#women during the day

[scuderia-hamilton]

most of the drivers' reactions to the whole Horner situation is so disappointing tbh. what do you mean someone in the paddock, an employee gets harassed by one of the top figures in the sport and your reaction is either "it has nothing to do with me", or "no comment", "i just like cars and i want to drive", "it's noise and distraction", "i'm here to race", and "it's a good thing for the media", "it doesn't affect me", "i don't really have an interest".

why is it so hard to care about something other than your racing career? you gotta have some morals, dude. not caring about women's safety in your oh so beloved sport is some fucked up behaviour. in situations like this it really shows how fucking privileged they are and it's honestly repulsive.

this is precisely why Lewis is always the one being asked about any non-sport related topic. because he's the only one who cares and gives honest and nuanced answers. genuinely terrified of what this sport will become when he retires, cause no one will speak out on anything.

and then people wonder why we say that f1 is not a safe place for women and that misogyny is still very much a thing in the sport? men don't care, including the president of the fia and f1, the other team principals and most of the drivers as well. when the faces of the sport clearly don't give a shit about women, what kind of hope is there?

they can talk about equality and progressive values and promoting women in motorsports, when this is the reality of how they actually treat the women working in the sport. imagine how that poor woman is feeling, seeing how much the drivers care about what she's going through. utterly disrespectful, with no compassion or empathy.

f1 needs to do so much better.

#formula 1 #f1 #f1 2024 season #f1 2024 #this is a rant fyi #i don't even know what to tag this #lost a huge amount of respect for some of the drivers i actually liked before #it's a sad day for female f1 fans #or rather it's been a sad month #and all this during women's history month too #fuck life

[mooneytried]

Happy women's history month!

Lets remember and fight for all:

the women in Palestine who have no access to menstrual products/medication and have to use tent scraps.

trans women in general because i know yall love to celebrate queer women (which is great!) but almost never include trans women in your women's history month. They are women too. And they deserve to be celebrated and fought for.

Queer women because they're only acknowledged if they can be sexualized, mainly by men.

poc women who are still seen as lesser and boxed into stereotypes instead of being recognized as complex people just like anyone else.

Disabled and neurodivergent women because they often get overlooked and are never recognized as actual people.

Plus sized women (or any women who don't fit into the conventional beauty standard) because your stupid beauty standards mean NOTHING.

Women that come from different religions because if they can find peace and empowerment from their faith, then you can direct your war somewhere else.

Women who have been sa'd. They were NEVER at fault.

Don't just celebrate women who fit into your exclusive and harmful view of what a woman is supposed to be.

#mooney says something #women's history month #international women's day #sorry its just some of yall #exclude women #during women's history month too

[vonlipvig]

i think it's high time we bring back the time-honored tradition of cross-series crackshipping. i, for one, believe that amy brookheimer and shiv roy should hook up at a dem party convention or something.

#veep #veep hbo #succession #amy brookheimer #shiv roy #siobhan roy #shivamy #my art #SHIVAMY SO REAL i love them #i know shiv had long hair during her politics days but im not gonna pass up the opportunity to draw THE BOBS #also no background who cares have a rectangle and look at the women

[mstrchu]

if i may be allowed some birthday self-indulgent guy posting

#birthday was technically a couple days ago but i was busy u_u #nezha reborn #li yunxiang #i think lyx has terminal babyface w his hair down which is why he wears it up send tweet #also glows during rem sleep and can't speak to women but nothing new there #art tag

[midchelle]

hello are we still doing uquizes? yes? okay here's mine:

#please let me know if there's any spelling mistakes so i can kill myself about it!! #someone's already done this but Whatever :)) #posting for jane's birthday because. lol meant to have this done for women's day but kept thinking of Funny Questions :))) fail! #the beatles #midposts #ALSO only includes gfs/wives who were around DURING the beatles because idk much about the ones who came after #sorry olivia arias/barbara bach/nancy shevall/heather mills girls #there's heather mills girls out there i know it #note: john and yoko are spiritually a failmarriage but technically not because they never got divorced #greatest hits compilation

[adashofniallandasprinkleoflunacy]

I miss my old coworkers!!! I miss having friends at work instead of passive aggressive assholes who don’t want to train me and then get annoyed when I don’t know things and act like my very existence irks them!!!!

