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termagax · 5 months
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Am I misunderstanding that post because a lot of fat fetishization Does dehumanize fat people I'm not sure i entirely understand your tag
thats basically what im saying. i absolutely agree that the fat fetish community enables dehumanisim + fatphobia and that is a problem which should be talked abt considering how rampant it is, and i dont like people using "oh those purity obsessed assholes just hate us for Loving Something Different" as a shield. fetishization is a specific term for that kind of dehumanization + objectification where someone is reduced to a pure sexual object instead of being viewed as like, a person, with their value only being filtered through the sexual pleasure other people get out of their bodies, and is often accompanied by massive amnts of fatphobia and a general intense disrespect for fat people ioutside of sexual contexts as well. and its something that is absolutely worth talking about especially from fat women who are most often the targets of this kind of treatment
but ive absolutely seen people take that conversation to mean "fetish = bad" and that is what annoys me. theres a difference between having a type, having a kink, and fetishization. and the way anyone who speaks affectionately or sexually about a fat person or fat bodies is immediately slapped with the label of DIRTY FETISHIT is something that comes from a well-meaning place, but more often then not just says "being attracted to fat people is Not Normal, and therefore impossible to do in a way that isn't fatphobic, therefore fat people should not be seen as sexually desirable". even if the intentions are good, the result ("fat people are not viable sexual interests") just contributes to the existing stigma around fat bodies.
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derpinette · 3 months
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what those transracials (2azn) fail to consider is that instead of immediately going for eyelid surgery that never looks right, they should be getting those nosebridges shaved down to at least look a little mixed because that is like the number one thing that makes asians what they are phenotypically
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burningboxes · 2 months
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the second someone describes something as "cringe" in a negative way is the second that i instantly lose all respect for them
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purplesoultyphoon · 10 months
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people being shitheads to the puppy cone post op and trying to say they're the bad guy when people saw a cute whimsy post and decided to call them fucking slurs, insult after insult, saying it's fetish shit, and even more at the very first glance without a single ounce of maybe compassion or restraint to just scroll past or block or anything else. you HAVE to spew hatred and hostility at the tiniest things and then get mad when OP says hey what the fuck is wrong with you? great job everyone you're a cop to me if you did that.
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autolenaphilia · 1 month
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It's so infuriating when anti-kink type of transmisogynist deny their dogwhistles and when criticized go: "I'm just against pedophilia and incest, why are you bringing up trans women, it's actually you who are transmisogynist for pointing out my dogwhistles." Like we can't tell that "the evil predatory fetishist freaks who claim their sicko perversions are queer" is so obviously code for trans women, like it's literally what radfems have said about trans women for decades. And the transmisogyny being criticized is not theoretical and abstract at all. They keep on doing callouts of trans woman after trans woman for having weird kinks.
And like these people are explicitly reviving 70s radfem arguments about kink and porn, something you can't cleanly separate from their transmisogyny. These radfems undeniably saw their crusades against porn, kink and trans woman as the same struggle. Trans women were and are the ultimate pornsick sado-masochist freaks in the radfem worldview.
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russersprouts · 2 years
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Ayo tumblr recommend a fat/feeder fetish post/blog to me “based on my likes” again and I’m going to end up on the news. That’s a threat.
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thejockout · 3 months
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Himbo Muscle Freak - New File and New Soundcloud Account!
Hey all! First file back in a while.
This is the first commission I've ever done, and honestly the clue to what it's about is in the name… this is a file meant to make the listener more of a muscle-obsessed, show-off, s3xua11y driven himbo. It leans more into the actual muscle side than other himbo fare because the commissioner was prepping for a bodybuilding competition, but it should be enjoyable for any fellow himbo/hypnosis fetishists out there.
The audio of this one is a little scuffed because I recorded it on a temporary setup, so apologies for that in advance.
(Also, should note that this file is INCREDIBLY influenced by my own, many hundreds of times, listening to Avis Sapiens' muscle and himbo hypnosis. You can find him on Youtube and Tumblr at Avis Sapiens, and I recommend him if you enjoy this kinda content. 🙇)
If you're interested in a commission of your own, you can reach out to me on Tumblr here or on Discord at the username "Jockout". (Formerly Jockout#0819.)
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princescribbler · 8 months
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5 Common Misconceptions of ABDLs!
To be clear, these are common misconceptions ABDLs have, not common misconceptions ABOUT us ABDLs!
1. "My kink is so rare!"
Really? Because candidly, abdl, ageplay, and diaper fetishism intersect in a fascinating way. There are diaper fetishists who despise any form of ageplay or regression, there are ageplayers who get off on the Ageplay, or the diapers, or the humiliation, teasing, or any other aspect of the kink. And candidly, you can tell ABDL really isn't that uncommon when the communities that show up are this large and varied. Heck, there's entire communities on reddit with tens of thousands of abdls, and that's just one site (and not the most kink friendly space to begin with.) Add in the fact that many people are very embarrassed or worried about this kink and you've got an even better explanation for why it can FEEL very rare or isolating... but it often comes down to just being hard to find, at first!
