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razberrypuck · 6 months

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so I've noticed A Trend with some of my favorite fnaf characters

obligatory explanations below the cut bc I know some of yall are gonna be annoying if I don't

spring bonnie: its character description in fnaf world reads "male? female? it's a rabbit, who cares?" springtrap and plushtrap are referred to with he/him pronouns, but never spring bonnie on its own.

mangle: this has been a running joke since fnaf 2; but his gender is a resounding "yes," as explicitly confirmed in freddy in space 3, during monty's trivia level. she uses he/she pronouns in all character descriptions.

funtime foxy: in his sister location custom night and ultimate custom night descriptions, he's referred to with exclusively he/him pronouns, but participates the "ladies night" challenges in both games. handunit also refers to funtime foxy with she/her pronouns in sister location.

lolbit: only ever referred to by name. if mangle's gender is yes, lolbit's is likely no.

daycare attendants: glamrock freddy, the only reliable source of information in security breach and only character that refers to the daycare attendants, uses it/its pronouns when talking about them. in the ruin DLC, helpi also refers to the daycare attendants with it/its.

#there might?? be some i missed??? i dont THINK so but if there is please feel free to add on #also if anyone tries to “um actually” me with some game files shit or something youre just adding to their inherent enby-ness. sorry.#it just means they use multiple sets of pronouns :)#fnaf #five nights at freddy's #fnaf spring bonnie #fnaf mangle #fnaf funtime foxy #fnaf lolbit #fnaf daycare attendant #fnaf sun #fnaf moon

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royalarchivist · 1 year

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Maximus: Amigo, amiga, amigue, amongus?

Maximus being a supportive Tio and asking Leonard@ (Foolish and Vegetta's egg) their pronouns, then celebrating with a song when they say they're genderfluid!

#AgenteMaxo #Maximus #QSMP #Leonard@#QSMP Eggs #Please don't ask me why they named their egg Trump #I refuse to use that name for them I've been calling them ''Turnip''#also frickin ''amongus'' pronouns LMAO I love that #They go by Leonardo / Leonarda but Vegetta's been writing it as Leonard@ so that's what I've been using too #since I think that's really cute :')#this specific clip is from @karianneee_ on Twitter #I actually didn't catch Maxo's stream yesterday there was SO much going on #but Maxo's a good Tio #He rescued Leonard@ during Slime's rampage #I'm skipping through stream but my clipper's been acting up today so same difference #still giving credit though

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sainamoonshine · 6 days

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My unpopular opinion is that in languages with grammatical gender like french, it does make sense for Murderbot to be referred to by whatever pronoun is usually used for robots or constructs. (In french, therefore, grammatical masculine.) Because there are no traditional « it » pronouns in these languages for objects, and while there are neo-pronouns, they are things one must choose for themselves. Do you honestly think MB actually spent time thinking about its pronouns?! No it didn’t. On forms it picks « non-applicable ». When people ask it what pronouns they should use, its honest opinion is « why do you even need to talk about me. Just don’t fucking do that. Don’t think about me either. Just fucking stop perceiving me altogether! »

Thinking about what pronouns to use probably makes it way more uncomfortable than letting people call it what they’ve already been calling it. Making a conscious choice about its identity? And telling other people about it??? No thanks bye, it’s just gonna walk into the ocean now, see you never.

Lbr it probably thinks the only bots that get fancy pronouns are comfort units, and the pronouns are probably shoved into them by humans same as everything else. MB would meet a bot using a neopronoun and it would wish it could barf. Because in a language like french, he/him and she/her, when applied to objects, ARE fulfilling the function of the english « it ». Nobody is saying the table is a woman or related to feminity in any way outside of stand-up comedy; when it comes to objects grammatical gender really has fuckall to do with human gender even if we use the same words. Even animal species names have grammatical gender and everyone gets that there are male and female turtles even if the word « turtle » is a female word, it’s not that confusing.

(I know this is strange when your language has different pronouns for people and for objects, but understand that english uses the same word to indicate if I’m addressing one or many people, and that is confusing to me.)

