#wear feminine clothes

[somecunttookmyurl]

my boyfriend is not any flavour of queer. he says he "wishes he was" because queer people "just seem to understand the world so much" by which i assume he means we by default actually consider society wrt sex and gender, but he is unfortunately both cis and het. he's checked.

he carries around a copy of "the little book of lgbtq" in his backpack at all times in case he needs to look something up.

a good chunk of his youtube history is queer history / queer media / 'what it's like to be x' videos. he thinks all of you with the less famous identities (ie not the L G B or T) are very cool and funky and hopes you have a good day.

he knows he's straight because he has kissed men on several occasions and was not into it sexually. one of those times was a gay dude who promised to buy him drinks all night in exchange for a kiss and my boyfriend is nothing if not a wee whore. one of the others was kissing his gay friend who was depressed about not being able to hook up with anyone, because he is a very sweet wee whore.

he would do it again because he is very neutral on the kiss itself (not into it, but not grossed out by it. it's just a kiss, innit) and because he doesn't want people to be so lonely and sad that they cry in the smoking area of the club.

#i still think he has some gender fuckery going on that he hasnt unearthed yet #he grew up in a very MEN! ARE! MEN! community and is very insecure about his masculinity #he WANTS to be perceived as male but to the extent he frequently laments not being able to wear certain things bc they are 'too feminine' #and thinks women get cooler clothes than men #i mean we do but also you can just wear them it's goth attire its basically gender neutral by default #he started wearing (black) nail polish as a regular thing after we met and is just now branching out to other colours #he gets hit on by gay/bi men a lot which is funny bc he's always like #'i'm so sorry i WISH i was but i simply am not you are very handsome though'

[thepunkmuppet]

the reason why transfem elias is my favourite theory for gwendolyn is because think about the implications.

so let’s say this alternate universe reveals that elias is actually transgender, and would present/identify as female if they had the opportunity to figure themself out and transition (elias was reportedly very young when jonah possessed them)

then the idea that in the tma universe they not only didn’t live long enough to do that, but THEIR BODY WAS TAKEN OVER BY SOMEONE ELSE WHO THEN PRESENTED IN A MASCULINE WAY AND LIVED AS A MAN USING THEIR FACE AND BODY FOR OVER TWENTY YEARS?!? FUCKING TERRIFYING

as a trans person myself, even though the real elias was dead the dysphoria that idea gives me is absolutely unreal, and really creeps into serious body/existential horror territory which i think would be really interesting and very in-character for a writer like jonny to explore.

#idk how they would explain her not being voiced by ben meredith but honestly it’s whatever i like this idea too much to think abt semantics #it’s just so horrible #the freaky friday trope was never something i could even entertain happening to myself #because someone else looking at my body!! and having control over it!! and potentially wearing feminine clothes and makeup and aaahhhhhh #i hate it #it’s a very interesting and nasty horror concept to me #transfem elias is real if this doesn’t turn out to be canon i will probably write it #the magnus archives #tma #the magnus protocol #tmagp #elias bouchard #gwendolyn bouchard #jonah magnus

[justsalpals]

julia really hit peak character design when she made eugene

big cape. pink eyeliner. dangly earrings. sensible skirt. space theme. tits out.

I want to be him

#I think it speaks to the afab nonbinary in me that he wears what we'd think of as feminine clothing but in a masc way #like it doesn't look like he's breaking the binary or rocking the system. he's just a man in clothes and also looks bomb as hell. #eugene let me be you please #drawtectives #drawfee #eugene finch

[thegardenofbae]

Oh to be an African woman in traditional-wear ✨

#the garden of bae #bae’s closet #bae’s style #traditional wear #African traditional clothes #african clothes #black femininity #black girls in luxury #black women in luxury #feminine moodboard #luxury black women

[tmr404]

This happens more than I can even begin to tell you!!!

#sissifyme #humiliation sissy #sissy tasks #feminine sissy #feminization captions #faggot sissy #feminization kink #transgurl #sissy ferminization #trans woman #the she in me #pretty girls #inner girl desire #wearing girl clothes #just girly thoughts #need to be a girl #tumblr girls

[savaralyn2]

#dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #otta #elf #fashion #im suprised otta willingly wears feminine clothing but ok #ryoko kui

[beaft]

the most fucked up thing about the insanely long waiting times for UK gender clinics is that the ultimate TERF bugaboo is the scary trans woman who has made "no effort" to medically transition. that's the argument they jump to every time - the "why should we treat this man like a woman when all he's done is put on a dress?" - and it's patently absurd because like, what the fuck do you expect her to do? become a shapeshifter? get a back-alley boob job? magic up the funds for private healthcare out of nowhere? it's so moronic

