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reneestjohn · 9 months
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The Importance of Wealth
I just re /blocked a lot of bloggers .
I wanted to answer your dm in honesty . I feel at 30 , I know a (small ) bit and want to share it with you.
Firstly. I did not grow up poor .
I mention this a lot bc what is important/unimportant to me may not be to another girl , and I completely understand that .
When I came to the city that I am currently living in , I had never been exposed prior to this kind of wealth .
I mean the complete absence of worrying about finances or money period .
A really nice med student at my hospital and I became friendly (I do not consider her my friend) . Anywhose when she invited me to her 25th birthday party , I had no idea where she lived
The sheer opulence. We actually received Chanel party favors …as guest
I felt thrown off bc I knitted her a cap . The winters here are brutal
Anywhose , after that I was invited to a lot of her functions
At one of those functions I was introduced to this man (whom continued staring at me as though I was a specimen)
He was wealthy and very powerful I came to find out .
The difference between rich and wealth is vastly different imo
Rich means affording nice vacations , homes , etc
Wealth is power to manipulate things as you desire .
This may mean the ability to call someone to void a parking ticket , or closing an entire restaurant just so we could dine alone
He actually did that .
This man knew everything regarding me including what university I graduated, my minor degrees , where I went to medical school , and most importantly, business things regarding my family
I was so uncomfortable.
Who should had access to personal information in this manner if it is not given freely?
I told my grandfather about him .
Tbc . I do not desire money or a certain lifestyle at all cost.
I want a zombie proof house and a library to store my books. That is all I need .
I did not grow up with everything given to me , and that is ok .
One of the few times I have ever exerted my power was for my godson .
He attends a shitty private school with tight ass parents .
I felt he was over looked purposefully for something I will not go into detail regarding .
I was able to acquire major donations from corporate sponsors for his school , including from that guy
Who was actually the company head /boss or such over some of the husbands of the wives at that school . Imagine that ! Such a small world
In turn , it altered the complete outcome for my godson . I am well versed with shitty rich money and dominating those kinds of women .
Money and power are unfortunately all they understand, not fairness
I had to teach them I had both and not to cross those that I love .
Now we are all parent “friends”
My point of this entire ramble is that this man wanted to control my whole life .
If I was an underachiever this may have worked for me , but I am not
I found it weird when I noticed accomplished women in that circle,
I am speaking attorneys, biologists , etc were leaving their careers (unwillingly) to marry …and just do what ?
Including the doctor I spoke of earlier
Most politician wives do the same thing I notice
I feel a college degree for them is just for show, but mines is not
I can not forget who I am and just absorb myself in a man’s life
I can not .
I am a partner and a person
It was hard shaking that man bc as I said he was powerful
and that made him dangerous imo
If you are dealing with someone like that , you should be cautious
It is so easy to become attached to the wealth and gifts
Ngl , he bought me the nicest Diamond stud earrings and some other things I wanted , and I still have ❤️
But I was meant to be more than a kept woman .
I meet my ex daddy soon thereafter .
There is no comparison to him imo
If you decide to ignore those red flags you mentioned in your dm, then you are giving up your power
So many women give up their power in order to “marrywell” but end of with much less .
Personally I feel everyone should have respected boundaries , not having them in a relationship is a mistake
As I mentioned to you in the beginning, money is not my primary concern , but everyone circumstances are different
Just make sure you are being respected in your relationship
Men are not excused from respecting boundaries and care just because they are wealthy, nor should you over look basic common courtesy bc they are
Money is not everything 💫
#pls excuse the rambling monologue. My brain is fried . It was a tough day
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millionairesingles · 1 year
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Rich Men Lifestyle.