TL;DR; stop harassing international fans for not getting the correct MB pronoun in english right off the bat. Yes in english calling it « he » or « her » or « them » is upsetting because it’s projecting an identity unto it. But same goes for trying to get a foreign language translation to use a pronoun intended to express or showcase an identity (or even a lack of one!). Murderbot has not thought about it this hard, refuses to think about it this hard -> and that is its only canon accurate gender identity.

#the murderbot diaries #taking a bat to an hornet’s nest there but I said what I said #I go by she/her because that’s the default people use for me even tho my own gender identity is also #ugh I would sincerely prefer not to have to deal with this think about it or even be perceived #and I would be hella pissed if a book of my life came out and people got into fights about my pronouns #trying to assign me the most politically accurate agender pronoun possible #when my own choice has always been specifically to let people call me the default because idc #and I don’t want to be identified by any identifier that might indicate I do care #and using a different pronoun even if its a gender neutral one is a CHOICE!#it does indicate a preference! and caring about it enough to pick a word and tell people about it!!!#Murderbot didn’t pick IT that is specifically the point!#it was used for it and MB just kept going with that #I mean imagine it if wrote down a different pronoun on its ID form one day and someone actually called it that #it would set itself on fire #its discomfort at having made a personal choice and the personal choice being respected would be off the charts #maybe it a later book after hella character development but I just don’t see it happening tbh #respect the agenders who just don’t want to get involved and use the pronoun equivalent of the default avatar that came with the account #PLEASE #that is all

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mayrine · 8 months

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If I see another person saying that Leo’s a girl I’m gonna start stabbing shit

I have seen so many “qsmp girls night💕” that included Leo BUT HES NOT A FUCKING GIRL ANDKAMWNSMSM

for anyone that somehow forgot or doesn’t know Leo uses she/he/they pronouns

They aren’t a girl for fucks sake

It genuinely makes me so man when people are like “the qsmp has such great representation!!” then just misgender Leo to hell

If you want to do a “girls night” drawing and you also want to include Leo you can I’m not saying it’s illegal. But PLEASE at least also add the other eggs that don’t go just by he/him pronouns

Again, for everyone that doesn’t know or forgot there are the eggs that go by multiple pronouns:

Leonarda/Leonardo- he/she/they

Dapper- any pronouns

Richarlyson- any pronouns

Tilin- they/he/she

HELL even Cucurucho goes by any pronouns

Btw all of the eggs and cc pronouns are on the wiki if you want to check for yourself

SO PLEASE I BEG YOU STOP SAYING THAT LEO IS A GIRL PLEASE

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cyberscratch · 10 months

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A new ref for Lemmy, and an official design and introduction of Limmy in This Universe Has Lemons In It! Limmy was created by the Guardian of the Lemonverse (any pronouns) as an attempt to stop Lemmy from what they are doing, which is creating portals to travel through various universes and dimensions to have fun. Not only is that a risk for the balance of the universe, but GotL just dislikes this kid having fun and wants to see them stopped.

Not wanting to do it in it's own hands, it created Limmy, an angel dog meant to be an direct opposite to Lemmy. Limmy, however, doesn't do much to stop Lemmy, other than following them and bickering. Their relationship is very Tom and Jerry rivalry-esk.

(Names color coded for myself to read easier due to the similar names!)

Fun fact, Limmy was originally going to be based on limes (Lime Angel), but I kept that concept for GotL - and made them more angel-like instead.

