#tw abusive mother

[hauntedfaceenthusiast]

Stop Hating On Chloe Bourgeois!

I feel this needs to be said and I'm tired of the whole Miraculous Ladybug fandom hating on Chloe for her behavior. She only is that way because her mother forced her to act like that. Chloe is a girl who needs to be listened to and to be given love. Audrey is an abusive mother and I have proof.

Evidence 1: https://youtu.be/O566ToAI9P8?feature=shared

In this clip, Chloe has a hard time sharing her true feelings to Ladybug because Audrey always scorned her for showing her true self. Which is why she lies all the time and acts cold. Because she's scared people will act like her mother and push her down. She also tries to hide her tears because she is afraid Ladybug will shout at her for crying like her mom did, that's why we rarely see Chloe cry, her mother yelled at her for crying because it isn't how a Bourgeois should act according to Audrey. And when Ladybug mentions the documentary on her, Chloe denies that she made it and calls herself useless. Because her mother always berated Chloe's creativity and called her useless and ridiculous.

Evidence 2: https://youtu.be/4IOuYBzE0gc?feature=shared

After Chloe is deakumatized by Ladybug and Cat Noir, Chloe gets sent to London ALONE WITH HER MOTHER! Audrey rants to Chloe about how she had power and still lost and told her that's not the Bourgeois way. After she says "Think you're going on a vacation to London, think again! I'm going to take control of your life again, starting with your education." All the while Chloe is shown to be visibly upset and angry and leaves the area. After her argument with Marinette to try to regain some power to show her mom she isn't useless, she cries, because she realizes she's stuck with her abusive mother on the other side of the world, with no one to help.

So I will once again repeat myself, STOP HATING ON CHLOE BOURGEOIS!

#stop the Chloe hate #miraculous ladybug #chloe bourgeois #tw abusive mother #tw abuse

[soupedepates]

TW: domestic abuse, mention human trafficking & child abuse, fantasy of violence

"I mistook you for a genius." "And I mistook you for a mother", Mingzhu replied, finally snapping at their mother. "I managed to get into this school, that I, as the child of a prostitute and born in a fuckin' traffick, I, as the product of a messed-up home, I, as perhaps the epitome of childhood trauma, shouldn't have been able to enroll in. I tried. I tried."

They could feel tears running down their cheeks. They had endured everything, keeping their mouth shut and their profile low, everything to please their mother. They had lost their health, their sanity even, in this quest to make their mother content, to the point they couldn't hold a pen without having a panic attack. But Nangxian had a cold heart, or so it seems. She didn't even try to soothe her child. Her stern and and furious look was the only living thing in her petrified pale face. Mingzhu wanted to slap her the same she had hit them before, to bruise the cold maternal skin, to feel her flesh yielding under their hand, her bones cracking.

"Say something! Stop looking at me like that!" Mingzhu cried as they raised from their chair. "I don't want to talk with a disrespecting, ungrateful brat", she responded in a cold tone. "You don't know how many sacrifices I've made for you and your siblings to have a better life. I had so much hope for you..."

And they read in her voice her disappointment and shame to have them as an excuse of a child.

But they weren't a child anymore.

"And I failed. Big deal. And why did I fail? Because of you and you and you."

Nangxian seized her child's hair at the root, before banging their head against the wall. She was stronger than she looked like, and Mingzhu had the habit to surrender and submit to their fate in times like that. Had they resisted, their mother would have gotten more violent because of the disrespect. They got stunned by the hit, and was forced to sit on the floor while Nangxian was retrieving her flapper, ready to strike again.

"Are you back on your right mind or should I teach you respect again?" she calmly said.

Chills went down Mingzhu's spine. Nangxian hit them once more, getting them to let out a pitiful cry of pain.

"Mum, what's going on?" Junjie asked, arriving in the kitchen his textbook in hand. "I heard screaming and a bang, did you get hu-"

Mingzhu locked eyes with their little brother, imploring for help. He swiftly reached for his mother's arm, before shouting:

"STOP! Mum, I beg you!" "Let go." "Mum..."

Nangxian slapped him with her free hand. The distraction gave enough time for Mingzhu to get back of their feet. They took their brother's hand, et ran out of the kitchen slamming the door.

"Take our shoes, we out", they whispered to him.