#if this was part time I’d be able to handle it #but 9 hours a days day after day is genuinely putting me in the worst mindset I’ve had in months #like I go to my car during my break and sit there pushing tears back bc I feel alone and shunned!!! #and these are GROWN ASS WOMEN?? #one of my old coworkers came in to pick up a medication the other day and when I saw her my entire body literally slumped with relief #like omg someone I know who doesn’t hate me!!!! #and we had a quick convo bc she was updating me on work tea and I was like wow I haven’t felt this happy since i started this job #almost 2 weeks ago and that was such a sad reality check lmfao #and like the only reason I got this job is bc I’m bilingual and they desperately needed that #and it’s like okay do you realize you need me?? bc I’m there most of the week the other bilingual girl is only there twice a week #and 99% of your clients don’t speak English so what’s gonna happen if I leave?? #you’re going to have to find someone else and train THEM from the bottom just like me #you’re gonna be in the same position all over again!!! #this is all so infuriating

[fictionadventurer]

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#ok sorry but i still can't get over that family history story #been thinking about it all day #during apples to apples the words 'stunning' and 'fast' came up #and my brother joked 'our great-great-grandmother apparently' #and he's not wrong #from her pov the story's even wilder #she really just saw what she wanted and took her shot #knew him for three days #and then *she* proposed to *him* #during what was apparently their first private conversation *ever* #and it worked! #if you put that in historical fiction about the 1880s people would call it unrealistic #talking about the restrictions on women or whatever #well apparently nobody told her that she was oppressed #she was too busy seizing the life she wanted

[iceyrukia]

It’s because she’s highly visible and has the money to do something about it that’s why.

I swear a lot of liberals like to tear female class by putting “white” in front as if they’re exempt from misogyny because it’s not a form of oppression that can’t be acknowledged by itself. They also act like if other white “civilian” women haven’t been victims of having ai porn of them spread out , but since so many liberals have their heads in the sand when it comes to actual feminist issues, it went under the radar on how porn is gender used as a tool by men to humiliate ALL women.

There always has to be some sort of competition when *certain* women are victims of misogyny instead of *X* instead of raising awareness of the awful issue at hand that ALL women are vulnerable to being victims of…..

#ic.text #it’s because she’s FAMOUS as hell one of the most popular artist amongst young girls #I remember the Gabby Petito case where people where derailing saying how come a white women gets covered during this case going on #and she was found dead the next day ( I think the timeline is foggy to me) #and it just left suck a horrible taste in my mouth how callous it was

[akkivee]

you would have to pay me an egregious amount of money to get me to actively care about tdd lmao

#vee queued to fill the void #track 5 is only exception and that’s because i do think tdd as a whole needed track 5 #‘cause like track 5 added more depth between their bonds i think is just absent from tdd #but track 5 also had sasara and kuukou and that’s my primary beef with tdd lol #narratives that leave nagosaka out i completely check out of lol #i have a tdd poster hanging in my room that i WILL be replacing with either a bat poster or a poster with the homies and hoods art #when tdd legend happened during the 9th live i astral projected out of my body so my body could do its thing and jam #but mentally i was still vibing with the women lmao #readers revisionism takes effect whenever i read the tdd manga actually what happened was the six leaders formed a six man crew #and then they got so big chuuoku brainwashed sasara and kuukou to break up with samatoki and ichiro #and in a very harrowing few days/weeks samatoki and ichiro face off in that drb test run and ramuda and jakurai fight on a rooftop #lol i’m tdd’s biggest hater

[halfyearsqueen]

she has nothing against daughters inheriting over sons and never has - but she knows the realities that she’s faced as a female attempting to fight for her position when there is a male claimant, and she’s the king’s daughter. with the backing of the king. it was a ? kind of an open secret that many believed she was an exception and not a standard to be set, and she was so incredibly visible and incredibly watched, she couldn’t outwardly express those ideals without worry of men Getting Scared and loosing their support entirely. because she does ? embody the potential for change even if she couldn’t push for it so much outwardly.