#GotL as he has been named for the time being uses any pronouns but it/he are the most used just saying #also this little story/oc universe has been planned for a while so i find it funny that GotL has basically the same motivations #miguel in across the spiderverse minus the trauma and more godly power #i just always had an fascination with like...the idea of the universe...multiverses...different dimensions and traveling across them #ive included this in most if not all my oc projects like this actually! at first mostly inspired by gravity falls #which is literally my favorite cartoon ever #i am watching a 2 and a half long video on the timeline rn its so good please watch it its by hana hyperfixates. while working on this i #watched their first 2 hour long gravity falls video. literally newest favorite video essay project? its very good it talks about queerness #in gravity falls and its their passion project and its so obvious there was a lot of effort put into it. anyways away from my tangent i go #'lemmy' put my actual tags here #oc art #character design #oc ref #ref #tuhlii #this universe has lemons in it #lemon demon #UNSURE again if i wanna use '-core' tags on this. i dont like using them much anymore and im only gonna use 'weirdcore' for some kind of #music bc theres no specifics to what type of music i exactly like that lemmy is also based on aside from lemon demon of course #[Lemmy]#[Limmy]#guz art #[2023]#fun fact! i spent like 20+ or so minutes stressing over GotL's possible name until i settled on this goofy title!#its meant to found goofy. like at first you think its gonna sound cool and then youre hit with 'lemonverse'#which it...technically is! where lemmy is from it's like... a connected bunch of worlds and universes and just places all based on #lemon demon songs and other content. tuhlii is basically a love letter to ena + lemon demon + old/childhood internet ?

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maxphilippa · 11 months

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TRANSMASC GAY MICROPHONE IS SO DEAR TO ME LIKE ACTUALLY

Hc made by @lucidd-the-weirdo !! Check them out!!!

#inanimate insanity #ii #inanimate insanity invitational #inanimate insanity fanart #inanimate insanity microphone #inanimate insanity knife #inanimate insanity pickle #ii knicropick #please use any pronouns but not fem ones when referring to this Mic #i actually liked this hc a lot. it's so real.#max does art

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familyofpaladins · 8 months

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I HAD A REVELATION

okay so I was thinking about gender. My gender. And my feelings about being a cis girl over time.

When I was little I used to wear all kinds of dresses and wore nail polish and even occasionally makeup (but like. Sloppily as a 7 year old would lol) and how overtime I stopped wearing nail polish and stopped wearing dresses and despised make up. I dont really remeber why I stopped with nail polish. Maybe because it flaked off too easily or maybe I was sick of the few colors we had idk. I know I gradually stopped wearing dresses and night gowns because I was sick of being told I couldnt "put my legs up [up against the wall or just straight up in the air] or that I had to sit a certain way while wearing one. So I wore more and more pants.

I think about how i used to stand in the toys aisles while my mom did grocery shopping and look at "The Boys" section and think how much cooler it was than the girls section.

And I think about how my music teacher told us one day we'd hit puberty and we'd grow and us girls would be like "[in a high pitched voice] OH MY GOSH I LOVE BOYS AND DID YOU HEAR ABOUT SO AND SO" and I looked over at my classmates and friends to see if they were also terrified of becoming annoying teenage boy-obsessed girls.

And i think about how when I was at my friend's house and we were building "tree forts" in the woods i would wish I had a penis for the convenience of being able to just go pee behind a tree, because squatting near the ground was Not Fun and I hated walking all the way back to the house. And I think about how I hated that I'd have to wear a bra once my boobs started to come in

Now you might be thinking. Friend I think you want[ed] to be a boy. But the thing is, i dont.

I may have hated being restricted in dresses but I dont actually hate them. I've gotten a couple dresses in the last 10 years (for prom and graduation and a [not my] wedding) and how I actually did like how I looked in them and enjoyed wearing them for that time.

I think about how I was jealous of the boys selection of toys, but also how I had a ton of barbies that I massively enjoyed and how if I'd been a boy I probably wouldnt have been able to enjoy them (thanks to pressure from society) as well as a bunch of other "girly" items and shows and movies. I think about how I'm actually Asexual and that I wasnt scared of becoming "a young woman", I just didnt understand the obsession with sex/romance/boyfriend&girlfriend stuff.

And while having a penis is more convenient for peeing I also remeber thinking that it would suck to get kicked in the balls and/or that trope of falling on soemthign between your legs that happens in so many movies (not that it feels any better with a vagina honestly). And that if I had been born a boy I'd most likely have to deal with all the toxic masculinity forced on me, and I'm glad I dont have to deal with that.

