#we love trans women here

[dykeaegir]

i dunno all this talk about not liking men is making me self conches so like. i just want y’all to know. there is a difference between not being attracted to men in a romantic or sexual way and feeling alienated in a society that caters to them and not liking men just bc they’re icky gwoss and women are soooo much better >_<

so like. when a lesbian talks about being in the first category don’t jump to conclusions and start to believe they actually belong in the second category. you can be someone who isn’t attracted to men and also doesn’t hate men for no good reason

#i dunno. i felt like i needed to say somethin #cuz like. i don’t LIKE men. but that doesn’t mean i HATE men. y’know? #tl;dr don’t demonize lesbians and sapphics for their lack of attraction to men in a male-dominated society #no one identity or set of attractions makes one group more superior than another #and also. don’t hate on the entire category of man for no reason. there are plenty of men who also belong to marginalized groups #also also trans women are WOMEN and NOT included in the category of MEN so get that TERF shit out of my house!!!! #WE LOVE TRANS WOMEN HERE #everyone be kind and happy please. or i will cry #pride tag #bear.txt

[mettaworldpiece]

I lost my post on this but yall again you should be reaching out, making community with and uplifting Black trans women esp w the surging fascism and murder rates we face. And make sure you are telling the younger tme babies and yt trans women the same thing cus it is getting ugly out here and it wont get any prettier til yall remember us

#I am running out of ways to say this #but also I shouldnt have to say this these things were known when I was transitioning and before #yes we are not on here like we used to be but there are tons of younger Black trans women on here who need you #and apparently yall need them #peace and love im done on this (for now)

[saytrrose]

PRE TRANSITION QUEENIE PRE TRANSITION QUE- 💥💥💥

#eeee #takes some courage to tell Caine she wanted a avatar change #but he’s the best fr #he understands!! #Caine W #we love trans women here RAAA #tadc #the amazing digital circus #kinger #tadc kinger #queenie #tadc queenie #checkmate #tadc checkmate

[mintharasthrone]

more “gay” pages posting complete homophobic garbage claiming bisexual women are lesbians

#tra homophobia #drop the t & b #of course there’s a comment calling us actual lesbians trans/biphobic 🙄 #all lesbians are terfs bc homosexuality is only real if a woman is a feminist or political like what kind of homophobic logic #they think they’re so different than het men who argue all lesbians aren’t real and want a male and piv #the obsession with also equating toys to wanting a man is never ending #and i remember the poll here that showed most lesbians of course want to eat pussy most of all #and bi women wanted to use toys #like lesbians don’t want anything that looks like a dick when they have sex only bi women do and i know from experience #why the fuck would we #i wish people would stop fucking obsessing over and disecting how lesbians have sex and why #they always have to make it about males and dick #it’s socially acceptable to make creepy perverted comments always talking about or mocking lesbian sex #bi women are like why do lesbians hate us? you literally are with whole ass men calling yourselves lesbians and dykes and bonding over how #much you hate real lesbians and insinuating we aren’t real and can be fixed with conversion #therapy #people hate us so deeply for loving only women and only the female anatomy #they genuinely believe we can’t be happy being homosexuals and bring up toys as some kind of proof #the same people who can’t make women come unlike us

[passive-poet]

I’m reading up on the Harry Potter vs Percy Jackson debate for a school project, and saw someone say that the golden trio is better than the og trio because Ron and Hermione balance out with Harry better. The first point they made though is that Annabeth’s pride shines too bright.

First of all, Hermione also started out very prideful and honestly more insufferable than Ananbeth was. Second, ANNABETH’S FATAL FUCKING FLAW IS PRIDE!! LIKE OFC SHES GOING TO BE THAT WAY??

#literally stfu #not tagging hp because we love trans women here and I don’t want this to go to the wrong audience #ollie rambles #percy jackson #percy jackon and the olympians #annabeth chase #rick riordan #heroes of olympus #ollie originals

[moreclaypigeons]

No like seriously ARE we ready to talk about the misogyny in fandom spaces

#or more so like. the disparity. of depictions of men vs of women. i #and like. dear god. it's dire out here sometimes #um. anyway i dont say this to like invalidate anyone and i worry that by even saying this it feels terfy? #but its like no u can talk about misogyny while including trans people especially bc of the overlap. heterocissexism. is ghat a word #like . ugh i just. its never like an individual thing i have beef with u know #like if someone tends to prefer male characters or writing men loving men im never gonna shit on em yk #it just . bothers me how large of a trend it is #especially in comparison to f/f... #like jave u see the differences on ao4 #ao3* #or the differences in how people talk about men vs women here #obviously theres room outside that binary and i fucking hate it as it stands anyway but it does stand and we should talk about it. #like i dont think this is just a cis issue at all. we should also talk about how we talk about nonbinary or gender non conforming characters #but its also like can we be normal about women too. and not prioritize men always . um #hey guys . rambling in the tags is all to say. this post explicitly includes trans people. i will not tolerate any #transphobic rhetoric on any responses to it. you will be blocked. #sierra speaks #misogyny in fandom

