#tw: truscum

[receivingtranny]

just saw a post saying that men shouldn't be allowed to become therapists because they *will* rape women/girls or at best... mentally ill women and girls *will always* catch inappropriate romantic/sexual feelings for a male therapist (not even gonna touch the flaming pile of internalized misogynistic shit lying within the later statement) and just...

what the fuck you guys.

like yeah fuck the "not all men" attitude that's just a fucking scapegoat abusive men love to say for why they never hold themselves or other men accountable, but actually *genuinely* saying all men will rape and abuse if they became a therapist does nothing to offer solutions that will actually make therapy safe for people.

because i'm sorry but i've had nearly 40 therapists in my life and unfortunately i've had a mix of really harmful experiences from both male and female therapists. the best therapist i had was actually nonbinary. the second and third best were male.

i've had both male/female therapists try to convert me to christianity and say my illness was god punishing me for sinning. i've had female therapists enable my father to continue being sexually/psychologically/physically abusive under the guise of "you're probably just being a dramatic teenage genderfuck" they didn't say genderfuck but they definitely thought my queerness had given some reason for why my dad should be the one to help "get me on the right track".

so i ask you radfem bioessentialists, in your utopia without male therapists, what's your solution for people like myself? multigender/nonbinary people who are seeking therapy, or *gasp* perhaps even schooling to become a therapist? do i get a female therapist because i was AFAB? or no since i identify as a man and have a penis now I must be planning on raping her so i'll need a male therapist. but wait, i'm AFAB and i identify as a woman so he must be planning on raping me. so another multigender AFAB person i'm guessing? wait but if i identify as a woman and a man... and they identify as a woman and a man... who's the one planning on raping the other in this situation? I just wanna make sure I know what to do here, being part man and all, is it in my nature to rape her? or is it his nature to rape me? or do we just rape ourselves all the time since we're both men and women simultaneously.

sorry not to sound like an asshole there at the end with the sarcasm, but like, i was human trafficked for several months and am now severly agoraphobic and even i'm not this terrified that everyone i meet is going to rape me. so idk man. get a grip? have some compassion beyond yourself? some critical thinking skills maybe?

#psa #bigender #multigender #nonbinary #anti radfem #anti bioessentialism #anti truscum #anti terf #anti transmed #anti transandrophobia #tw assault #tw abuse #tw rape #tw sex assault #tw trafficking #transandrophobia #transphobes

[whereserpentswalk]

doesn't matter what you call yourself. unless you want to take t amd start dressing like and actual man and not some yaoiful softboi fetish nobody is going to see you as a real man. you cant expect society to conform to your fantasies. stop taking away attention from real trans people and just admit youre a pervert gril

My guy, you sound exactly like a transphobe. Like, this type of "you'll never be a man" language is the same as the language of those who want all trans people dead. It doesn't matter if you try to show transphobes you're "one of the good ones", they still will kill you when they're done with people like me.

I dream of a world where nobody thinks yaoiful is an insult.

#tw transfobia #tw transphobes #trans #transrights #transmasc #fuck truscum #truscum #transmed #fuck transphobes #fuck transmeds

[aholotte]

I don’t wanna start anything but hmm. I hate the terms “lesbinots” and “notsbians”

99% of the time, they’re used to refer to everyone who isn’t a lesbian (or who they don’t consider a lesbian) in a derogatory way, as if gay, bi, pan, and aspec people are all big mean monsters out to get lesbians. “Lesbinots DNI” “Notsbians ask to follow” wow, that suuurre doesn’t sound bi/panphobic, homophobic, and aphobic at all. Not to mention lesbian separatist, which isn’t surprising….

Plus, it sounds like 2000s teen movie language, so it’s hard to take it seriously. Then again, a lot of exclus lesbians these days like to live out their Regina George Mean Girls fantasies oh the internet.

It’s also close to a transmed dogwhistle. If you google "nonsbian" you’ll find a lot of transmed BS about how he/him lesbians, non-binary lesbians, etc are “not actually lesbians” and “not a part of the community.” And when you realize that a lot of the arguments against mspec lesbian and lesboy inclusion parallel the arguments against he/him lesbians… (“Just say you’re XYZ instead,” “men will invade our spaces,” “you’re invalidating trans men”)

That’s all I have to say about that.