#obviously there are trans women who don't want to medically transition and that's fine too #but it's insane to me that the ones who do get punished for not being able to #and of course if they wear makeup and femme clothes that's bad too because they're 'mocking' femininity #or 'playing dress up' #trans women literally cannot win where terfs are concerned #it makes me so angry #transphobia #transmisogyny

[flamejob]

missy elliott masc swag >>>>>>>>

#missy elliott #no debating in the notes abt how some of this isn't really masc i'm aware #i'm talking about how she was bringing wearing traditionally masc clothes into mainstream hiphop #when a lot of female stars and her colleagues were dressing extremely feminine #and also the significance of her doing this as a woc #also she's just hot

[a-casual-egg]

I just wanna say all their fashion is incredible and top-tier

#oxventure #oxventure deadlands #oxventure deadlands spoilers #I would wear what everyone except Ellen is wearing #I'm just not that fond of wearing feminine clothing

[dickpuncher420]

i read the phrase “i access my femininity through my masculinity” once (in the context of butchness) and it’s stuck w me ever since. now that i feel like i’ve grown into myself as a butch i find myself able to enjoy more stereotypically “feminine” things that i tended to reject when i was younger and still figuring myself out. things like makeup, jewelry, nail polish, colourful clothes, cutesy aesthetics, heels…they no longer feel stifling to me. my relationship to them has changed because i no longer feel like i’m obligated to perform femininity. rather, i can pick and choose which parts of it enjoy, and simply leave the rest behind. and i’m secure enough in my identity as a masculine person to know that enjoying these things doesn’t detract from my masculinity—in fact, i can use them to construct and further my own masculinity in a way that feels genuine to who i am.

#genuinely my favourite kind of femininity is like. femininity performed by men #like when i wear jewelry or nail polish or heels or whatever its not to look like a woman. its to look like a Feminine Man #altho if im being honest. a lot of my fashion inspirations arent even necessarily feminine men #they’re just men who wear those kinds of things and are still very clearly masc #THAT’S what im striving for #beautiful black men in fun daring clothes i want to be u so bad. #anyways. dunno why i was thinking abt this today. just felt like sharing sum thots #dick punches

[princeseerow]

on a much broader note i think there really is something to be said about how much gender and gender expression are tied to one's culture, and how it all goes totally out the window when you start taking aliens into account. like, there's nothing overtly gender non-confirming about aximili as an andalite in andalite land, but on earth, he has no reason to perform male-ness in a way thats recognizable to humans. why should he? human gender roles dont even align 1:1 with andalite gender roles, but why should that be his problem? ax has much bigger things to worry about than the gender binary of some planet he's only temporarily living on. and i think thats beautiful

#animorphs #animorphs fanon i suppose #i know we dont get any in-text evidence that human!ax wears feminine clothes but its also not not canon #i think its pretty broadly accepted by the fans anyway and who else would be reading this but ani fans

[chilewithcarnage]

ppl won't admit it but 2000s clothes were the absolute worst if you were a fat person

#saying as someone who was a 2000s kid #if you wanted to wear feminine clothes everything was too tight too low and cut too short #if you wanted to wear masculine clothes everything was over sized #you either looked like a toddler outgrowong its baby clothes or a toddler wearing hand me downs #i was in the trenches fr

[beetlebane]

T4t casphardt sketchy comic i made a bit ago.

Caspars a bit confused at first but he always finds a way to make linhardt feel better.

My handwriting can be hard to read so heres the text

C: man, linhardts room is a total wreck. How many books does one guy need? Theres not even any pictures.

C: oh lin, youre finally here. Are you gonna help me clean your own your room or — what… what are you wearing?

L: ah well, Dorothea and Mercedes wanted to practice their “make-up” skills on me. They decided to braid my hair as well while they were at it. As for the outfit, its one of Mercedes spare uniforms. They insisted i put it on to “finish” the look.

C: seriously? Did you just let them do that or did they get you while you were asleep?

L: I was initially against it, of course. But i found it rather relaxing, especially the braiding. So i allowed them to continue.

C: YUCK! That stuff feels so gross on your face. I hated it when my mom would make me wear it. Not to mention the clothes, UGH. I dont know how anyone can wear those skirts. It made climbing trees like so hard. I got no idea how the girls wear those to battle.

C: you should change out of that, we can clean your room together after. Aaaaanyways- youve got like way too many library books dude. No way one guy can read all this.

L: mhm

C: uh, you ok buddy?

L: Im fine caspar. Im just thinking about how youre right. Not about the books of course.

C: uhh…. Thats just how I feel man… do you like it?

L: dont be ridiculous caspar, why would I like this?