Junjie obeyed and grabbed their trainers. He felt hollow. Their mum promised not to hit them and again, it was a lie. The little boy in this eighteen-year-old young man let out a sob for he wanted his mum now.

"Shshsh, it'll be okay. It'll be okay", Mingzhu said softly. "Come on. Let's go before she kills us."

He nodded, and followed them in the staircase. They went bare foot for three or four floors, before wearing their shoes.

"I promise you we will go back to grab your stuff", they assured. "When she will be out. Promise."

Junjie burst out crying and started sucking his thumb. Mingzhu's chest tightened, and they took their brother between their arms. As the older, they were trying not to let out another teardrop, they had to soothe their younger sibling before anything.

"We will go at Kim's, alright? You'll sleep there for a while until I figure out what we do." "I d-d-d-don't wanna be sepa-separated from you..."

They kissed him on the forehead.

"I'll be by your side until you're asleep. Promise. I'll never abandon you."

Junjie was looking like a child at the moment. Mingzhu knew he was also thinking like a child when he was having these episodes.

"Take my hand, okay? Let's get you an ice cream, I have money in my pocket." "We won't get in troubles, right?" "Never again, Junjie."

They stroked his hair like they would have done with a young child.

"Never again."

#tw child abuse #tw abuse #tw violence #tw domestic violence #tw childhood trauma #tw violent thoughts #writing project #writeblr #healthy siblings relationship #siblings #tw abusive mother #mommy issues #family trauma #les voisins d'en face #why do i write my most messed-up shit when I am in class

[crowrelli]

Update: My mother who ive had no contact with for months called and fawn picked up. She yelled about 'legally' bs even tho its just not safe to go back. And when she demanded to hear from me and they told her about how sick i am and that im finally sleeping, guess ehat she decides to do??? Yell about how fawn is pulling "shenanigans" on her.

#god shes a crazy bitch #i did NOT miss her voice and her grading fucking nonsense #still didnt call me by the right name #vent #tw abusive mother

[sulkykarris]

Just read another article listing mentioning your IQ as things only people that aren't as smart as they pretend to be do. And I just...I used to do this. Because all my life I was called stupid and lazy and even retarded. Can you imagine the relief I felt when my therapist suggested an IQ test and I had finally proof that I'm not dumb, just depressed? Of course my birth giver didn't believe any of it but to me it was a piece of paper I clung on to.

Sure these tests bring limited results and are flawed in many ways. But not everyone who keeps telling people they're smart is an asshole or braggart. For some it's just a way to reassure ourselves that we've been failed and gaslit.

#just autistic things #growing up neurodivergent #tw abusive mother #tw toxic mother

[gonelegacy]

my sitch at home has reached critical stage unfortunately 

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just in case read more is still broken. 

hi this is such a desperate attempt but i really need someone who can LOAN me £200 i can pay it back on the 10th of June but without it I believe I will be in physical danger. Of course I will pay it back in full I’m just desperate and unsure on what to do.    pls just private message me about this. i’m not asking for donations or anything like that. I just don’t have any friends i can ask. 

#abusive mother tw #tw abusive mother #tw real life #real life tw

[xxravewavexx]

why does my mom blame me for the worsening of her chronic illness?! Like I know I'm a contributing factor in it because we fight alot but I'm also working hard to not fight so often with her but she seems to find everything that I do insulting to her... Maybe she shouldn't have a child and then tell them that they are killing you and that your doctor advised you to have an abortion for your own health but you didn't and now you regret it and your child owes you happiness and compliance and should never have an opinion different than yours and should always do what you want them to do.

#Tw abortion #vent #Tw abusive mother #Is my mom abusive? #I honestly don't know #It just seems like she hates me #Rey's talking #And Rey is also sad #And cutting again

[wildbasil]

things haven't been great but i think they will be. eventually 🌻🌼🩷

#personal #comics #tw abuse #digital art #personal comic #for the record no i don't think my mother loves me #but the idea that she did kept me in an awful situation for a very long time #the number of times people said “she's your mother. she's trying her best. of course she loves you” etc etc #but i don't think “love” and abuse are mutually exclusive #like even if someone DOES love you it doesn't mean it's not abuse and it doesn't mean it's ok #art tag

[wilwheaton]

How did you get into acting? Was it something you've always wanted to do?