#mine #transmed tw #truscum tw #exclus tw #lgbtq #mspec lesbian #lesboy

[ballsalsda]

XENO BEAM

#art #lgbtq #lgbtq community #lgbtq+ #lgbtqi community #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #lgbt #mogai #mogai gender #imoga #liomogai #liom safe #liom #xenogender #xenos #anti truscum #anti transmed #truscum dni #transmed dni #fuck transmeds #lgballt #comics #queer community #queer artist #queer #artists on tumblr #made on ibispaint #queer comics #tw exclusionism

[bonk-is-looking-away]

These will make very good reclaims ;)

You're right.

For future reference, if I do any more reclaims, they'll be posted on my alt @saturns-xenogenders

(Also don't repost without credit ty)

#decided not to do the second purely out of laziness #tw transphobia #transmisandry #trender #transtrender #reclaim #trendercore #tucute #anti truscum #anti transmed #inclus #mogai #discourse #trans man #transgender #gnc #gender nonconforming #drag queen #art #nondysphoric #positivity #safe #gay #aro #aromantic #vincian #drawing #digital art #illustration

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

I have such mixed feelings about 2. Like, on one hand, you think I'm gonna grow out of being "tucute" and eventually just be a "normal" intersex bi trans dude. You also yell at my friends and get angry on my behalf.

But on the other hand, you're kind to me. You make me take care of myself and you encourage me to be nicer to myself. You protect me when you can.

It's so confusing. I don't know how to feel.

#ah the joys of having an angry truscum in your head #barriers still high so I still don't know their name #hence me referring to them as “2” #actually traumagenic #traumagenic #personal #tw transmed #tw truscum

[debunkingfdc]

"this alter is also a they/them"

I knew that fakeclaimers were somewhat hostile to trans people but jesus christ this is one hell of a mask off moment

#anti fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming cw #fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #fakedisordercringe #ableist people #ableist nonsense #ableist bullshit #tw ableism #ableism #did #osdd #did osdd #plural #transphobia #transphobes #anti transmed #anti truscum

[silentfoxproductions]

Man I fucking hate talking abt transmeds and truscum BUT I GOTTA FUCKING RANT

On the truscum subreddit during the Trans Day of Remeberance (you know...the day we remember trans people who have died??) There was a HIGHLY popular post of someone saying pretty much this

"I'm trans but do we REALLY need a day of remembrance? Maybe so many wouldn't die if we stopped shoving it in their faces?"

And then others would twist it to blame it on younger transpeople or fucking those who use xenogenders or neopronouns saying WE are the main reason trans violence exists.

I'm leaving out a bit because I am just...ugh.

Fuck truscums. Fuck transmeds. I'll fucking boil their...fucking toenails off.

Sorry for the rant. Just wanted to be angry.

#anti truscum #anti transmed #tw truscum #tw transmed #suicide tw #tw death of trans people #trans #transgender #they also excluded the whole segment of over 50% of trans people killed are people of color #and they say they arent racist or transphobic #fucking liars

[coquettecowboy]

Lol remember this shit anyway this is unironically me n my transmed fiance ^u^

#my post #i think im funny #its the adderall kicking #also idk the sources sorry :( if anyone cares feel free 2 link #transmed #truscum #tw i guess #t4t #mlm #gay #nblm #transmasc #tucute

[wolf-tail]

This just in: Truscum fucking hate good music

#tw truscum #anti truscum #truscum dni #truscum bullshit #they say their not enbyphobic and throw a tantrum when an enby makes a song about their experiences #megagonefree

[sirenium]

TW: Caps, truscum, ace exclusion, discourse (??)

It is absolutely appalling to me that the cesspool that is the truscum subreddit is still alive and well. Don't get me wrong, some of the people seem like fine individuals... at least from my (very) limited knowledge. But others? Holy shit, bro. It didn't take very long to find some sort of exclusionary post; this one in particular claimed that 'saying ace people are part of the LGBT community is like saying atheists are a religious group' and... wow. That is an INCREDIBLY idiotic take, and I'm not going to explain why due to the assumption that everyone reading this has a functioning brain.

It's like they think being any type of queer is all about oppression and pain, and anyone they deem to not experience an adequate amount of it isn't queer. We've seen this with the tucute shit, so tell me why I'm even remotely surprised that at least a few people who consider themselves truscum are aspec exclusionary as well. It makes my head hurt.

Exclusion does nothing the further LGBTQ rights and acceptance, all it does is victimize more people! Making yourself 'one of the good ones' does absolutely nothing! Making other queer people feel like shit does NOTHING to solve the real issue, which is the fact that there are STILL queerphobic people in the world! The fact that there are people OLDER THAN ME who can't grasp that fact is so upsetting to me.

