Jokes that women appreciate and men won’t get. Or they will and they’ll insist it was pandering, and those of us who are sick of sexist jokes will just smirk.
There’s some complicated thoughts and words behind fully explaining, but just for the simple version…plenty of you know my face, you know a bit about Minx-behind-the-screen. I can’t exactly take a selfie of my masculine/primary side. But I can still introduce myself. So on the days when the non-binary arrow swings more male than female…ya boy Aiden is the foul mouthed Hufflepuff. ❤️ (Aptly described by my Daddy and me as basically the love child of Marvel’s Hawkeye and Supernatural’s Dean Winchester. Not a shock, knowing me.)
I’ve been going by Non Binary for....can’t remember how long. Been opting for “neither, whatever, neutral” because I’ve been terrified of just fuckin’ owning my male side.
Well, it’s exhausting to pretend that you don’t exist even in your own head, some days.
So there we go. Ya friendly neighborhood foul-mouthed Hufflepuff, generally known as Minx, is a genderfluid bastard (I’m not kidding, my bio parents weren’t married 😉) and you can call me Minx, or Aiden, or just “hey Hufflepuff assbutt!”
Hey people who tend to reply to me when I throw questions into the tumblr void....offer thoughts? :3
How tf should I identify?
I am AFAB. I have battled back and forth between genderqueer and outright trans. I have a Fem and a Masc identity (both of which have names and traits that differ from each other), and I basically feel like every day I swing from one to the other.
I prefer women to men (but do feel attraction to both). Am I therefore....trans & mostly straight? Genderqueer and......gay/straight? Just freakin’ queer overall?
So I currently live in the center of Alabama (I don’t recommend this state).
Aaaaand we get severe weather, tornadoes “likely” tomorrow.
SO YAY. I’m gonna shut my cats who I love more than life in the bathroom and go hide in a tornado shelter with my spouse and service dog all afternoon tomorrow.
I'm sorry. I hope you will get it. Your efforts will definitely pay off at some point!
Thanks Nonnie. I’m not afraid of not finding my place--but this one was hard, I really liked the job itself. Thankfully, they told me they liked me a lot and to keep applying, so the university itself isn’t a lost cause!