[coldbrewpup]

genuinely it's been devastating and heartbreaking to watch this happen in real time. i've watched the tgirl community grow over the last year on tumblr as a bunch of twitter and reddit refugees came and made accounts, and everyone started following everyone else and it really started to feel like a Community.

tgirl tumblr is what helped me make the leap to get back on hormones, i've never felt more comfortable or confident in my body and my self as a trans woman and it's due in large part to the kind of support and community we built here together.

and now i'm watching in real time as it crumbles apart, because so many people hate us and not enough people care enough to stop them. the website hates us, the terfs hate us, even other members of the community who should be rallying to our aid hate us. all we've got is each other and now even that is being taken away as accounts are blasted out of existence with no warning for daring to question the pissbaby ceo.

it just sucks

#🚗🔨⚒️💥 #anyway despite it all i love being a trans woman #i love trans women #i love us #we are still here we still matter

[boywithbear]

randomly thinking about how the anti "transandrophobia truthers" people never think trans men ever face misogyny, especially if they're out of the closet and can pass as a man, and i'm here masculine as hell and would pass to THEM but yet my voice gets me misgendered all the time, to the point during phone calls people will refuse to believe I am who I say I am because of the masculine name not matching up with the voice and so they always automatically assume I am my own sister or mother, and my own urogynecologist fully sees me as a woman despite my FULL BEARD and my bear of a body

like yeah totally i completely have all the same exact experiences and privileges as a cis man! /s

Edit: actually lol to make the point further, I am still here with the full beard and masculine attire and so I'm probably what they'd call "cishet passing" and yet when I go out, I am misgendered ALL the time now because of the combination of my voice, my long hair, and wearing a mask that covers up a good bit of my face. I'm misgendered more than I'm gendered correctly, actually. Like really blows my mind bc I will see these ppl call ppl they dont even KNOW irl "cishet passing" based on seeing pictures of them when that doesn't = reality and also that's a fucking gross ass term.

#think they just love their radfem rhetoric so much they'll do anything to ignore how complex the real life world actually is #like we are allowed to have a term for the specific experiences we go through as transmascs/trans men #and half of it is because THEY'RE the ones who want to equate it to transmisogyny and make it a competition and then blame that on US #like no YOU did that #sure some trans men who speak on transandrophobia can be transmisogynistic. EVERYONE CAN BE. what does that have to do with the term itself #the term is about OUR unique experiences. which yes we DO have and you all just love to ignore it #and there's exorsexism/enbyphobia for nonbinary people. where's your problem with that? #or do you ONLY have a problem when it comes to trans men because men bad and woman good. wonder who started that notion. huh. #and when there have been so many trans women too who have spoke about how that shit harms them too but yall don't actually care #because your hatred for men is greater than your love for women actually and it's sad. rant OVER. #transandrophobia #transphobia #z #literally with this out of nowhere bc caffeinated and also phone went to shit again so not on here much again but was having Thoughts

[evilmagician430]

who up sinning their fest

#one of my worst recent hyperfixations i'll admit #and i dont even have an excuse like ohhh i used to read this back in the late 2000s before all the terf shit #no i got into it in late 2023 this school year cause i stumbled across the tvtropes page #and i was like 'sinfest'? isnt that the name of that terf Twitter comic? but the cover image showed a sick ass artstyle so i read it #and im just obsessed with it now its such a strange spectacle. its like a political cartoon and a newspaper comic at the same time #my fav era has gotta be late 2000s maybe early 2010s sinfest... hell maybe even mid 2010s sinfest if i ignore the sisterhood #now every strip is just about jewish people or calling trans women groomers #and almost every once-likable character is now canonically a terf and/or racist and/or antivaxxer etc #or theyre just not in the comic at all anymore like my dear criminy and fuschia #i hope we never get another appearance from them godbless #cause last time we saw criminy he was helping squig and slick break a terf out of she/her penitentiary. with fuschia's permission #theyre definitely the best part of 2010s sinfest. a bygone era #the best part of 2000s sinfest is the sharp artstyle and lil e just being evil #and the best part of 2020s sinfest seems to be. um. laughing at how ridiculous it is? its kind of hard to enjoy though. #i intend to stay updated on it because i like being able to say i've read all of sinfest start to finish #but man i gotta get an adblocker soon cause i read it on the official website cause idk how else to read it online and the ads are constant #really funny when ur reading a strip criticizing the prevalence of ads in our day to day life #not as funny when you remember tatsuya is probably making money off of them. so yeah im gonna install ublock #but the problem is i usually read it on my school computer to pass time. and that technically isnt my computer so i cant download ublock #anyways. i could ramble on about how much i love and hate and am obsessed w sinfest all day but heres some fanart of the characters. #id like to make my own headcanon version of sinfest aka sinfest if it was good #but headcanons arent enough... i need to kill tatsuya ishida #sinfest #squigley sinfest #monique sinfest #lil e sinfest #the devil sinfest #tangerine sinfest #images that are horrid to see and look at #mspaint