My mother forced me to become an actor when I was seven, and then refused to let me quit, even though I literally begged her to stop making me work. She used and exploited me to get things she wanted for herself.

I sincerely believed acting was something I wanted to do, because my mother manipulated and gaslighted me my entire childhood. I was completely brainwashed. By the time I was old enough to realize that not only was it not my idea, but that I didn't have to be an actor any more if I didn't want to, I was terrified I would be the huge failure my abusive father always made me believe I was, so I kept trying to be an actor well into my 30s.

In my 40s, I decided to retire from acting on-camera, and use what I'd learned over the years to work as a voice actor, audiobook narrator, and writer. I'm a New York Times bestselling author! And number on audiobook narrator!

I just turned 50 in July. I'm still doing the performing and entertaining work I'm pretty good at, but I'm only doing it on my terms. My favorite thing I'm doing right now is hosting The Ready Room, the official online destination for all things Star Trek universe.

I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. I'm truly thriving. I've been married for almost 24 years, I have two wonderful children and a daughter-in-law I love like my own. It's a really good life, but I'm not going to lie: I had to crawl through a LOT of shit to get here.

#tw child abuse #tw abuse #tw child exploitation #stage mothers #child actor #survivors

[one-time-i-dreamt]

I booked a $250 event as a gift to my mom where they'd teach you how to wash/clean dolphins but it got canceled because Harry Styles got arrested for never cooking for his wife and it was claimed to be domestic violence and it was all over the news like a national emergency so every hotel and every booking got denied.

#dream #mom #mother #dolphin #harry styles #domestic violence tw #abuse tw

[hearts4juzi]

Tessa fucks me up dude can I just talk about her for a sec? Yeah? Yeah.

She loved those drones. She loved them because they were what she had. She felt sympathy for them when nobody else did. And I like to think there was a little bit of loneliness motivating her as well.

Her mother hated her. She was nothing to her. When her mother scolded her by saying "seems you still can't follow simple orders" her respone was "No, no no! Please!" BEGGING. Begging her mother to believe in her and be kind to her. She got chained up in her room (multiple times btw. At leas tthats implied. the hand she winced at and rubbed is the same hand the chain was on, which means shed be chained up long enough for it to rub her skin painfully. long enough to leave lasting pain.)

She is very connected to these drones, to the point where she kept all the error drones aroud because she LOVED them. She spent time digging them up. HELL SHE TOOK A FAMILY PHOTO WITH THEM DUDE...

Even when Cyn was creepy and scary, she kept her around. She'd rather lock Cyn up than get rid of her. and when n points it out, shes apologetic and hesitant. But we know WHY she did that. Even if it was kind of a sucky move, it was because she didnt wanna have to throw cyn out. and in the end that killed her.

Also she knows J well enough to know what sets her off (enough to. bite the shit out of a chain). She knows them. and she loves them.

I wish we'd gotten to know more about her an N. why is he so clearly her favorite? but thats not relevant ig

also her saying "I've only ever yakked to robots, J!" She has NO human friends. she has nobody to support her other than these robots. these robots who get treated like garbage by her family.

and then she has to watch these robots turn on her. Not just THESE ROBOTS but the three that she loved most. (also im going off what wouldve happened in ep 5 WITHOUT uzi, where n doesnt get out of the swamp, and nobody goes down to the basement)

V first, then Cyn, then J. And we KNOW she loved these three+N especially bc she took a family photo w them, interacted with them more often, and generally just seemed much closer with them.

and what does she get for it? killed. And also its implied by this screenshot that she wasnt ACTUALLY killed by cyn right then

(the scientists, the sword beside her, the footprints, the way shes sitting against the wall, the expression she has. she totally just saw all that shit)

and she cant have been skyn bc the scientists wouldve known. the skinsuit wasnt exactly. hm. pretty.

which means she DID see her whole family+more slaughtered in front of her while she was powerless to stop it. She DID see J violently kill everyone around her. She DID see Cyn kill everyone. And she just has to. Deal with that. And despite all her efforts, the solver took over and cyn killed her. (im assuming tessa died somewhere around when n's mineshaft flashback was like i mentioned b4)

and all the while she was convinced shed lose N, id assume. based on the state of the other drone out there.