#she’s standing on a consistent precipice of honoring what is expected of her as a woman in her society and doing her duty to her father and #to the realm while #also proving that she could rule and rule well in her own right and not just as a avenue in which her husband could rule through her #it’s that sort of duality of vision in the sense of her very existence defies the norms of what is expected of women #and she’s consistently punished for it and like ? this is why she and laena tie her sons and her daughter’s claims together when they’re #toddlers #so rhaenys’ bloodline could sit the iron throne one day and laena’s could inherit driftmark #and like the two daughters who’s claims were passed over during the dance for their brothers is ? her worry over loosing support is so very #exacerbated by her debilitating mental health and mounting paranoia #and the decision very much does come back to bite her in the ass 😭 #and corlys basically tells her in that conversation what she already knew #she’s not a feminist by our standards by any means but that’s ? because she’s been between a rock and a hard place since she was nine years #old #and she wanted to be able to build the foundations for absolute primogeniture during her reign #to be implemented and passed into law during Jace’s

[mariemariemaria]

ive realised that i just?? dont take paracetamol most of the time when im in pain? even though i have the tablets and know its an option?? just suffered through a whole day of cramps and literally only realised that i didnt have to do that? i dont have to suffer?

#it took years of me having period pain before my mother was like 'u know u can take tablets...u dont have to suffer' #and that seemed like a revelation but tbh a lot of the time i just forget #like idk if its about the normalisation of womens pain or whatever. or if i literally just forget that its an option lol #or just dont see it as necessary when i can survive without it #like last night i took one to help me sleep #but during the day im like 'well i can still do my activities so theres no point' ??? as if it wouldnt be way better if i wasnt in pain??

[khaleesiofalicante]

My mom is making fun of me because I’m busier than usual and it’s because women’s day is coming up and all the tokenistic assholes in the development sector are ready to be a feminist for 24 hours.

#pointless post #y’all know florists are busy during Valentine’s Day? feminists are busy on women’s day #LET ME REST IN PEACE LIKE??? #every single client want to do something big and I’m like ?????

[ladysternchen]

Something unrelated to Tolkien for a change…

🌹each woman a rose💐

Violence against a human being is a crime.

Women before, during and after birth are human beings (and again very slowly for doctors and a few nurses and midwives as well: YOUNG. MOTHERS. ARE. HUMAN.BEINGS!)

Violence during pregnancy and during or after childbirth is a crime.

It is not ‘necessary’.

Forcing a woman to stay in a position in which she cannot bear the pain (a pain, moreover, that scientists put down as one of the most severe that a human being can endure) is an act of violence.

Shaming and belittleing a birthing woman is an act of violence.

Cutting a birthing woman open without her valid consent -that is consent given after the woman made an informed decision- is an act of violence.

Pressuring a woman to give up her right to make decisions concerning HER OWN body in potential favour of the unborn child is an act of violence.

Ignoring a woman’s ‘STOP’ is an act of violence and -if that includes your hands up her vagina or fumbling around with her breast trying to stuff a bleeding nipple into a screaming newborn’s mouth- sexual assault.

Invalidating a woman’s experience is an act of violence.

Yes yes yes, I know. Sometimes there is an emergency… yeah, you know, if you have time enough to say to the concerned nurse ‘oh, she’s not even im pain, she’s just acting the diva.’ you have enough time to say ‘dear, I know this is terrible frightening and you’re in pain, but we need to move fast now to make sure you and baby are ok. We’re taking good care of you. It’ll be over soon’- that makes the difference between a difficult birth and a traumatic one.

And besides, 1/3 of all mothers describe birth as being traumatic. Not 1/3 of all births include emergencies. So stop using that stupid argument to rectify you bad work.

You’re stressed, I get it. We have a global healthcare crisis. I am truly sorry for that. But if you’re so stressed it makes you feel that violence is needed to make the system work, then it’s probably time to step back.

#each woman a rose #roses revolution day 2023 #stop violence against women #violence during childbirth is violence against women #your not alone #birth-trauma #i promise it gets bearable one day #hang in there mom who possibly reads this and feels like she’ll never feel whole again #who feels she lost her dignity #who has no idea how to be a mom to a helpless baby when she herself is so wounded #you matter #your health matters #you’re enough

[starlit-mansion]

it's kind of wild that jessie gender used the word transandrophobia in a youtube video. i've never seen that happen before. people gotchaing you know who for blatantly misgendering rebecca sugar and nate stevenson was the most callout of actual transmasc or afab transneutral erasure i've seen from the video essay space in memory, and even that was mostly just to pad out the callout post

