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#when flights are cheaper and everyone at work isn't fighting for the same four days off
arsonforcharlie
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3 years
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listen champs i know i have the right to talk about my problems but........ like what if i don’t tho
#my family is pretty good on the whole!
#but boy howdy have i realized over the past decade or so that how shit i feel after the holidays
#correlates directly with how much christmas shit i had to do
#my ideal christmas is like one small dinner and maybe a tibb's eve thing
#but otherwise just doing whatever i want to do
#and my whole family does the Multi Week Obligation Of Dinners Every Night
#Every Song Played This Month Has To Be Festive
#the entire Christmas Season thing
#and it poisons the traditions i do like
#because i'm too exhausted to enjoy them
#and when i do go home there's no way to say 'yeah i am in town but i don't want to go'
#so in a post-covid future where i can travel freely
#i would rather stay here for christmas and then travel back to see family some other time of year
#when flights are cheaper and everyone at work isn't fighting for the same four days off
#maybe see the relatives i choose and actually dedicate time to them
#instead of them being stuck in the kitchen taking care of making the evening happen
#while i make awkward conversation with my grandma's husband's son's wife
#who i have not thought about since i saw her two years ago and i can ensure the feeling is mutual
#like i am not even rolling up like 'i don't celebrate christmas' as much as 'i would like to celebrate christmas LESS'
#(this feeling has only strengthened since so many of the people who mean so much to me do not live Back Home)
#and i know it is foolish to complain about this especially since i do have an easy out
#i can just go home when i want to go home
#and if i need to spin it as not being able to get the time off
#but still jeez may i just Rest
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