And while me and my boobs dont always get along, I remember that after getting my first cute bra, I thought. Oh well maybe this isnt so bad. And I mostly wear sports bras now because I do wish they were smaller and I HATE that so many bras (EVEN THE SPORTS BRAS) are already padded into cup shapes, and while I don't mind Having Boobs, i Do Not want to show them off. And sometimes i think that maybe i wouldn't mind chopping them off, but then i think how my figure/outline/silhouette would look with out them, and that seems worse.

And i think about the times I've accidentally been called "Sir" from tired fast food employees when wearing gender nonspecific clothing and felt happy about it. But not "oh it feels right to be called sir/he/him" , but more of "hehe I fooled you! You thought this was a dress but its pants!"

And really this is all to say. I was born a girl and grew up that way so it's what I'm used to. If I'd been born with a dick then I guess I'd be a guy. If you magically stuck me in a male body right now, would I feel like a Guy or feel like a girl in a guys body? I honestly dont know. So am I non binary? Maybe that that doesnt quite feel right either.

Being a girl is what I've grown up as and into, and it's what I'm used to and going by anything else is… odd. Maybe itd be better and maybe it wouldnt. It's like an old blanket. You've had it forever and maybe its frayed and patched maybe a little too small and it's not what people expect you to have for a blanket, and maybe you could do with a new one. But nothing feels right with out it. No other blanket feels the same. It's what you're used to and its familar. It's a comfort blanket.

And that's why being a [cis] girl is my comfort gender.

#Sorry that got LONG #This is a very personal post and I dont mind it being reblogged if anyone wants to #But dont be weird about it please. Dont tell me I'm an egg or actually trans or nb. Cause I'm not #*points at post* I'm a girl. It's my comfort gender :)#(edit: I don't mind if the 'wrong' pronouns get used. Like if someone uses he or they for me I'm not gonna be upset #I more just dont want labels put on my gender besides cis or comfort gender )#Man I need that post where it's like so many asexual people are removed from gender. Cause yeah that kinda fits #Maybe I'm agender or soemthing. But mostly I'm Chill With Being A Girl #Also feel free to also totally ignore this post #I'm just rambling about thoughts #Gender identity #Comfort gender #Its after midnight so I apologize if none of this makes sense or like. There are unfinished thoughts lol

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svtskneecaps · 9 days

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it's still genuinely funny to me that the only eggs to use "she" pronouns decided their pronouns themselves lmfao

#qsmp #the og batch of eggs was all he/him at adoption day with the exception of i THINK dapper don't quote me #i did hear a VERY long time ago that bad was using they/them for dapper at the start but i didn't hop in until later #also don't quote me on empanada; i THINK she was asked but i actually don't recall #sunny pomme and tallulah i know decided their own #flippa transed her gender; leo wore pronouns like accessories; and i think tilin became she/her just for a sleepover with flippa #bc allegedly slime was like 'no BOYS are allowed to sleep over with my DAUGHTER' and tilin was like well i'm a girl!! :D or so i hear #didn't confirm this for myself either #but like ramon chayanne bobby trump leo flippa tilin were all definitely assigned male pronouns at adoption lmao #and richas let his parents decide his gender and they went with he/him #this post isn't a hit piece or a critique to be clear it is genuinely funny to me the op lmao #shut up vic #block game brainrot #oh and pepito is pepito i don't think pepito ever actually gave any pronouns so pepito is pepito :D #but everyone knows pepito is pepito lmao #please don't do critique on this post this is a funny haha lmao post

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tommyssupercoolblog · 22 days

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so for autism acceptance month I want to remind you that when an autistic person, or ANY disabled/disordered person, asks you for an accommodation, you have a responsibility to use it correctly; and if you misuse it, that's on you.

What I mean is- autistic people struggle with social cues. this is a known fact about autism.

There have been MULTIPLE situations in our life where we said, "hey, we have autism, if we ask you if you're being sarcastic or if something is real or not, BE HONEST. we physically cannot tell."

the other person then, when asked, LIED about if they were using sarcasm or making something up.

