You can't put puppy Machete in a box and not expect your whole follower count to adopt him, this boi is about to be raised by a village and experience so much love.
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ok not to be insane but the whole tom putting the bidding sticker on greg situ is SO indicative of their entire relationship bc its all about Tom’s desire for control and ownership over something (due to him feeling powerless and out of control in his relationship with shiv). Him putting that sticker on Greg wasnt just a hehe ill look after you way it was much more ‘I own you. You are reliant on me now and I OWN you’. Which is a sentiment that is the very FABRIC of their relationship, calling back to the ‘I will not let go of what is mine’ water bottle scene. Obsessed actually
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I finally left a bad review at that genesis surgery place re: the guy who was rude and awful and lifted my tits by the nipples with ungloved hands etc. yay! nice to get that done! I'm still too much of a wimp to lodge any sort of proper, official complaint though
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how to balance the experience of reading romance books so it's more "aw how cute and fun" and less "oh fuck no one will ever love me like this". asking for a friend
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Cis and skinny artists always joke about "oh I draw characters naked because clothes are too hard teehee" or talk about how important and non-sexual artistic nudity is but as soon as they see artwork of a fat or trans character without clothes it's suddenly not the same and is apparently "fetishizing" or whatever. Even when there's obviously nothing sexual about it simply because it makes them feel icky
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like man i know sun n moon wouldnt like me in the slightest but i do wish i could look at th cute kissy mushy cutesy y/n x dca fan arts without wanting to cry for maybe one second pls and thank u my good for nothing brain
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🐺: it's honestly tempting to take the endo stuff off our page because almost every time i click on a cool tumblr we want to follow there's a "endos dni" or "dni if you are neutral on endogenic systems". we literally saw a post advertising a plural discord that was essentially like "want a safe space for all systems? except for endos?" and it felt so fucking bad. it really is EXACTLY like those trans/bi-exclusionist queer groups. we don't harbor any ill will really toward anti-endos, it just reminds me personally a lot of my parents who, throughout my entire life, made it clear that they would love me only if i was a straight cis christian girl
🩷⭐: It's been nice having a small circle of systems that don't immediately hate us to interact with, no doubt! It's just always painful to see a community be so positive and welcoming, but only to those who fit their ideal.... when we could ALL be united behind our shared experiences with plurality! Systems have a unique perspective on what it's like to be human and I wish we all could have our stories heard.
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The bad thing about chasers isn't that they desire trans people. That is not a bad thing - in fact, I think it's pretty weird if your only criticism of chasers is that they want to be with trans people. Desiring trans people is fine, and in fact, is normal.
However, what's wrong with chasers is when they objectify trans people - when they do not respect that we are people, that some of us transition/don't, or that some of us don't want to be with them. The desire isn't wrong, but the objectification is. You can desire trans people without dehumanizing us, you know? Like, there's a difference between "I like you and your transness" and "I solely desire you for your transness, and I do not think you are an equal to me"
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Rereading loveless and having to go though the despair of the never have I ever scene. It literally gives me flashbacks from film camp last year while everyone was describing their first kiss (and everyone was younger than me) and I was LITERALLY agonizing and hoping my turn never came because they just wouldn't have fathom the possibility of me being kissless at 18 (and still am at 19).
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today i’m mad at bitches who assault/harass/ invalidate studs and butches. trample their boundaries, make them feel undesirable or predatory and then leave them with traumas that they and their future partners eventually unpack and navigate, Fuck you.
more importantly, @ my butch babes, if anyone has done anything that left you with a complicated relationship to your body, sex, intimacy, being touched or otherwise being physically vulnerable, I need you to know you’re not broken, your boundaries are valid and you are not wrong for doing what it takes to make yourself comfortable. you deserve to feel safe. anybody who doesn’t appreciate and respect the way you want to approach sex and intimacy, doesn’t deserve you.
you’re doing great and i love you.
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a word of advice: if you're planning on dming/befriending/sexting someone who uses multiple pronouns or terms, or IDs with multiple genders and you're only going to use the words that YOU want to use or feel comfortable using, just don't bother please. the amount of people that I've had dm me or try to sext me while jumping through fucking HOOPS to avoid using he/him and only ever calling me a girl is so many people. like as in the hefty majority of people who dm me on here. and tbh it really has a negative affect on the way you feel about yourself and your gender when nearly everyone who expresses any attraction toward you only expresses that attraction toward one half of you.
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