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zukkaart · 9 months
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To all of the people who believe Azula is crazy/evil, and to all of those who think Eska is abusive or toxic. I just want to let you know from the bottom of my heart…that I actually could not care less.
(This isn’t a call out post and I’m not bashing on anyone I just need to say it)
I get it - Azula was a child and for that she is rightly granted leniency for the most part amongst the fandom. And Eska was definitely controlling but you can’t say she didn’t care
BUT HERES THE THING
I don’t care about the “excuses” or “reasons” like… at all. I am a firm believer in letting women be evil just for the sake of being evil.
Azula committed war crimes? Iconic
Eska told Bolin he shouldn’t touch other women? Literally queen behavior.
LET WOMEN BE EVIL, THEY DONT NEED DEFENDING. THEYRE TOXIC AND MORALLY CORRUPT AND ITS WHY I LOVE THEM
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the-expose-on-girls · 6 months
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Red Flags Of Highly Manipulative Individuals
They start establishing a closer, more intimate relationship with you
They lure you in with flattery
They quickly refer to you as their best friend/soul mate
They even start comparing you with people from their past
They start to make excuses
They do not respond to anything and they lack emotions
They use dark humor and offensive jokes
They surround themselves with ex-lovers and potential mates
They force you to start playing detective
They accuse you of emotions that they intentionally provoked
They never put themselves in your shoes
They focus on your mistakes and ignore their wrongdoings
They are the ultimate hypocrites
They start making comments about how you look or what you wear
You begin to worry that any fight you have could be your last
They are obsessed with humiliating successful, happy and nice people
They expect you to know everything they want
Source: https://thepowerofsilence.co/17-red-flags-of-highly-manipulative-individuals/
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Gossiping, spreading rumours, telling lies, attacking someones status, destroying their relationships…
The whispers in the playground, the cold shoulder at the party, the secret WhatsApp groups; if such a thing as ‘toxic femininity’ were to exist, then surely it would be this?
Much is said and done about the way boys and men hurt each other, and how their dominance of the physical realm allows them to punch, hit and fight one another as a means of aggression.
But is all aggression physical?
And might women (just as men exploit their physical superiority) harness their mastery of language, their skills of communication and relationship building, to wreak havoc in their own specific way?
“Relational aggression”, is the ability to harm others through deliberate manipulation of their social standing and relationships – and yes, it’s mostly women and girls who do it.
But like always, society remains reluctant to say anything about the malevolent side of the femme – even to the detriment of girls, who are the primary victim of this kind of bullying.
Worse, girls bullying other girls is hyper charged through social media, causing untold harm, and likely drives the recent rise in suicides in adolescent females – yet our social justice warriors are too gutless to talk about it.
The simple fact of life is this – women and girls are no better, or worse, than men and boys.
No less capable of greatness. No less capable of harm.
That is what ‘women’s autonomy’ truly is.
We all exercise our unique powers in specific ways, some of which draw the spotlight and ire of society, and some don’t.
So what is to be said about the destructive power of words?
Will anyone talk about the uniquely devastating ways that girls bully each other, or how women can destroy the life of a man without even lifting a finger?
Who will talk of relational aggression?
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APA: https://tinyurl.com/3rjdz6mv
Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression
Misogynistic Tweets: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/may/26/half-of-misogynistic-tweets-sent-by-women-study-finds
Women as innovators of language: https://tinyurl.com/2st3vxz8
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It's like people think we forgot that the film "Mean Girls" exists. The entire school was on the brink of imploding, requiring dragging all the girls out to conduct a giant group therapy session.
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t3rr3nc3 · 1 year
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asshole-rebel-psycho · 5 months
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How to know you are being gaslighted p1.
Your power of free speech is completely destroyed.
