#ur so sexy

[gaylactic-fire]

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#me to u rn #ur so sexy

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

#warm up #writeblr #this one has bothered me for a bit #any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime #hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying #as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing #like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts #why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge #''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it #ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace #if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!! #men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible #ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing #the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....

[knifearo]

being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

#aromantic people are just sexy i'm not making the decisions here it's just facts #course ur hot as fuck. it came free with the aromanticism #being sexy is just default settings for aromantic people 👍 #hope this all helps. anyway i'm on my 'i hope i die alone <3 i can't wait to die alone <3' kick rn #i think the existential fear that people have of Not Partnering specifically is so. well. #obviously that shit is strong and it is SO awesome to be free of it. #realizing you're aro and you don't Want a partner can be such a hit to the solar plexus #cause society says that's the only thing that'll make you happy. so either you go without that thing or you force yourself #into doing something you don't want which would make you unhappy anyway. #so you think it's a lose lose situation and you have to come to terms with what amatonormativity presents as the worst possible situation #but then! whoa! turns out personhood is inherently valuable in and of itself and romantic partnering is just a construct! #and that nightmare is now your life to do with as you please... define as you will... structure as you want... #best case scenario. is what i'm saying. #every day i wake up ready to spit all that amatonormative rhetoric back in life's teeth by being alone and being happy #and it's so fucking satisfying. every day. #fucking JUBILANT being by myself. and i love being a living breathing 'fuck you' to the romantic system #you need a partner to be happy? oh that's sooo fucking crazy guess i'll go be miserable then. in my perfect fucking dream life lmao #yeah obviously it's the worst possible outcome on earth to die without a partner. so terrible. can't wait for it :) #aromantic #aromanticism #aro positivity #aroace #arospec #sorry to bitches who are sad about not having a partner. i could not give a fuck though get better soon #you couldn't EVER pay me enough to go back to a mindset in which my inherent value wasn't enough by myself. #FUCK that shit. absolutely miserable and a bad life outlook in general. like genuinely do the work w/ amatonormativity and get better #life is something that can be so fulfilling whether someone wants to kiss you or whatever or not #i'm on antidepressants and i have people i care deeply about. what the fuck would i need a partner for lmao

[ministarfruit]

day 12: karma ♡

(femslashfeb prompt list)

#minifemslashfeb2024 #ace attorney #franmaya #franziska von karma #maya fey #noooo babygirl don't have the same generational trauma as me aha ur so sexy #we're the. we're the daughters of the . the legends we don't want to inherit #'mini did you draw franz for this prompt solely because her name is von karma' don't worry about it #HONESTLY DID NOT THINK I WAS GONNA MAKE THIS ONE #had to go to the dentist today instead of drawing yuri #life is so cruel </3 #but it's okay I have to shill my narrative foils agenda #back at it with the franmayas.... #WHO LOVES PARALLELS #ME!! I LOVE PARALLELS!!!! #'karma' is referred to very loosely in this #but my idea personally was that they're betraying their family legacies #and THAT is karma for the way they were treated growing up #yeah I had all these thoughts at the dentist btw #thinking about yuri while two women have their hands in my mouth (professional) (normal) (not clickbait) #hope that helps

[twistedappletree]

Lan Wangji’s transition from awkward teen afraid of his feelings to give-no-fucks 30’s after Wei Wuxian returns is truly immaculate, like the person who used to annoy the crap out of him is now hated by everyone except him and as the head of the Wei Wuxian defense squad, his argument is literally “ok but have u considered that he’s hot?”

#nooo don’t fall off a cliff ur so sexy aha #ajdhajshAJDHAJD #mdzs #obviously the main reason is that he’s in love with him #but it’s funnier that he’s basically just publicly keeping him by his side like a trophy wife 😭😭😭 #i aspire to be that unbothered #mo dao zu shi #lan wangji #wei wuxian #wangxian #wei ying #lan zhan #hanguang jun #apple babble 🍎

[mosaickiwi]

"If I tried to give you money you'd just find a way to give it back anyways.”

(part of) the end scene from one of my 14DWY fics c:

14 Days With You is an 18+ Yandere Visual Novel. MINORS DNI

#14 days with you #14dwy #14dwy redacted #momo art #pixel art #why did i make him pog #noo tumblr pls don't ruin my 180 frame gif haha ur so sexy #i brought this on myself

[racewinnerbatmav]

LOOK AT MICK GOO

#UR SO SEXY #austria lb

[bubblegum-and-ciggarettes]

Genuinely glad they said something because it was all I could focus on when he was being all emo

#invincible s2e1 #invincible #mark grayson #Radiohead #like damn sorry u have mental issues but wow #haha don’t kys girl ur so sexy #the way u can tell compared to the other male superheroes too is so funny #everyone is so mean 2 me #it’s also canon he doesn’t wear underwear under his suit p sure so #I felt so bad bc Ik it’s supposed to be a touching scene but it was like eyecatching

[kacchanrawr]

Ok but the concept of Alhaitham having an academic crush on Kaveh is so real to me. Yes Kaveh pretty and I like seeing a younger Haitham go "oh no he's beautiful", but tbh me thinks that he fell for Kaveh's mind first and foremost. Imagine like prior to their first meeting he read one of Kaveh's papers and he was just in love with the author's brain. He then starts reading some of Kaveh's other papers and he realizes that he either really agrees and likes them, or they're the complete opposite of what he believes and it just tickles his brain well. Flash forward to when he meets Kaveh for the first time in the library and he goes "oh no he's beautiful too"