#it's nice to hear literally one transfeminine person self-reflect on the way people talk over trans men in the youtube literati sphere #but. to be fair. a LOT of people called the lack of visible trans men out during hbomb's mermaids charity stream years back #there was a lot of scrambling to find transmasc guests towards the end. like.. irrc just tweeting out for guests #and then idk i don't think it moved the needle at all after that #(but also i stopped watching cpoints during the middle of her 'being cancelled for nonbinary erasure' era so idk if she changed) #other than that... in the mask off vid in l.e.'s final yt days she apologized for saying trans men have it easier than trans women #citing (as everyone seems to) elliot page finally showing the world that trans men are treated like dogshit #which uh. hm. i get that saying that doesn't call anyone of lesser visibility out #but frankly i'm shocked that she spent so much time in HER fandoms seemingly without ever encountering trans men lmao #(that's a joak. i remember it was way less visible a decade ago. fandom spaces were very girls club back then) #i'm rambling now lol #it's... a little wild that the misgendering was assigned to misogyny alone if i'm being honest. it was literally in the misogyny section #and it was about classing them as women to say that they were ALLOWED to show 'nonthreatening' wlw stories

[musical-chick-13]

Again, always very confusing to me when people suffering from The Obsessive Compulsives are Antis™, like these people will not protect you. They believe thought crimes are real. They inherently hate you and WILL throw you to the wolves if they ever come to know about anything related to your intrusive thoughts or the """""weird""""" things they ask you to do in therapy to manage/cope with them.

#you know how in erp a big part of it is writing down/thinking about the actual worst case scenario? you know the scenario that #often leads to people being harmed in a permanent way? you know creating a fictional scenario where bad things happen to good #people and you are the cause of them? THE VERY KIND OF FICTION THESE PEOPLE ARE AGAINST EXISTING IN ANY FORM BECAUSE IT #'NORMALIZES' WHATEVER TF THEY'RE ON A CRUSADE ABOUT ON ANY GIVEN DAY #THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. THIS WAY OF THINKING IS /ACTIVELY ANTITHETICAL/ TO RECOVERY FROM THIS DISORDER #this is related to the 'does anyone else get Themes™ about writing' question I posed a while back and some of these people.......... #if you knew the specifics of what I was writing about you would COMMIT ARSON #IT'S NOT REAL! NONE OF THIS IS REAL!! YOU ARE ONLY GOING TO MAKE IT WORSE FOR YOURSELF BY MORALIZING FICTION IN THIS WAY #I USED TO HAVE CRISES OVER SYMPATHIZING WITH AND ENJOYING VARIOUS HORRIBLE FICTIONAL WOMEN TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO KNOWS DIRECTLY!!!!!!! #and ngl a lot of these arguments about why xyz is Irredeemable™ sound a LOT like my disorder. #(especially in the way they try to like...twist things into fitting into a definition of [insert type of problematic dynamic here] a la #'character raising their voice at someone one time during a high-stakes situation is abuse' or 'people who were friends as children #are Related Actually') #like. you get why. you get why this VERY disorder would think in similar ways to that right. because it tries to convince you that #everything you do is violating various human rights correct? you get why this would be unhelpful right? #IF YOU SOUND LIKE MY FUCKING DISORDER!!! YOU ARE WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!! #In the Vents #okay I'm done. this just. It BUGS me.

[fideidefenswhore]

#i was rewatching this episode whilst stoned the other day #so my experience might have been shaped by the luxury of that experience #but like bruh...this show ROCKED #slayed shook boots the house down #it's such a limitus test of the best ways to use creative license wrt historical texts #bcus while the primary source does show that these two women said these words in some effect #the report alleges that there was some intermediary in these messages. this was the message anne sent mary vs the response mary gave #to the messenger...not that they had this sort of direct confrontation or even conversation #but of course this was the choice in how to adapt the source and without that creative choice we wouldn't have this #just...fantastic scene #the whole episode is so interesting and i hadn't realized prior that they chose it to be the same one #mary's refusal and anne deciding to manipulate henry's choice for his next mistress during her second pregnancy on her father's advice #so in that framing it was how she decided to employ defense against the unsaid threat in that confrontation #also don't @ me. she has water signs in her chart