We acted, then, assuming they were telling the truth about wether they were being sarcastic.

they got PISSED OFF, yelled at us or cut of friendships, or otherwise had some sort of meltdown because how dare we think that they used our accommodation they way it was spelled out for them to be used.

the worst example i can think of is someone giving a detailed murder plan as a "joke". we couldn't tell if they were joking because they had a monotone voice and sounded really angry. We asked them, and clarified that we seriously needed to know because we could not tell, reminding them of our autism diagnosis. They said they were 100% serious about killing this other person we knew in the method described. We stood up, left, and reported them.

WE LOST AN ENTIRE FUCKING FRIENDGROUP OVER THIS AND HAD A STRANGER TELL US "with all due respect because you're older than me, I would be pissed too, that was an asshole thing to do! you shouldn't have reported them, they could have gone to jail or been expelled from school."

that is ableism. THAT. IS ABLEISM.

we could not have done any better than what we did. there was no fucking universe in which that was our fault.

just because it's obvious to YOU doesn't mean it is to us, because newsflash, WE FUCKING HAVE AUTISM. we are DISABLED.

If you know this and deliberately lie to us when we ask for clarification, or tone tags, or something similar- you do not to get to blame us for what happens after, or laugh at us, or be a dick.

we can't just stop being disabled because it's convenient for you. so either be honest with us when we ask, or don't fucking talk to us at all.

#the we/us pronouns are actually there because i'm part of a system but also this ofc applies to other autistic people #i clarify though because i used we/us in the story of what happened so it's worth explaining why i used those #i made a textpost #ableism #ableism tw #ableism cw #cw ableism #tw ableism #autism #actually autistic #autism awareness #autism acceptance #autistic #boost #please boost #reblog #please reblog #psa

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colorfullyminded · 9 months

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To Any Sunstone Fans

If any of you like any bottom Suns, I would love to hear headcanons. Or even just a like or reblog if you're like "Hell yeah-- more of this please" I know in Sunstones, and just Rain Wold Fandom Pebbs is sort of catboy, tiny angy twink and Suns is like this tall, overwhelming presence of grace and superiority. I totally get it. but just...Just imagine....Suns is big lapdog snuggling in Pebbles lap, forgetting that he's way too big. Or Suns laying on the floor, as Pebbles stands over their body, looming on them with a smile, "Look at you. The world at your feet, but here you are at mine...So cute. What would they all think?" "Or just.....tiny bug husband cuddles big awkward enby, and enby makes bread for their disabled cats and them-- as well as their lesbian friends (Sig/Moon). Also @sapphicdib got me going crazy for genderfluid Sig so thanks for than hon! Just.... I just need to know if I'm the only one who likes bottom suns. I know I always contradict fandom opinion (I don't try to, I really don't). I just want to know if I'm alone in this. Even if not sunstones-- just bottoms suns. Anything. An acknowledgement is enough. I would love to share ideas and headcanons. Also I am still new to the fandom, I've only really talked to some amazing people about it, but I don't want to keep screaming at just those three forever.

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technoxenoholic · 4 months

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"adhd paralysis" is a ridiculous term. i, too, get Stuck in the hell that is being unable to task switch or task initiate under my own power. but guess what? i can "hack" my executive dysfunction. if i need to go to the kitchen, and i'm Stuck, i can ask my sistling to meet me in the kitchen. then i have an Obligation, and i can Obey The Obligation to go to the kitchen, and then i can get what i need from there.

and you, too, CAN hack your adhd task-switching and task-initiation! it is possible! it may take lots of thought and effort to find the right strategy that even works for you, and there may sometimes be limitations to the strategy that mean you're still going to be Stuck for a long time sometimes (for example i can't call my brother to meet me in the kitchen if she's asleep), but you CAN work at it and figure out a method that works for you and your situation and your brain!

but you know who can't fucking hack their disability limitations to just get up and do the thing? you know who doesn't have a potential method that works that they can figure out, no matter how much effort they put in? you know who this isn't possible for?

people who are actually paralyzed.