C: ack! I dont know… i hated that stuff when i was little so i dont really get it. But maybe youre like the opposite y’know? I always liked climbing trees and fighting and all that…. “Stuff” got in the way. When i cut my hair and started wearin’ my brothers old clothes i felt… uh, more like me, pretty much. If you like wearin’ that stuff too then thats cool. I guess in that way i understand pretty well.

C: Arg! I dont know man- i mean! Lin! Im not good with all this thinking and explaining! Lets get back to cleaning your room. We gave inspections soon. Remember last time your room was a mess and you almosr got written up! (Ramble ramble)

L: thank you caspar

C: y-yeah

L: I didnt know you were capable of that kind of emotional intelligence

C: wow! give me some credit lin, its different when it comes to you

#fe3h #linhardt von hevring #fire emblem three houses #caspar von bergliez #casphardt #fe #fe3houses #theyre t4t #linhardt doesnt go on to wear feminine clothes but i think this opens her eyes to gender expression #canon linhardt design is already so transfemme to me

[thelov3lybookworm]

its soo funny to me how dressing up and putting on some cool earrings and rings make me feel like im soooo beautiful

#usually im in my baggy clothes #but today i decided to wear more feminine stuff and bam #i feel like i can conquer the world

[puppyeared]

Atla live action 😐

#thats my honest reaction 😐 #to be fair ive only seen 20 minutes of the s1 finale bc my parents are watching it but. mmmmm kinda mid #like. the casting is definitely an improvement since the last time they tried a live action but it feels like the writing falls flat #or maybe im being harsh bc ive only heard negative criticism on it beforehand. but fr anytime u bring up the original its already #good and not just because its the original. so much fucking detail went into it to the point of someone noticing azula wielding mai's knive #to how well thought out irohs character is used as a way of uniting the cast especially as zukos foil #i heard that sokkas sexism was toned down and i have to agree that feels like a cheap move. like i get WHY they think it would be better #but its not about how that reflects on real world its about how it affects the story. sokka starts out as a misogynistic asshole because #it makes it that much more impactful when he changes. toning that down makes it flatter and makes his character development weak #and someone pointed out they didnt even make him wear the kyoshi warrior uniform and i know it feels like such a small detail but #come on man. they did that in the original because not only does it help him really walk in their shoes - wearing 'feminine' clothing and #makeup and having suki explain its significance but it also ties in with the shows theme of harmony and intersectionality #i was also disappointed when they had the fire sages explain how the water tribe draws power from the moon because in the original it was #IROH who explained it to aang and everyone else BECAUSE we as the audience is under the impression hes with the 'bad guys' #and it builds up to how he learned from the other nations which reconciles his past as a war general and his character overall #AND its an excellent starting point for the cast and audience to understand how the nations arent as closed off as you would think #plus you would think its only fire nation doing propaganda but they expanded on that with earth kingdom censorship and it WORKS #a lot of things in the live action also feel arbitrary like. they gave momo a near death experience for 5 minutes for no reason #im firmly on the stance of bringing back filler moments instead of putting major events right after each other so that u give your #audience a sense of time passing and to really absorb the story. but i think thats more like shock value than filler and yeah its a small #thing to gripe about but those things build up and its really annoying. the thing abt avatar filler moments is that however small #its at least meaningful. hell even the beach episode emphasizes how isolated zuko and his friends are as child soldiers #i also swore to never watch the first live action since it was that bad but i really liked the stylized tattoos they used for aang #anyway. those arejust my thoughts. im not gonna watch the rest because im a ride or die for the original aftr growing up and #rewatching it at least 20 times as a kid. but theres definitely room for improvement and i wish ppl wouldnt take it as 'better' just cuz #netflix is adapting it. i wouldve killed for them to just reanimate the entire avatar series and touch NOTHING ELSE no redub #no changes to the story. just reanimate the thing and leave the rest alone and youd make easy money just the same #ALSO its very jarring not hearing jack desena and dante basco voicing sokka and zuko cause their voices were the most recognizable to me #i get that its because its live action but im allowed to feel a little sad abt that. and uncle irohs accent was really soothing #yapping

[oscill4te]

i love how being gnc when you are a woman means just existing as you are and being comfortable

#i dont even wanna consider myself gnc sometimes... like. im gnc for not shaving and wearing baggy comfortable clothes? lmao #meanwhile there are vry gnc women who put a lot of effort into their appearance and their swag shows... (couldn't be me LOL) #my fawning makes me not wanna consider myself gnc dhsjsjsm #bc my personality is what ppl want in “feminine” women (i hate saying that. so barf worthy bc i hate what people expect of women) #maybe i got some internalized issues for saying that. #i mean. i shouldnt hate myself for being “soft” i just need to be careful about that softness. idk #and i shouldnt gender it. its just my personality