For example:
You are watching a dumb reality tv show. You say something about it being fake and make a few jokes about it. ( no big deal, no personal attacks on the person u are watching with)
The person you are watching it with gets annoyed at you for talking during the show so they start screaming at you for talking telling you you're opinions are wrong and "shut up!" 😒 ( that seems a little harsh for making fun of a show right?) 😕 😳
You try to calm yourself down but it is very hard so you start to angry twitch a bit to calm down without words (obviously the mood is off now) ....the person notices this and they get even more triggered by it.
They say "why are you so angry?!" As if they weren't the one who started screaming at you for just talking during a dumb show.
Now if you try to defend yourself with speech and say
" I'm sorry for talking during the show"
They will say:
" Omg it's not just the TV show I'm angry at you for!, it's all the things you've said in the past!!" ( that came out of nowhere)
So now while they completely yell over you and your ability to defend anything you've "said" in the past...they will bring up every incident where you have "SAID" something they didn't like and instead of using exact quotes they will say:
"idk exactly what you've said but it was somthing like that" 🙄
So now you are playing emotional cat and mouse trying to do penance and apologize for a word you've said yrs ago. Even though both of you don't have any idea what it is. 😲 😱
When you try to fix the current argument that started for no reason its unresolved because this moment will probably be usable against you in the future. Lol
And in their own words your oh so "wrongdoing" of commenting on a TV show " is not the problem in the first place"...
so if they are mad at you for not even doing something wrong how are you supposed to resolve this? No redemption under Satan I guess 🤷 lol
How do you redeem something that isn't redeemable? Just like your past "words" lol they can't remember.
It's always YOUR "words" never YOUR ACTIONS that they have a problem with. You know why? Because words don't mean as much as actions! So they are easy to manipulate and change. It's easier for them to say you SAID something emotionally offensive ( when it can literally be anything!) Verses you bringing up them screaming at you or hitting you!) But if you bring that up they will say they were "going thru a hard time" as an excuse. But YOU are not allowed to say somthing like that. YOU are the monster, they are saints who excuse themselves.
Which brings us back to your current argument of commenting on the dumb TV show.
And now that I think of it, were the things you've said in the past even wrong to begin with? Or were they just using it as a trigger point to throw their kitchen sink dirt at you ? 🤔 like the current situation. " it's not about what you said to the tv!"
And now you are at the point of the argument where this person is yelling at you for 15 minutes and now you get so worked up that you actually do say something mean to them. Yes finally!! the reaction this person wanted comes out.
They have accomplished their task of breaking you down. Even if you said something about their bad actions like "screaming at you, or being physically violent towards YOU you lose because they will have this nasty thing you said to defend yourself out of anger, and put it in their back pocket for the next time they want to fight with you. ( just like a crooked politician using past quotes on twitter and not STATS and ACTIONS to defeat their opponent)
If you apologize they will get mad at you for not breaking down and crying and call you a "cold bastard" even though they mentioned that they don't even know what you guys are arguing about. Lol so now you actually start crying because they are stressing you out by starting a fight over NOTHING!
It's insanity. Stay away. use that only drop of silence they give you to remove yourself from them. For good.
( sorry tumblr for the rant, but this is a helpful ⚠️ warning to all of you)
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its-all-down-hill · 10 months
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mrjohnpaul · 1 year
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why do embrace toxicity and pain?
love, toxicity and pain aren’t attached. the world fooled us into thinking this
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lovesinistra · 1 year
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teeth0fairy · 2 years
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the-expose-on-girls · 7 months
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Stop it before it gets started.
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willisnotmental · 16 days
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guys i think i’m into toxic woman, like bitches with red flags, fucking narcissists and murders and stalkers, would date one, i think this is really bad and is probably the effect of trauma from my childhood except i don’t know what it is because i blocked out basically all my memories from then, i love woman who are fucking cunts and i think that’s coming from the fucked up sapphic in me and i love it and i’m proud.
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my-self-reflections · 18 days
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Toxic Feminism is the greatest threat to the survival of America and Personal Relationships.
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