#stfu blue #discussion of ableism #cripplepunk #adhd #actually adhd #disability #my sistling/brother uses she/he pronouns please do not they/them him on my post thank you #anyway i'm physically disabled but not paralyzed. hoping to get through to some of these physically abled adhd folks and help #on the idea that maybe they will actually listen to someone who they perceive as less of a threat to their validity or whatever #also yes i use the term Stuck with a capital S to describe this phenomenon. you are all free to use that term for this as well

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gurorori · 3 months

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i don't know, people can be trans in whatever way they wish and feel comfortable with, i just wish the people on the lower end of Actually Putting Work and Visible Effort Into It and Actually Experiencing Transphobia/Transmisogyny didn't feel like they automatically get a free pass to claim the same things we go through. if you do not share the experience of the vast majority of trans people, maybe you do not get to talk about it, or reclaim any part of it 😐

#and i am not just talking about any kind of transition or hormones. just you know #for most trans people it just doesn't end on making a tiktok about being a fem afab nb and putting she/they in yr bio. you're free to do all #that but don't insert yourself into places you just really don't belong in?#i will never invalidate other trans people and i never have simply based on dysphoria or their stance on transition and i get that for nb #ppl it can be a little trickier on what steps they wanna take #however i don't think it's a crazy take that trans people who largely don't Plan to transition in any meaningful noticeable way or/and #experience any sort of dysphoria or discomfort or incongruence with their assigned gender and body are... the LAST demographic that should #represent the trans community as a whole or have a say in things that people whom all those things actually concern #cuz they're not passing bills to ban your pronouns. they're not outlawing fem afab nb bodies. they're illegalising transition on every step #of its way and they're calling US mutilated monsters and gr**mers #i genuinely don't want to come off wrong in here. i have never been transmed/truscum or anything of the sort in fact i was there in their #prime and i hated it! i just think this is a no-brainer. your experience is uh. fine. it just doesn't align with uh... most trans people to #whom these things are a matter of life or death actually so please sit down...

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carriagelamp · 4 months

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ADOLIN: qu'est-ce que vous voulez faire aujourd'hui? SHALLAN: n'importe quoi KALADIN: pourquoi ne lui tutoies-tu pas? elle est ta femme?? ADOLIN: elles* KALADIN: c'est ce que j'ai dit??

#stormlight archive #kaladin stormblessed #shallan davar #adolin kholin #hello please don't yell at me if this joke makes no sense #french is not my first language #so i may have completely fucked the grammar or the joke #and i have not actually read these books. like at all.#so i have NO idea what they're doing for pronouns in the french translation....#but my gf has been gushing about them to me and i've been laughing at how the use of a singular and plural you would be hilarious for shall #this is completely not my lane apologies #chatter

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satellites-halo · 3 months

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I love seeing people post Acht/Deadf1sh art but y'all, they use they/them. They/them are the only pronouns Nintendo has been referring to them with recently, and in the Japanese version they use pronouns typically associated with gender non conforming people. Stop using she/her on Acht

#acht splatoon #deadf1sh #deadfish splatoon #acht/deadf1sh #yes they were referred to with she in the PAST #but recent promotions have all used they/them #please this is like the first they/them user in splatoon #can we actually respect their pronouns #splatoon #side order #splatoon 3 side order #correct me if im wrong on any of this btw #i dont speak japanese #i got the information from people who do

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lighthouseas · 8 months

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i will list my pronouns in my bio when i'm not feeling lazy but anyway. pronouns are she/they and it is highly encouraged that you use they/them like i will actually smooch you on the mouth . genuinely. like she/her is fine but the they is there for a reason okay 🙏

#don't really talk abt my Gender™️ on here a lot simply because some irls follow me & stalk me occasionally on here #& i don't want them knowing lmao 😭#i mean. they can know. idrc. but like also. no they can't #it's complicated #anyway. THE PRONOUNS ARE SHE/THEY FOR A REASON. like please actually i always use she/her irl bc im not out yet and it's like i like #-they/them too arhfjfjfjfj #don't ask abt gender identity though because. who the fuck knows #anyway #bee.txt

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ex-vespidae · 7 months

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omg please the vessels in hollow knight don't have genders how many times do we have to teach you this lesson

#sage speaks #HORNETS NOT CALLED THE GENDER LED CHILD FOR NOTHING???#please use they/them pronouns they are canonically genderless #or use it/its cause i think that's actually how they're referred to in game...

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