And honestly, i think what she got was worse.

also i am team "N knew Tessa wasn't the same Tessa he knew back on Earth"

The way he looked at her, and the way he was suspicious of her. He knew HIS Tessa would never treat a drone like this. Cyn has been known to have relatively shitty recreations of people at times (like Thad in episode two) But even so there was no way he could believe it was someone else (like. who would it be? he saw her blood he heard her voice like...) which is why he was so stressed after killing her (when he leaned on his sword and was breathing heavy, yk?)

he loved her and she loved him and now shes dead. just like everyone else he loved.

this isnt about n but like. idk if tessa could see him now i think shed cry. she loved him and all of them

#tzu rambles #i just. she was a kid dude #she was a stupid hurting abused kid #she was treated like shit by her mother and probably her father too #and all she had were those drones #the ones that killed her and her family #the ones that ruined her life and destroyed earth #the ones that MIMICKED HER TO THE PEOPLE SHE LOVED MOST #THE “N!!!” SQUEAL. THE PETTING HIS HAIR. THE DISMISSAL OF J #FUCKING SICK AND TWISTED #Bc i genuinely believe that if Tessa HAD come to copper 9 alive she wouldve been like that #maybe a little more sympathetic to uzi. like if she knew abt the patch she wouldve used it. i know that #but otherwise i think shed be like that. silly. silly like that. #(esp kicking that computer monitor. we all saw her chuck a glass at the floor for no reason) #child abuse #abuse tw #tessa james elliot #murder drones #tessa elliot #tessa md #md tessa #tessa murder drones #murder drones tessa

[pain-is-my-game]

It's terrible knowing that if I ever show sadness or show anything emotion that's not positive towards anything whether it's my fault or not I'll either get blamed for it or told that my emotions are irrational.

#i will never care if you reblog #im so tired #i just wanna escape #vent #tw vent #cw vent #eldest daughter syndrome #sad thoughts #eldest daughter #eldest sibling #oldest daughter #toxic mother #emotional neglect #emotional abuse #emotional abandonment #toxic mothers #toxic mom #toxic parents #thoughts to throw into the void

[worst-mother-throwdown]

BRACKET 1

Semifinals

TW: child abuse, manipulation, torture, murder, mass murder, child abandonment

Shadow Weaver propaganda

Titania propaganda

#worst mother throwdown #worst fictional mother throwdown #she ra and the princesses of power #shadow weaver #october daye titania #october daye #tw child abuse #tw manipulation #tw murder #tw child abandonment #tw torture #tw mass murder

[sulkykarris]

TFW a friend with whom you parted ways on bad terms years ago sends you birthday greetings and a truly kind email thus caring more than my own fucking family ever did.

I want to crawl into a hole and die.

#tw abusive mother #tw toxic mother #tw abusive family

[lostmf]

#sadnees #tw depressing thoughts #i'm sad #depressing shit #tw depressing stuff #depressing life #childhood trauma #poetic #childhood #quotes #childhood ptsd #childhood truama #child abuse #mother #tw abuse #emotional abuse #toxic parents #generational truama #truamacore #wound tw #tw ptsd #tw truama #literature quotes #why am i like this #book quote #i am in pain #kill my thoughts #mentally tired #mentally fucked #can you hear me

[livininaburninghouse]

It is a valid response.

#childhood trauma #toxic family #abusive family #abusive household #abusive dad #abusive parents #abusive mother #abuse survivor #abusive survivors #physical abuse #emotional abuse #narcissistic abuse #tw parental abuse #tw abuse

[letteriwillneversend]

having parents that are nothing more than unfriendly strangers wearing familiar voices that say familiar things makes you wonder if there was ever any such thing as home.

it makes you wonder what it might be like to have a bad day and have someone you can call or talk to. what it might be like to have someone you can to for advice or comfort. what it might be like to have a shoulder or lap you can finally rest your head on. what it might be like to have a bowl of cut fruit that spells out unconditional love.

some days i find myself looking for home even when i don’t know what to look for.

#heartbreak #i'm just so tired #orphan #angst #journal #my thoughts #my writing #letters i will never send #abusive parents #tw: abuse #abusive household #distant parents #emotionally exhausted #emotional neglect #where is home and is it mine #what’s that one quote that’s like #i need a mother a father some older wiser being to talk to