[cinna-bunnie]

ppl who seem to always rotate through having specific kinds of trans girls to proclaim their hate for and implicitly putting themselves above them for not being into the same things make me so uncomfies, like... they r not hurting u in any way, yes people can be extra cringe sometimes but why are u like this.

#I am specifically talking about completely harmless - embarrassing at most - behavior! #like sharing those cutesy subby memes like. u don't have 2 be into it and I'm not either 4/5 of the time #but u don't have to be Like That to the ppl who fw them. it's just some fun... we should all be holding hands.. #idk. as a very drama free girlie I see other girlies on here with big followings get kinda big headed about stuff sometimes #like .. chill out pls.. there is no need to make ur trans sisters catch strays like this. #they ain't even strays y'all just coming here to shoot like :/ that was an unnecessary putdown #tgirls with big internet followings be normal about average transwomen challenge level god #actually idk if she'll see this but I think Josie is the most Normal About Trans Women tgirl with a big following i can think of on here #thank u for being such a sweety pie queen I love u #i always forget she follows me back and every time she likes/reblogs from me it's like getting kissed by an angel like HELLO?? #anyways i'm thinking of that one post now that's something along the lines of #I'd rather be cringe than be mean - and that's REAL. STOP BEING SO MEAN??

[torchickentacos]

ok fuck the beauty standards, and shaving is largely useless and lowkey a scam upheld by societal expectation of mostly fem presenting people BUT i like it when my legs feel smooth like dolphins. reblogs off bc terfs can't behave

#terfs dni this is not about cis woman only experiences of patriarchal beauty standards #yall love this kind of post so i'm here to say it's trans inclusive #and we love hairy trans women who don't shave and we love the ones who do choose to shave #and we love everyone else whatever their decision on the matter is

[undergoing-mitosis]

trans rights were human rights yesterday. trans rights are human rights today. and trans rights will be human rights tomorrow.

trans women are women. trans men are men. non binary people are non binary and valid in their gender identities.

intersex people exist, and are so incredibly valid in however they wish to talk about their biological sex and present their gender identities.

pronouns deserve to be respected. (of course this doesn't give you the right to attack people for accidentally slipping up, but as long as they take your correction and retry we move on. we are all human and make mistakes. the good is in the intention, if someone's intention is to harm or erase then THAT'S transphobic.)

trans women are not predators. some trans women may be not nice people or use that to their advantage, but there are shitty people in every group of people. the nasty people are always the minority. 99.9% of trans women are just trying to survive in the world and literally just want to pee. one bad person does not make an entire group bad. so, i repeat, trans women are not predators.

the existence of trans women is not erasing the female experience. if anything, it should be enriching the female experience! women's rights are women's rights, and that includes trans women. cause trans women are women.

the lives and existence of trans people should never be placed below the mere comfort of cis people.

trans joy is real and so fucking beautiful.

cis is not a slur. just like straight is not a slur. just like white is not a slur. just like able bodied is not a slur. just like neurotypical is not a slur. it is simply a term to refer to a group of people.

black trans people, i love you

disabled trans people, i love you

non-queer trans people, i love you

queer trans people, i love you

closeted trans people, i love you

trans men, i love you

trans women, i love you

non binary people, i love you

gender queer people, i love you

unlabeled and/or confused people, i love you

anyone who falls under the non-cis umbrella, i love you

thank you for being here. you are so loved and appreciated, and im sorry that the world doesn't see that. we will always be fighting by your sides.

trans rights are human rights.

#if you don't agree kindly unfollow #this is not the place for you #TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS #I AM SAYING IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK #i mainly talk about fandom stuff here but i thought this was important to say. #trans rights #trans #transgender #oooo is it gonna make the tag pretty i hope it will #trans issues #trans liberation #my partner has a rucksack on it that has a shark saying “trans liberation! now now now!” and we both love it so much #this came from a spur of me seeing some posts from a TERF and getting very upset. so it was on my mind haha #i originally wrote a rant but then decided to turn that anger into smth more productive. which spawned this post! #trans men are real men #trans women are real women #non binary people are valid #non binary #genderqueer #thoughts n rambles

[arsenicflame]

hi i'm really interested in space lesbians! where are they, who are they? how can i see them? (shows, games, books?) also what are you most excited about in s2 of ofmd?