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stylerenders · 6 months
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hawkogurl · 13 days
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#oh? you’re characters in a three part iconic series that came out in the mid 2000’s#and one of you is a wealthy abused child with heavily symbolic burns scars who undergoes a redemption arc that concludes in the third part#of the franchise who’s villainy is defined by an attachment to an abusive father and a need to please him despite him not at all deserving#your loyalty and your redemption is internally motivated by your own experiences and defined by a moment where you realize who you want to#actually be? and you’re connected to a lot of shipping drama despite honestly seeming gay as fuck?#and a consistently heroic male lead with romantic drama including a brief relationship with a light haired woman that you have regrets about#and a lighter haired woman who majorly influences your character arc and you can tell is cool as fuck because men hate her? and your arc#revolves around maturing and going through various circumstances that basically function as a mini coming of age story in a piece of fiction#not of that genre? and you have baggage related to family members who you feel responsible for the fates of? and you put an intense amount#of personal pressure on yourself because you see yourself as a protector and if you can’t do that you’ve failed?#and you’re emotionally superglued to each other despite lots of disasterous first interactions?#atla#avatar the last airbender#sokka#atla sokka#zuko#prince zuko#harryposting#harry osborn#raimiverse#raimi trilogy#spider man#spiderman#peter parker#parksborn#zukka
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pro-birth · 1 month
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I don’t hate sex work because I hate sex workers. I hate sex work because I hate the Johns who dangle money in front of them. I hope that helps. ❤️❤️❤️
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imaginal-ai · 1 month
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"Leopold" (0001)
On sale at Society6
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bootobeneficiary · 4 months
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As much as I want to apologize to anyone who feels like I am “mean”, it wouldn’t be an authentic one.
Im always called a meanie when it comes to dating asks and I understand, thanks to my own self reflection.
You may ask the question,but other people take the advice. Other people mainly being teens.
Some of y’all think hypergamy is this lala land trend when in reality, it requires emotional maturity, survival skills, strategy and common sense.
You’re so focused on being fEmInInE that you fail to have a proper masculine balance.
These men use your desire to “date up” and “be spoiled” to take advantage of you. To drain your happiness, your youth and sometimes your bank account.
They’ve mastered a feminine and masculine balance for the sole purpose of playing games with you.
Masculine: appearing as the provider, ambitious,
Feminine: pull on your heart strings for forgiveness, being “vulnerable” and telling you about their harsh childhood so you feel bad for them
I want to apologize, I do. But Dating Out of Pity (Ignorance) or for Companionship Can Have Fatal Consequences for You and Your Loved Ones
@teentoospoiled
Can I be honest? Some of my genuine followers are not built for hypergamy. You avoid taking the necessary steps to obtain and retain a hypergamous lifestyle.
You lack the discipline for skill building.
You lack the self reliance to give yourself advice and act on it
You lack the self control to practice celibacy even in temptation
You know what? There’s nothing wrong with that
Hypergamy is my survival strategy, back against the wall style. I am advising you all as if I was advising my teen self, preparing her for the dating market.
My advice is hard hitting. It is provoking to promote self reflection, not to hurt anyone’s feelings or to be a bully.
I just don’t wanna waste your time with fluff
Shame is usually the first step towards self development; feeling ashamed about wasting time, not making better choices or reading advice that resonates with you.
That’s when you begin to do better, so begin right now
P.S: I call myself out in the same style I do these asks. I don’t berate myself but I require myself to give a raw, real answer to my shortcomings.
I’m doing the same with you because I fwu
It’s not easy, it’s effective
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deestrouble · 10 months
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I have many thoughts about the finale but I'll start with the first.
I can't even lie, that was the most gratifying ending to Tom & Greg's arc that I could dream of. The sticker thing...so weirdly affectionate and yet so dehumanizing. Greg is Tom's favorite, his confidante. But he's also just an object- a sentimental keepsake from the past. A gentle reminder of who Tom was before the throne, as unassuming yet comforting as the things in Logan's apartment.
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beardedmrbean · 1 year
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Little early for Christmas, but that's ok
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beamosa · 11 months
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heathcliff loves catherine so much despite the fact that she said something to him that made him leave with a desire to be better for her. Thinking back on his source material and “Be with me always - take any form - drive me mad! only do not leave me in this abyss, where I cannot find you!” and how he’s literally living up to that in N corp. also has anyone noticed how he wears a promise ring on his hand… im throwing up. all the catherine/heathcliff ments
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pudgyem · 11 months
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no WAY a customer at work was just talking to me about someone with a fat fetish ..
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comradegendry · 11 months
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cannot figure out how to articulate my feelings on the writing for jack this ep other than to say that it makes complete sense to me that a 1%er who literally said this ep that her dad is a billionaire would choose being socially accepted by those she views as her actual peers over showing respect and decency to someone others look down upon. even if that person being looked down on is her literal partner. 
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gent-illmatic · 8 months
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My friend named his dog Quaalude 😭 .You only live once.
