wow, is it a gnarly adjustment to ignore that emotional reflex of "this sucks, I suck" and press on anyway.
I do find myself frequently wondering how many writers reach this awkward phase, believe wrongly that they suck, and never write again - just at the point when they're starting to get good! I'd imagine A LOT of them.
And no, this doesn't just happen with writing. It happens with every kind of artist and craftsperson. People tend to quit just as they're getting good, because their standards have raised along with their skills.
You've got this.
source tweet thread: X
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morallyinept · 6 months
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Be proud.
Be proud that you got up today, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud that you showered today, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud that you made it out the door today, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud that you put on a smile today, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud that you made it though the day, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud that you put one foot in front of the other, even though you didn't want to.
Be proud.
Be proud that you're doing your best, that you keep on going - even if you don't want to.
Even if the steps are small, miniscule. It doesn't matter how fast or slow you go.
Be proud that you're making it.
🖤
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YOU. ARE. STRONGER. THAN. YOU. THINK. 🖤
Do you. Then do Dieter.
More Dieter & Jett love here
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the-book-ferret · 1 year
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That thing you’ve been putting off? Today is a great day to tackle it. You’ve got this! Boop! 
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metamorphesque · 5 months
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The exam peep from earlier: I didn't give up, I'm studying slowly tho (but I can't say if I'll have a positive outcome)
Well done, friend! Just know that everyone who has read your message is rooting for you 🧡
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lovelyfirebouquet · 11 months
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Pops out of ground
Psst... Hey you. Yeah, you reading this. You’re great. Seriously swell. A real gem. Have a great day alright? Or night, dependin’ where you’re at.
And do me a favor?
Give your pets a pat for me, or give yourself a pat for being a real strong fella.
You’ve got this.
Ducks back underground
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thegreenishhues · 2 months
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Positivity poll :D
Send a hug to Tumblr in general by voting and feel free to @ people in reblogs for an specific hug :)
This is a silly idea but we need a bit of positivity in the community right now (we have been going through it recently). Anyway virtual hugs to everyone and remember to take care of yourselves, take a walk, go outside, talk to friends, and do what you need to clear your head. You've got this <3
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spacedadsupport · 1 month
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Jean-Luc Picard @SpaceDadSupport When you cannot banish your fear, use it as fuel. 3:20 PM · Mar 20, 2024
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emberfrostlovesloki · 3 months
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Writer's Block and Creativity [a ramble]
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Photo credits: Left (@life-and-love-in-a-myst) Center (@shakespearesdaughters) (Right (@hotch-girl)
Let me put a poll in here before I start the rambling part of this post. I've got two pretty fluffy story ideas. One is for Aaron and one is for Emily. Which would you like to read first? They will be reader inserts as always. Hotch's is with BAU reader and Emily's is a Non-BAU reader. I'm equally excited for each, thus letting you all decide. (The poll will be up for 24 hours)
Now to the rambling. I was close to feeling very burnt out and having lots of writer's block at the start of this week. I just couldn't think about anything new like I normally do. And I think this process is natural for any writer or artist. It's bound to happen eventually. That feeling may hit me again tomorrow. But now that I'm back in my own apartment (I was at my mom's place for a little over a month for the break), I feel the spark again. it's not a raging fire, but I hope to stoke the flames gently. Writing is something I've been working on for some time. It's been my friend for years. So I guess I just want to encourage those who are feeling like they have nothing left to give that that's normal and fine. You can take a break. You can rest. The ideas will come when it's right. And I'm proud of you for ever having put a single word on a page (published or not). [I'm telling this to myself too.]
I'll probably delete this later, but just felt like saying that I don't always love what I put out. And that's okay. I still did the hard thing, and I'm proud of myself for it.
Love you all! Levi - ❤️
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malbecmusings · 5 months
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Do hard things - Graham Weaver. They get much easier and your life will be so much more rewarding. Keep the faith. Take the leap. Be a beginner. DO it. I believe in you.
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sunscreenstudies · 2 months
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A Step-by-Step Guide for Socially Anxious Email Senders
Read the horrible, horrible email you have to reply to and then feel relief at the fact that "well, at least it's not a phone call!"
Determine what parts you have to reply to i.e. if they asked you a question about something or if there's a part where you need to ask them a question about something
Set a timer for 2 min, 5 min, or 10 min depending on the importance of the email, but no longer!
Write your greeting: "Hi [their first name]" for friendlies, "Dear Mr/Ms/Dr [their last name]" for acquaintances
Write your ending (Yes, we're doing this now before we write anything else): "Best wishes, [your first name]" for friendlies, "Kind Regards, [your first and last name]" for acquaintances
Write "Hope you're well!" This is a game changer because now they know you're thinking of them BUT they don't feel like they have to answer in the way that typing "How are you?" does. Plus, the exclamation mark always helps to lighten up an email that otherwise might feel stuffy.
Answer their questions. If they asked multiple, then split up your answers with filler phrases such as "In relation to...", "In regard to...", "As for...", etc. Finish your paragraph with "I hope this helps, but if you have any further questions, please feel free to ask!"