OH BOY OH BOY OH BOY

soooooo my space lesbian enthusiasm refers to 3 separate medias!! (it used to say gay space vikings bc that was an even more specific niche buuuut im way more into tihylttw these days s o) one day i am going to make a fuckin venn diagram of my girls because they all have so many similarities. (loki/sigyn and angela/sera are basically the same characters change my mind.)

this is about to get real long bc im unhinged about them <3 10/10 would talk about them all day if the communities were there

our first space lesbians are loki + sigyn from the bifrost incident! TBI is an album by the band the mechanisms which you can find wherever you listen to music (youtube here) its a norse mythology inspired rock/steampunk-esque album and it is SO GOOD- it takes place on a train in SPACE in the format of an incident investigation. its a story so you have to listen to the tracks in order :)

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next up! this is how you lose the time war- our lesbians in this are called red + blue because we have deconstructed this trope to its most basic format at this point :') its a short book, and you may be familiar with it as it went viral from a trigun fan tweet a few months back. (my url (and sewing blog url) are actually references to a quote from this book!) you can get it wherever you get books and id recc the audiobook if youre into that i am also in possession of the pdf if you wantto try before you buy.

tihylttw is a story told through the exchange of letters between two agents on opposite sides of a war- it usually gets described as enemies to lovers but id personally use rivals as i think it describes them better. the book is known for being incredibly poetic and sometimes pretentious in its writing and i just think its the most beautiful thing ever. lesbians do it better

honestly theres nothing i could say for tihylttw better than it could say for itself, i just adore the universe theyve built and i want to KNOW MORE. i love you and i love you and i want to find out what that means together

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saving the best for last is my girls angela + sera. the most of all time. nobody compares to them for me. they consume me

angela + sera are from marvel comics and you can find my complete reading list here, but if im talking about them positively, im usually talking about one of the titular Angela comics, and more often than not queen of hel.

honestly i love the angela comics so much that im making myself speechless trying to figure out where to start. Angela falls into the asgard side of marvel comics, though she is a lot more fluid in her affiliations, her whole thing being that she deals in deals- nothing for nothing everything has its price. she is at times described as emotionless and is generally quite a stoic character, especially around strangers. the major exception to this is her wife, sera. seras one of marvels few canon trans characters and i think she is just so wonderfully written. shes witty and cheeky and doesnt take shit from anyone, even when it gets her into trouble- and oh boy does sera find herself in some predicaments! the angela comics are often just as poetic as tihylttw for me, theyll drop an 'as long as you are with me, i am not afraid' and ill need to go smother myself in a pillow for a sec. in QOH they adopt a daughter who is Also a lesbian, shes an alternate version of leah of hel and i ALSO adore her.

im desperately trying to avoid plot points but god. the main arc is 21 issues of smooching Shakespearean space angels what more could you want?

(through sera & angela we get a lot of heven lore and honestly that could be its whole own thing for me im SO fascinated.)

my girls are currently in comic hell, i am praying they will get something good soon 🙏🙏

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and what am i most excited about for season 2? can i just say izzy? can i just say anne + mary? dude im so ready for some lesbians you have no idea actually you probably have a very good idea if you made it this far down. im incredibly excited to be seeing izzy get a favourable arc this season, im really hoping to see him develop relationships with everyone else, see him grapple with feelings around ed (actually im really hoping he chooses not to forgive ed. for growth) im excited to see whats gonna go down with his leg, im excited to see wtf is going on w ed + stede because i have no idea what the continuity is at the moment, im just excited!!!!!! i honestly dont think theres anything im not excited about everything looks so good so far

#category 10 nyx autism moment #i wrote way more for the others than TBI but its not bc i like it less theres just. a lot less lore? #honestly we dont know much about loki/sigyn outside the incident on the train #and talking about that is just. tellin u the story #the angela section just turned into stream of consciousness im sorry i was tryin to avoid just. esplaining the plots ghfnjfnj #if u read angela and u like it please talk to me g o d i am full of thoughts about them #i was trying to be restrained here but but but #god sera sera i love her shes no damsel in distress shes in control of her own destiny!!! #angelas conviction on things!!! itd be easier to argue with a mountain!!!! #i want to know EVERYTHING i want to scream about everything god #[explodes] #i need to lie down now actually im insane about them #if the angela fandom was half as big as ofmd i would probably never consume a new piece of media again #instead i mentally debate myself as to whether the lines about the scent of battle/blood in her eyes are supposed to be read as a #trans women are real women commentary or a rebuttal of hevens misandrist tendencies (i like both) #(its fun to try and read into this i love sera i love how they handled her being trans i love heven lore i love the anchorites #[explodes harder] #ok stopping. to reiterate. category 10 nyx autism moment #nyxtalks #ask #i am so. so sorry