#tw discourse #lgbt #anti transmed #anti truscum #truscum dni #btw dysphoria isn't the determining factor of being #trans #it certainly can be #but there ARE #non dysphoric #trans people in the world #regardless of if you want to accept that or not #Truscum ideology should've crashed and burned in 2018 istfg #fuck exclusionists #also #asexual #people are queer #therefore they belong in the #lgbtq community

[sick-thing]

"Kalvin garrah isn't transphobic he's a trans man!" He shames transmascs voices after they've been on T and calls it a "tranny voice" do you honestly think using a slur to describe the way a trans person's voice sounds after transitioning isn't transphobic? Imagine a cis person saying that. Imagine a cis person showing a video of a trans person on T talking and their first reaction is "omg he has the tranny voice" and then mocking them.

#kalvin garrah #t slur tw #transmed #truscum #discourse tw #trans discourse tw

[psychiatricwarfare]

i lost my old post saying this so im saying it again.. ahem

NO TRANS PERSON IS MY ENEMY

i dont care if they're transmed/truscum/whatever you wanna call it. i dont care if they think me or my identity is cringe/wrong/a stain on the community. i was there once, i went down that pipeline for years, and it made me deeply unhappy and resentful of other trans people. you feel othered by cis people and retaliate against your trans siblings because you want to believe that cis people will accept you and they would accept you if it weren't for other trans people getting in the way - even though that's not the case.

by forcing transmeds to stay away from us and to 'DNI' all we're doing is pushing them further and further into the echo chamber telling them that they aren't good enough unless they perform transgenderism correctly. it gets exhausting, and you become bitter and angry. you don't understand why other people who are being their authentic selves seem so happy when you're not, and it makes you even more resentful.

the way i managed to crawl out of this pit was through youtubers like contrapoints' old videos about her own trans journey or philosophytube (who, though she had not come out to youtube at the time is and was still trans) making videos about transphobia. it was other trans people who helped me crawl out of this by simply explaining to me why it was okay to just do you. personally, it made me realise that before i had been pulled into this pipeline, i never identified as a "man." i was nonbinary before i was convinced enbies couldn't exist. and now im so much happier being able to be myself.

i want to extend that hand to any transmeds who maybe are starting to question the ideology or are simply tired of being so angry all the time. we are not your enemies, we are all a part of this community and no matter what we need to be there for each other. i can promise that when push comes to shove, transphobes are not going to care that you were trans the "right way", theyre still going to advocate for your death. trans people will be there for you, it'll be the trans community who protects you and stays by your side, and the person to pull you out of the fire might use neopronouns and have a weird gender but does that really matter when they want all of us dead regardless?

trans people are not my enemies. i don't care how much they've aligned themselves with transphobes, when it comes down to it, we have to protect each other. no person left behind.

#transphobia #transphobia tw #trans #transgender #nonbinary #enby #transmed #truscum #ftm #mtf #bug talks

[ahe-bby]

hey guys, sincerely from the bottom of my heart i hope you guys get skinned alive 💕

#tw//CSA #tw//transphobia #tw//trauma #tw//rape #tw//incest #tw//slur #anon asks #you fuckers are freaks i hope you burn alive #anti proshipper #anti truscum

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Me: *looking through aspec-related tags to get posts for Ace Week* Hmm... is ace/aro exclusion still a big thing on this hellsite? Are we still doing TheDiscourse™? Or have you all stopped being absolutely duck tits bonkers and grown up and realized how fucking ridiculous and horrible you were being to aspecs??

Me: *sees there's an 'exclusionist positivity tag'* Oh no....

Yo, you jokin', right...??

Yo, you jokin', RIGHT?!?!

HELLO???????

Anyway, I hope this shit is a joke lmao. In other news, Send Help.

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aspec #exclusionists dni #anti exclusionist #fuck exclusionists #anti transmed #anti truscum #aphobia #acephobia #arophobia #exclusionists tw #exclusionists mention #exclusionists cw #ace discourse #aro discourse #discourse #transphobia #enbyphobia #exorsexism #trans discourse #nonbinary discourse #enby discourse

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

Just saw a truscum "fix" a random trans person's positivity art because "trans bodies aren't celestial". what the fuck

#max squawks #anti truscum #anti transmed #transphobia #tw transphobia