7 Types of People You Need To Avoid Now
7 Types of People You Need To Avoid Now
7 Types of People You Need To Avoid Now
There are 7 types of people you need to avoid now because it can be hard to tell who’s pulling you back up and who’s dragging you down, especially when you’re in a bad place and situation.
You might not realize that some of your closest friends are toxic until they’ve already affected the way you think about yourself, others, and life in general. If this…
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sorry to be on this again. but. without weighing in on the corset question specifically. this logic is bad. i it’s like documented at this point that wearing high heels constantly can cause permanent damage to your body and this has not yet so much as dented their market share, purchased regularly by the vast majority of women. i need everyone on earth who thinks like this to do some reflecting on why they think it is so easy for women to just think their way out of patriarchy, why they think it is so obvious for women to just decide to stop doing the things their entire society is communicate indicate Woman Behaviors, why they assume the calculation of personal safety vs. following social mores is so easy and obvious. maybe also reflect on whether being legally a second class citizen in a myriad of ways might have any impact on the day to day decision-making part of your psyche. also idk maybe consider why you see “women historically have been socially and materially punished for not following social mores [like to be fair most people but also the gender of it all DOES matter]” and hear “women are dumb(?) tools(???) of the patriarchy.” like i actually don’t look at a woman who is a second-class citizen if the word citizen is even worth applying here whose opportunities for any kind of independence are severely curtailed to nonexistent who is doing what women do as they get by as a dumb tool of the patriarchy. do you?
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wackus helpppp how do you decide which enneagram characters are you're the enneagram person help meeeee
hello empress you have come to the right place!! you know i cannot shut up about the enneagram esPECIALLY when it comes to fictional characters hehe!
it's actually pretty straightforward imo. a character needs 3 key elements to be good; a desire, a fear, and a flaw. the enneagram gives us all of that, making it a perfect tool for character building.
type 1 - the reformer (marinette & kagami)
core desire: to be good, right, better, perfect
core fear: being evil/ corrupt/ wrong
flaw: judgemental, critical (esp of themselves)
type 2 - the helper (nino & sabrina)
core desire: to be loved
core fear: being unwanted, unloved, unworthy
flaw: manipulative, coercive
type 3- the achiever (chloe & lila)
core desire: being valuable, worthwhile
core fear: being worthless
flaw: exploitative, deceptive, narcissistic
type 4 - the individualist (gabriel, zoe)
core desire: identity, significance
core fear: being insignificant, oblivion, the void
flaw: dramatic, melancholic
type 5 - the investigator (felix, max)
core desire: knowledge, understanding, being competent
core fear: being incapable or incompetent
flaw: reclusive, unemotional
type 6 - the loyalist (roland, mylene)
core desire: being secure, stable
core fear: crisis, chaos
flaw: suspicious, paranoid
type 7 - the enthusiast (adrien, kim)
core desire: experience, fulfillment
core fear: deprivation, missing out
flaw: impulsive, materialistic
type 8 - the challenger (alya, majestia)
core desire: autonomy
core fear: being harmed, controlled
flaw: dominating, confrontational
type 9 - the peacemaker (luka, master fu)
core desire: harmony
core fear: conflict, separation from others
flaw: self-forgetting, indolent
of course a character can have more desires, fears, and flaws than just these! the enneagram will just be a jumping off point for you. for example, knowing a type 9 character yearns for peace with everyone, fears separation, and can't say no to anybody can also extend into further study. they can't say no, so they become detached from their friends and family so they don't HAVE to say no, then end up not being there for them when it's important. and boom there you go, character conflict 👉🏼👉🏼thank you enneagram!
i hope this helps you and makes your characters sparkle off the page 💖 please don't ever hesitate to send me more enneagram asks 😍 you know i am obsessed.
check out these links for more!
