#unless someone exeplicitly identifies a certain way then you can't rule anything else out

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I always roll my eyes when people say Jensen is straight. 🙄

Have you watched Boys in the band (2020).

If you haven't please do there's a very interesting scene about a man (Hank) who is married to a woman but has a relationship with a gay man (Larry) on the side.

So someone (Alan) asks about Hank being married and being so close to Larry who is clearly gay. and

Here is what Micheal, one of Larry's friend says something to Alan.

I hope it actually answers this ask.

More in the tags.

#asks #anon #sexuality spec #i mean i hate the way people think #we live in a world where being cis het is the default #just the other day i had ghe weirdest conversation with my bf #i was filling a form and the gender slot only had F and M #and i asked him what about non-binary people what about them? are they not supposed to fill these forms? #he looked at me and said 'i know babe but this country is not ready to have this conversation yet #and i was like when will it be time because people are non-binary now #my point is this world is fucked up and people are wired to see things one way but that way is not necessary the right way #so lets all be inclusive being married to the opposite gender doesn't make you straight #there are bi and pan people too we exist #i feel you on the eye roll seriously #unless someone exeplicitly identifies a certain way then you can't rule anything else out #but don't go to the actors and ask them if they are gay or bi or pan let them come out when and if they are ready #it shouldn't be any of our business anyway