#pretend i know shit abt academia ok (i do not and i hate academia irl) #BUT ANYWAYS ALHAITHAM WOULD UNIRONICALLY THINK 'UR BRAIN IS SO SEXY' #anyways (2) haikaveh and the concept of them being so alike and so different #genshin impact #haikaveh #kavetham #alhaitham #kaveh

[feymaid]

Master manipulation moment accidentally cute by having to kneel to kiss

#when I tell u the casualness of this scene was completely erased because he had to kneel down like a dog to kiss her LOL IDIOT #ur telling me u had to work that hard to kiss her and ur gonna be chill about it later? I don’t think so #I’ve seen this scene a million times with average sized tavs and it’s always like ooooooh sexy but I audibly awwwed it was ridiculous hfkdfh #astarion x tav #diatrix #astarion #deep gnome #bg3 tav #baldurs gate 3 #bg3 #my oc #my art

[lxdymaria]

#bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #ketheric thorm #bg3edit #gamingedit #*bg3 #*medits #*mgifs #targeted by another sexy old man #userwolfkissed #userdekarios #ive been feeling pretty poopy bout my gifs lately so i havent been taggin ppl #but if ur chill with being tagged lmk! im going to try doing that more often again

[rottengurlz]

trying out @kashisun's new presets they're SO beautiful <3

#MARINE THANK U ILYSM #about to make my sims so sexy with ur new presets #mysims #simblr #the sims 4 #sims 4 screenshots #ts4 #sims 4 cas #ts4 cas #ts4 edit #sims 4 simblr #sims 4 edit

[bananacockatiel]

My constant attraction to hot men who can kill me never disappoints

#another sketch that got out of hand #omg noo Vere dont kill me haha ur so sexy #kinning the skull avtually #im the skull only hopefully not dead and long decomposed #it’s not my fault they make the sexiest cuntiest characters homicidal #touchstarvedgame #touchstarved game #touchstarved vere #vere touchstarved #touchstarved leander #touchstarved ais #touchstarved mhin #touchstarved kuras #reg.art! #touchstarved

[marquisecubey]

a late afternoon in september

#cubey's art #persona 3 #kotone shiomi #minako arisato #hamuko arisato #persona 3 femc #akihiko sanada #akiham #persona 3 fanart #digital art #art #illustration #digital illustration #I still love the composition on this one so much #haha no babe don’t turn away from the dark tangled lower corner of the frame to stare at the last fleeting glimpses of sunlight ur 2 sexy #I also recently went back and altered the colours on this bad boy so if it looks slightly different from its twitter counterpart thats why! #shout out to kacey musgraves' album golden hour because I realized the other day that I listened to it a lot while drawing this

[infinite-orangepeel]

my two moods are:

1. steve harrington has final girl energy and nothing can kill him

and

2. steve harrington is destined to die a tragic and martyrous death and i will never be okay again

#season 5 i have my eye on u 👁️ #okay but if steve really dies i’ll never recover i’m so serious #that’s my princess and i cannot lose him i’ve projected way too much of myself onto his character #also scared for him to be final girl bc i know the duffers will find some way to fuck up his character arc #keep steve in ur prayers #he’s too sexy for this world #steve harrington #steve harrington headcanon #steve harrington hc #steddie #joe keery #fruity four #steve x eddie #eddie x steve #stranger things 5 #st5 predictions #st5 theory #stranger things #steve harrington my beloved

[pudgybun]

(I'm just rambling no need to read)

It's crazy how much feedee content is reblogged by people with "fat fetishists/feeders/feedees DNI" in their bios

Like, I think lots of people in the world are tummy lovers and fat admirers (bc it's inherently lovely as are all bodies) but the label of feedism (or specifically FEEDERISM) is seen as this manipulative and sick kink when... it's rly not. So many people seem to really be into soft feedism, but think that if gaining to immobility and health problems aren't involved that means it's no longer feedism? They don't see that extreme feedism is not what the majority of the community partakes in.

Not that extreme feedism is manipulative or bad either! But they're just so repulsed by the concept that they won't take any time to approach it and learn what it is. So they think there's no way for feedism to be practiced ethically and write it off entirely.

I think feedism and fat admiration in kink is something that people are going to need to evaluate and accept if we are ever going to get true fat liberation. It's okay to want to be fat, it's okay to be turned on by your fat body, and it's absolutely okay to be aroused by eating and/or getting fatter. Food and fat and body worship is the basis of feedism (in its simplest form) and I think none of that is inherently evil. If being fat makes you happy and horny, get fat.

#it seems so simple in my lil tism brain #like. fat equals happy? ok get fat then #also if you like tummies and feeding ur lover soup and bread and making them full and happy and it turns u on.. um #that sounds like feedism to me!! #i keep seeing nonfeedists make posts about how sexy it is to feed their partners strawberries or smth and squeeze their love handles #but they also have feedees dni? #like... why do u think your intentions or desires are better than ours? why are we evil but youre #soft luv domestic uwu? #babbles #im just rambling teehee