the miraculous enneagram post nobody asked for
the enneagram institute
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l + ratio + your takes are BADD! + amane is innocent + why are you beefing with a traumatized 12 year old + DUDE? + what’s wrong with you
That is a very easy question my friend. You see, I don't have beef with the 12 yo, I have beef with her crazy inovoters 🤷♀️. Personally I wanted a 50/50 became I don't think either a guilty (it might make her worst) or innocent (it reinforces her cult beliefs) verdict will help her in the long run. But after seeing people started name-calling and bashing everybody who DEARS have a different opinion than them and vote her guilty, saying you're a horrible person, saying you don't care about neurodivergent people and victims of abuse, wishing on people they never speak with abuse victims because they made a joke about her being guilty 💀 (this literally happened to a friend of mine WHO IS ACTUALLY A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC ABUSE HERSELF together with her mother and sister) etc. I got really pissed off. So in conclusion, I started spite voting, it's that simple 🤷♀️
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It doesn't need to be said (I am preaching to the choir), but after seeing a very bad faith interpretation of Gale nearly half a year after release, I am going to say it again regardless!
Gale is a victim, not a perpetrator. In his relationship with Mystra, he was preyed on and hurt, not Mystra. Yes, Mystra told Gale not to seek out the missing part of Weave that is a part of her, but Gale had no idea it was Karsite in nature and was not aware he was looking for something that was actively corrupt and dangerous until Act 3. Mystra did not inform him right out the gate. Gale may have went to seek it out despite her disapproval and erred and doomed himself for it, but Gale was also aiming solely to apologize for...wanting to be her equal. And I am saying it one more time: it is NOT Gale's fault for wanting to be on the same footing with his lover. No one wants to feel like they're looking UP at their lover, beneath them and not worthy of them. Gale was groomed. Gale was preyed on and eyed by Mystra since he was a young boy. He was her pupil, she, his mentor, and later, he became her lover. Of course Gale wants to feel equal to her. Of course Gale wants to be more. How could he not want to be more, to live up to his goddess that gave him an OUNCE of her attention? Lord forbid.
Gale is not some manipulator. How the idea that he, a mere mortal, could manipulate Mystra, a goddess, is truly beyond me—a goddess who told him to literally die to earn her forgiveness. While he may have had a more haughty personality in EA and was originally supposed to have tried to usurp Mystra in CONCEPT, a lot and a considerable lot has changed upon release. Gale is remarkably human. He is remarkably honest. He is so bare, so forward, and is practically the FIRST person to reveal to you everything you need to know about him among the party if you prove yourself trustworthy, which, let's be real, is a low bar (you save a child and he's impressed. Like. Truly. The bar is THAT low). Gale is arrogant, sure, but is also remarkably modest with his desires and has befuddlingly low self confidence and self worth. He does not try to manipulate Mystra or the player into anything. He's a dying man who honestly just wants to be told he's worthy of everything as just Gale DEKARIOS, not just as Gale of Waterdeep. He's ambitious because he has lived his whole life with the impression he's only worth something if he makes himself out to be something. There is no manipulation here, just a deeply wanting man who looks at 'the world is better FOR you' like it's worth more than all the riches in the world.
Gale may have his hang ups because he is well and truly traumatized, but that's because he's absolutely the victim in his situation. I get it. He's older. He's a grown man and Mystra talked so 'calmly' and didn't physically hurt him (even though she did turn a blind eye when Gale, you know, was afflicted with and living with a bomb in his chest), but that doesn't make Mystra any less the perpetrator of his traumas.
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I do love Purgatory so much. I support everyone's rights and wrongs. I love how unfair it is.
I just love it turned the cozy, friendly interactions that seemed unbreakable, the unwavering trust into a Lord of the Flies, insanely hostile mood. I am 14 again watching Mianite and it is delightful.
I missed that toxic energy. I missed extreme miss communication and in-group bias. It even has 3 sides like Mianite. Don't get me wrong, I love normal QSMP, but the 13-14yo boy still in me is just over-the-moon enjoying seeing people at their bloodthirstiest. Th
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