2. "Nobody vanilla will accept me! They must all think I'm a freak" (or similar negative expectation setting)
Except.. they do, all the time, every day. I've personally avoided most vanilla relationships, but I know MARRIED abdl couples who started with one partner totally vanilla, and some of the biggest and most successful content creators in this space are well known for having partners not into ABDL.
Simply put, if you assume it'll go wrong and you'll be judged, your body language, words, and tone can be much more nervous and defensive and make your partner feel ill at ease. Try to not go in with negative assumptions!
3. "I have to find a caregiver to feel little!"
Uh... no you don't. Your kink might involve a partner, your desires might include one or more people around to care for you or dominate you or join you in diapered submission... but none of that means you can't enjoy still, and have a GREAT time. You can try to foster your own regressive or littlespace mindset, happily. And you don't need ANYONE else to enable that. If you're expecting that just having sometime else around will fix things, you're sadly incorrect! You need, at some level, to be comfortable enough to not just rely on EXTERNAL enforcement of your abdl side!
4. "I should get rid of [x] because I feel embarrassed/bad/upset!" (Or any similar variant of the binge/ purge mentality)
Binge and purge cycles happen, and can be very emotionally destructive. Try to instead put the object in storage instead of throwing it out, because often your emotional negative response will only get worse when you later regret it or judge your own reaction.
Try to give yourself the space to struggle, but don't just throw things away or destroy them if they're kink items... instead, realize you might feel differently later and give yourself the grace to be allowed to change your mind without any further fear or judgment!
5. "Everybody can tell if I'm padded/ little/ going out discretely!"
No they can't. I could stop there but truly let's consider this: you realize that incontinence is common... shockingly common. You've passed people in adult diapers, pull ups, discrete pads, you've likely even been in a room with another heavily diapered adult and NEVER realized. Because unless you're being obvious, have leaks, or make a point to wear very form fitting clothing, nobody will notice or likely even look! You're much less exposed than your brain makes you think!!
My point is this: be nice to yourself, and work hard to challenge those negative self talk moments that come up for so many abdls. Your interests and desires aren't as rare as you think, more people are ok with it than you realize, nobody can usually tell even if you are padded (and would be more likely to assume it medical than kinky even if they noticed), and struggling with this is normal too!
BE NICER TO YOURSELF: THAT'S THIS PAPI'S ORDERS! You don't deserve to feel bad about something that helps you feel good!
And as always; stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!
- Scribbler
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The zelda fandom and homophobia and sexism to shippers
Before you read I'm not trying to say ALL yona defenders, zelink shippers or people who dislike sidlink are homophobic/sexist. This is a 'if the shoe fits' type post but I encourage everyone to read.
A type of homophobia I've seen in the fandom which isn't new to fandom spaces is the idea of wlw vs mlm. Presenting wlw as pure, more genuine and sexless well mlm is just sex and can't be deeper than that. No mlm ships are inherently unpure or immoral, even if they do have a lot of sexual content. spending so much time calling mlm shippers freaks does nothing to support wlw ships. you don't have the right to go on and on about how zelink and sidyona are 'really lesbian relationships' or 'straight ships for gay people' or just gay in general and actively try to push out actual gay ships and gay fans.
Whenever an anti sidlink post or tweet gets popular we see in the comments and likes, hard line conservatives and homophobes agreeing with y'all. I know this is unintentional but with the constant focus of proving why ships between two men are disgusting, you invite those type of people into fandom spaces and making them more unsafe for queer people as a whole.
Me and many others don't like sidlink just for sex. We like them because we like them. The idea that someone has to have a dark alterier motive for liking something is also deeply flawed.
if you can't defend yona from misogyny without resorting to misogyny yourself and demeaning others than your not getting rid of sexism in fandom spaces but adding to it. You don't get points for demanding woman for their personal interests. You're not helping the character by calling people who dislike her or ship sidlink bitches, slut, fujos, coomers,fetishist,groomers, cum-for-brains,cumdumpsters, dickriders or literal slurs(all things that I've seen). inorder to be a good feminist you have to care about the feelings of real life people more than a cartoon stingray and realize misogyny affects every one in fandom, including people who ship things that you dislike.
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farmerlesbian · 2 years
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happy pride to the dykes, to the fags, to the butches and bulldykes, the the fairies and pansies, the homos and lesbos, the weirdos and freaks. the fems and queers and fetishists and drag kings and queens, to the angry ones and the soft ones, to the ones just starting to figure it out and the ones who have always known and the ones who still have yet to come out of their shell.