Btw Lord I see what you’ve done for others😮‍💨
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stylerenders · 6 months
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freebooter4ever · 13 hours
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here i am making fun of this weird rich girl who has been taught to only value her youth and beauty (despite attending an ivy???) meanwhile the only thing i go on dates with these days is my mobile studio bag. big talk from my high horse of loneliness. (but i think i would rather have eternal loneliness than a dictator thanks)
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bethanydelleman · 1 year
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Jane Austen Characters and Neurodiversity
Jane Austen wrote characters who feel so real and interesting that scholars have been arguing about them almost since they were written. People identify with many aspects of characters that probably weren’t intended by the author, including reading Emma Woodhouse and Charlotte Lucas (among others) as queer. Headcanons are great and if you see yourself, as a neurodiverse person, in an Austen character, that is awesome. This post is only my opinion and I’m not an expert. It is also impossible to make a diagnosis based on a 200 year old book.
The main reason I don't attribute the behaviour of Jane Austen's characters to anything clinical is because I think Jane Austen was trying to show how wealth and the single-minded pursuit of wealth can twist people. Darcy is in the top 1% (or even the top 1% of the 1%) and even today, those sort of people don't come off as normal even if they are neurotypical. I think most of the characters' behaviour can be accounted for by 1. being extremely wealthy/powerful meaning they are unchallenged in a way that magnifies their faults, 2. the fact that most of these people don’t have jobs and are therefore idle and under-stimulated (even a lot of the ones who have “jobs”), 3. attention seeking behaviour and 4. being surrounded by fawning Yes Men.
There is also the complicated discussion of maybe neurodiversity would explain some behaviour but it does not excuse.
There are only two Austen characters that strike me as having some sort of possible psychiatric illness or neurodivergence: Mr. Woodhouse (Emma) and Anne Steele (Sense and Sensibility).
Anne Steele is the only character who is actually incapable of following social rules. She is about thirty years old, and yet twice in the novel she is kept from making a huge breach of decorum by her younger sister. She is obsessed with Marianne’s clothes/appearance, to the point of asking what the fabric and washing costs. Importantly, Anne is not wealthy or powerful enough to ignore social rules. She is trying to court favour most of the time and yet cannot manage it without Lucy’s help. Also, she is distressed that Lucy will no longer trim her bonnets, which suggests she is incapable of doing it herself. I’m not sure how difficult it is to change ribbons in a bonnet, but it stood out to me as a little odd.
The other is Mr. Woodhouse. He is tricky for me. We are told he’s basically been like this all his life, so it’s not a case of dementia (though that could be making him worse).
The evil of the actual disparity in their ages (and Mr. Woodhouse had not married early) was much increased by his constitution and habits; for having been a valetudinarian all his life, without activity of mind or body, he was a much older man in ways than in years; and though everywhere beloved for the friendliness of his heart and his amiable temper, his talents could not have recommended him at any time. (Ch 1)
Also, his health anxiety can’t only be a manifestation of grief from losing his wife, because again, we are told he’s always been this way and he married late in life. One of the interesting things is that he’s not just worried about his health, he is incapable of imagining that other people are unlike him in their health or even thoughts. That is a failure of theory of mind, a major developmental milestone.
He could have some form of anxiety, probably comorbid with something that accounts for his inability to understand others, but then again, he’s a very rich man that no one ever disagrees with... which makes me think there is a chance he’s just a health conspiracy theorist who’s gone off the deep end. This would fit better into Jane Austen’s overall thesis that wealth screws people up too. (Note: Isabella is very similar to her father. Anxiety disorders can run in families but she does seem to tolerate being challenged better than her father.)
Lastly, despite being so concerned about his health, Mr. Woodhouse is never actually ill during the novel, while other characters do have recorded illnesses. Isabella, who shares her father’s fears, has born five healthy children. So whatever is wrong doesn’t seem to effect them physically very much.
Another Note: I have heard an argument for Fanny Price having ASD based on her inability to stand the noise or eat the food at her home in Portsmouth. I found this compelling, but I think we are meant to understand that the noise is overwhelming and everyone else is just used to it.
Last Note: To reiterate, I am not arguing that anyone’s headcanon is wrong. A headcanon is meant to be something that can’t be proved or disproved by the book. I just personally don’t see enough evidence in the text for most other characters to fit a psychological diagnosis or neurodivergence, especially Darcy. Being the coddled child of overindulgent parents who told him the planet revolved around him because he was so rich and important seems like a pretty good explanation for his behaviour to me! (and is what he says in the book).
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