#ykw gets me 🧍🏻‍♀

[kangtaebins]

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#ykw gets me 🧍🏻‍♀ #it's that anytime my dad needs help w smth physical/handy he asks my brother #or when he's about to do smth he tells my brother to watch him so he knows how #but not me #and I'm just #i know more about shit than my brother does #why don't you ask me to help you putting shit together #i built an entire vanity by myself #i put my bookshelf and nightstand together by myself #i know how to do shit bc i had to teach myself why don't you ask for my help #he had to take this rack around the house and asked my brother to help him while i was literally standing right there #i literally 'oh no don't mind me i apparently can't carry a light ass rack' #my mom even 'why didn't you ask her she was right there' #he just 'oh i didn't think you'd want to' #like you didn't a s k #irritating as hell no wonder a lot of women grow up not knowing hoe to do/fix things around the house until they're on their own #like why is that such a common thing #teach your girls like you do boys #ask your girls to help you like you do boys #and teach boys what you only teach girls too #i don't understand how household things can be gendered it's- literally things everyone should know how to do #god damn #anyways i ended up helping him but not bc he originally wanted me to but bc he felt bad after i pointed it out :/