I love you all so much 💜
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craycraybluejay · 1 month
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i love paraphiliacs and fetishists i love that someone can be so fixated on something that it's like. bigger than a kink. that it's not always just Purely Sexual and moreso a fixation that spans over different kinds of emotional spaces and physical experiences. i think that's beautiful, you know? just being so very deeply into something, just like with special interests/hyperfixations. it is beautiful to me. when someone accepts a strong paraphilia or fetish as a natural part of their humanity and personality.. that's fucking beautiful, you know? to experience the world through a unique lens... what joy! everything in the entire world is filtered through the central focal point of you, who YOU are as a person, what you desire and what you care about. the massive range of things which are beautiful, meaningful, and special to fetishists is so heartwarming. to know someone who sees a godly beauty in a hairbrush which is just a hairbrush to you! to know someone who sees intense pleasure in pain which is just pain to you. isn't the spectrum of human experience just so incredible? we humans have the capacity to adore most anything, to see certain things on a deeper and more appreciative level than our peers. i am always so grateful to get a peek into the fixations of other people. i cannot imagine a world quite so beautiful without paraphiles and fetishists. they are my siblings in arms, even if their thing is different from my thing, even if i can never Get It. i will always support self-identified freaks. always advocate to give everyone the safe place to just be as they are. to appreciate beauty from their unique perspective. to create something just for them, to make them happy.
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aihoshiino · 2 months
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do you thing the incest plot in oshi no ko is just for author benefit? something the author inserted for kink/fetish/ect.
I've seen people float this accusation around and I'm honestly baffled by it lol. I understand the kneejerk 'for fuck's sake' reaction to the subject coming up with how it's often used and treated in anime and manga, but to leap to assuming that the ONLY reason an author could have for including it is because they're getting off on it just feels like a bad faith read to me. Like, obviously I don't know what's in Akasaka's head or heart but neither does anyone making this kind of accusation. All we have to judge him on is the art he has created and… I honestly don't at all get the impression that sibling incest is A Thing for him?
Admittedly, I'm not super familiar with Akasaka's work outside of OnK (though looking this up was how i learned that he was a background artist on subahibi and was the original character designer and illustrator for V3 IA??? insane) but from everything I've learned, I've never gotten the impression that sibling incest is a throughline for him and certainly not to the degree that you could call it a kink. I tend to find that when an author has a certain Fixation on a particular subject - sexually or otherwise! - you will see it resurface over and over in their work.
For examples of this relating to incest specifically, you often see incest quite centrally in the works of both Kunihiko Ikuhara and Yoko Taro, not because of any hornybrain reasons (AND IF IT WAS HORNY, TRUST ME, YOU'D KNOW) but because these are unavoidably emergent elements of their shared fascination with exploring complicated and toxic sibling dynamics and how we as humans unthinkingly cause pain to the people who love us most. Compare that to like, Tsukasa Fushimi (the OreImo guy) who very clearly just likes sibling incest as a dynamic, for better or worse.
By contrast, I've never heard anyone say that sibling incest comes up that often outside of OnK. The only example I ever hear is that one joke in that one Kaguya-sama chapter and that's kind of it. So I find it hard to believe this is something Akasaka has such a fixation on, he HAD to put it into his work.
There's also just the fact that… nothing about any of the framing with regards to the OnK twincest is remotely fetishy? On the occasions it's come up since 123, it's mainly framed as a gag. The most overly fanservicey it gets imo - and I'm really stretching here - is that one panel from 124.
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Wow, so kinky. Much fetish. Like, come on, y'all. Mengo Yokoyari draws this manga. If she wanted something to look titillating and sexy, it would look titillating and sexy.
Actually there's a good point lol... why are people always coming at Akasaka with the freak allegations when Mengo is the one who has actually written and drawn mountains of explicit incest porn in her own work? God forbid women do anything.
But either way, no, I don't think the incest in OnK is there for kink reasons. I don't think anything in the series is there for kink reasons, purely because none of the framing of these elements feels remotely fetishistic. I think leaping to accuse an author of inserting a fetish into the story because you don't like that they're talking about a taboo topic is a bit silly. Like, we're not out here accusing Akasaka of having a teen pregnancy fetish, right? .... Right...???
Dear god, don't let that be the discourse next...
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eldritch-spouse · 3 months
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzULu0nvkbz/?igsh=MXdnNXVzZG81cnhlYw==
Morell and his piggy if their species were reversed
[I really don't like this man's flirty intonation. It reminds me of the cringy men cooking Tiktok videos where they erotically slap dough.]
The best possible divine retribution Morell could experience is capturing a human that immediately starts sexually caressing his cap and whispering about how pretty and perfect he is while asking him if he likes it when they slap it.
But I do think the thought of a mushroom fetishist human Morell getting madly obsessed with monster Piglet that is specifically a cute and plump porcini is also perfect. He's still a total freak that comes from a family of monster-eating humans and his favorites happen to be shrooms. He thinks about cutting your cap in pretty little pieces and eating bits of it in every meal. He fantasizes about bending you over and seeing if your pretty monster pussy is as appetizing as the rest of you looks.
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