Ask your questions. If you don't have any questions, then find the most complicated/unclear part of their email, rephrase it, and throw it in after a "Just a quick note to confirm my understanding of the project: [the rephrased bit]". This will let them know that you did thoroughly read their email, and it also provides them with an excuse to email you back with "yes, you're right" or "actually..." which removes the awkwardness they might be feeling as to whether there's any need to reply to your email or not. Finish your paragraph with "Thank you!" (it never hurts to be nice)
Check for spelling or grammar mistakes (if you don't have an extension like Grammarly, then copy and paste your email into Google Docs/Word doc/LibraOffice doc/etc. to check for errors there. Once you've corrected them, copy and paste the corrected text back into your email, replacing the original text)
Reread your email three times. Look at me. Look. At. Me. Three times. That's it! No more and no less! Your timer should have gone off by now, so times up, tough luck, you have to send it, the timer said so. If your timer hasn't gone off yet, then congrats! You beat the clock! Now let's celebrate by sending that horrible email immediatley.
Check your "sent" email box once - just once - to make sure that your email did successfully send and to shut up that part of your brain that's going "but what if they didn't get it?!" They got it. Exit your email browser/app.
Turn your phone/laptop on "do not disturb", leave your desk, make yourself a big mug of something hot (I personally prefer black tea, but you could make tea, coffee, hot chocolate, soup, etc. - whatever you enjoy the most!). Bonus Points: If you're at home or in an enclosed office, then throw on your favourite song or a dancing playlist, and spend five minutes dancing and shaking off that nervous energy before getting back to work. Congratulations: You did it!
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brf-rumortrackinganon · 2 months
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So I’m 27 next month and I don’t know what to do. I had been studying at college/university in 2019 but dropped out due to my health, tried to get a job but failed, and then a family member died and the pandemic hit all in 2020, and then obviously there was all the lockdowns and I was forced into signing up for benefits here in the UK and it’s 2024, and I’m still unable to get back into work and I’m still seeing a psychologist and I just don’t know what to do anymore as I feel like my life is slipping past me and I’m not able to do anything about it, I know I’m not stupid and I know I’m capable and have career aspirations but also family aspirations. I’ve never had a boyfriend and while I want to have a good career I also want to get married and have children more so, I love kids and I feel like I’m never going to get either. I mean it’s three years until I’m thirty years old, and if I sign up to go back to university then it’s three or four years before I graduate and then years trying to build a career for myself.
Oh anon, I feel for you. I really do. I've several relatives who are (and were) similarly stuck - some of them were impacted by the pandemic years, and others were impacted by the 2008 global meltdown - so I know how hard you're feeling everything.
A few things to keep in mind first:
Everyone does life at their own pace. You are exactly where you're supposed to be because that's exactly where you're meant to be. You are doing just fine being right where you are. As long as you keep putting one foot in front of the other, you'll get to wherever you want to go, even if you take a few detours along the way.
When we judge ourselves by other people, we have a tendencey to compare our worst days to other people's best days because we're our own worst critic. (I blame social media for that - people only share the best things on social media which makes it look like everyone is happy little clams living picture-perfect lives while you're stuck down here in the muck trying to shovel out from two years' of rain.)
I think you'll find that there are more people who feel like you than people who'll say they're living their best life and they wouldn't change a thing.
27 is pretty young, and so is 30 for that matter. If you look at the whole scope of life, what is 'another 3 years' but a drop in the bucket, especially if it will make you happy? You may not have anything to lose if you go back to school now, if that's really what you want to do. But if your heart isn't it, or you'd be doing it because it's what you think you should do, then that may not be the right thing for you. And that's okay!
I don't know a whole lot about the UK in terms of career choices, higher education,a nd job opportunities so I don't know how practical or realistic some of my advice could be. But here goes.
Does it have to be a professional/academic program? Maybe there are trade schools or vocational programs you can look into instead. I think the UK might call it Further Education colleges? (We call it community college here in the US.)
And if you love children, what's stopping you from working with them now? You could become a nursery assistant or a midwife, a nanny or an au pair. You could volunteer with an organization that focuses on children or youth services, or maybe work for one as a receptionist?
One of the things I've learned from my cousins' experiences pulling out of the economic collapse or COVID-stasis is that sometimes the unconventional path is better, luckier, and more successful. So don't think you have to go for a professional degree. There are other options out there. They may be harder to find, but they're there.
I know you can do it, anon. You're already brilliant enough to ask for help, and trust me - that takes a ton of gut.
If anyone has any advice or wants to support our Hopeful Anon, please share in the comments or send in your suggestions! I will use the anon advice tag.
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isopod-chan · 7 months
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Void success story!
...by that, I mean my two voids, Wakanda and Frijol. I can't remember which is which.
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Jokes aside, this is your reminder to stop stressing about the void.
Many people have manifested without the void, and many people have manifested with the void.
But always remember: It doesn't matter how you approach the law, it will never fail you. Method or no method, you're still a master manifestor.
Now go! Live and know your desires are yours already!
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P.S. No, I've never entered the void. (And I don't intend on doing so)
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lewishamiltonstuff · 1 month
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LEWIS YOU'RE KILLING ME WITH THOSE RADIOS
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postwarlevi · 11 months
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To all my moots, friends, followers and people of tumblr, who are studying, working hard, getting little or no sleep, stressing out, just trying to better yourselves, you've got this!!
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syb-rooks · 1 year
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The fairy trying to gaslight gerard would be great at customer service, just saying
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