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personal-blog243 · 6 months

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CW: homophobia, sexism, racism, ageism, incest, emotional abuse….

Men have such a victim complex about relationships because of the association of the “nerd” stereotype with maleness. It really has lowered the bar for men so much.

My guy friend was making a joke about how he’s not attractive and supposedly can’t get women. His sister had to remind him that he has slept with multiple women before and has had multiple girlfriends before and has had “friends with benefits” and his longest relationship was over 3years! He was able to get these women in spite of the fact that he clearly has a misogynistic sense of entitlement to women. 🙄

His sister who is MORE conventionally attractive than him but has still never dated had to remind him of that. 🙄

This man has also:

. Mocked women’s asses for not being big enough

. Made jokes about being entitled to blowjobs

. Mocked women for not giving good enough blowjobs

. Mocked women’s vaginas for not being good enough (especially older women)

. Publicly shamed, blamed, and guilt tripped a woman who rejected him for his suicide attempt (common manipulation tactic)

. Publicly shamed and guilt tripped his ex girlfriend in the middle of game night because she hadn’t sent him nudes yet! 🙄

. Uses misogynistic slurs as long as they include “white” in front of them

. Laughs at rape scenes in movies

. Makes incest and beastiality jokes about the south and mocks southern accents (he is from TN)

. Makes homophobic jokes about politicians he doesn’t like being closeted gay (he is straight)

. Makes racist jokes about black penises (he’s white)

. Has a misogynistic homophobic lesbian fetish

Yet he still has more sexual and romantic experience than me. So he’s basically a typical straight male. 🙄

His name is William Thomas Lasley and he lives in Hermitage TN

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little-witchys-garden · 3 months

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Tw: r-pe + sexualizing/glorifying of r-pe + victim blaming + apparently gas lighting of victims too

Me: goes on Twitter

Me sees viv is in another controversy

" gee wonder what it is"

She apparently HIRED a R-Pe artist onto her team, is blocking and hiding comments from sa survivor fans about how they're hurt because r-pe isn't ya know sexy...

Sees viv's tries to lie and say the r-pe artist was sa-ed so it's okay to make r-pe porn and sexualize+ romantizes r-pe?????

The r-pe artist themself admitting they were never sa-ed in any way shape or form but just likes the concept of it...... { ew }

viv calling ppl that are giving her criticism for this disgusting choices attention seeking 15 year olds

viv's fans start justifying this and getting mad at sa survivors for understandly being hurt and triggered

Viv going on a woe is me rant about how her and this disgusting artist are the real victims of all this and not the sa survivors that she triggered with her choices that she knew were wrong and kept purposely hidden..

Me: holy r-pe culture batman, wtf

#rape culture #feminist #feminism #but wtf #wtf is going on #wtf is this #like wtf #this is rape culture #victim blaming

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ecoamerica · 19 days

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rad-claid-plaid · 11 months

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What a shock.

#radblr #radfem #radfems do touch #radfems please interact #radical feminism #rape culture #plaid.txt

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feministwhobites · 2 months

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i am sick of women being treated like they are insane for being scared of men. why do you throw the words 'not all men' in my face when we both know its many. why is that when i voice my concern i am unreasonable but my father isnt? how can you tell me to be wary of them then look at me in disbelief when i believe you? yet the second i dont, its my fault anything happened to me.

#radblr #radical feminism #feminism #rape culture

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spookyradluka · 1 year

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Female cops don't deserve rape

Tradwifes don't deserve rape

Conservative women don't deserve rape

Fascist women don't deserve rape

""Terfs"" do not deserve rape

MRA women don't deserve rape

Disagreeable women in general do not deserve rape

No woman no matter her shitty ideology deserves to be sexually abused

Once it's okay to excuse rape based on ideology sooner or later you'll meet someone who doesn't agree with you.

#rape culture #feminism #intersectional politics #intersectional feminism 101 #intersectionality #intersectional feminism #rape apologism #terf #trandwife #conservative #acab #radblr

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nansheonearth · 5 months

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darkest.hue: Trigger warning: mentions of extreme violence against women and girls

Part 1/3 (more content to come on this matter)

Note: Although it should go without saying, here are some obvious truths: hip-hop the genre is not innately violent and misogynistic and neither are Black man. Also, hip-hop is not the only genre with abusive men, and the music industry is not the only industry in entertainment with abusive men.

For years now, Black women have been calling for hip- hop to have its "Me Too" reckoning (see recommended readings). Calls have recently reignited following singer Cassie's civil lawsuit against ex-boyfriend Diddy, where she alleges years of r*pe, domestic violence, and sex tr*fficking.

Many were rightfully stunned, horrified, and heartbroken by Cassie's vulnerable account, with many demanding the entire industry be finally held accountable for its pattern of violence against women. But is any of this really that surprising when we consider the way mainstream hip-hop talks about women, particularly Black women? Is it all that surprising when we consider the toxic loyalty and blind allegiance male rappers have to each other? Or the wealth of resources these men have at their disposal to control and harm women all the while flying under the radar? Or the world's disregard for the safety and protection of their Black women/girl victims?

Let's discuss.

Recommended readings for further investigation:

Ms.Magazine: "Black Women, Hip-Hop and #MeToo: 'On the Record' Spotlights Music Industry" by Janell Hobson

Buzzfeed News: "Will Time Ever Be Up For Abusive Men In Hip-Hop?" by Sylvia Obell "Confessions of Video Vixen" by Karrine Steffans

Vox: "Megan Thee Stallion, Me Too, and hip-hop's cycle of misogynoir" by Fabiola Cineas

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liberalsarecool · 2 months

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'Vacating the judgment on a rapist' is Federalist Society high five with right-wing misogyny.

Judge Adrian represents all that is wrong with the conservative judiciary. They all reek of fetid patriarchy.

Raping a 16-year-old girl made this conservative judge feel sorry for rapist. The judge is identifying with the criminal.

So relieved the rape-friendly judge lost his job. Now do Kavanaugh and Thomas.

#rape culture judges

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burningtheroots · 10 months

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No no no no no no no I‘m DONE.

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thatdiabolicalfeminist · 8 months

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I really don't think it's true that abusers always know they're abusive or that if you're worried you're being abusive, that automatically means you're not.

There are patterns of harm we can fall into without really realizing what's going on. We live in an abuse culture that justifies and even celebrates certain kinds of abuse and makes them seem normal.

Maybe when you're trying to protect yourself from harm you set your boundaries so far out from your own autonomy zone that you're infringing on someone else's. Maybe you think you're being fair because you aren't thinking about what it's like for the other person, you're too focused on staying/getting in your own comfort zone.

Maybe you're so used to dysfunctional interactions that every conversation is a power struggle, and you don't even realize that when you're "winning" all the time you're grinding someone else down—you're too busy being relieved that you're not "losing" all the time anymore like you did in the past with someone else.

Maybe you think you're being "funny" and it's "banter" to constantly tear down someone in your life. Maybe you assume they're having fun with it too and that this is how you act friendly towards someone.

Maybe you believe lies about what rape is or what abuse is. Maybe you grew up being told men always want sex and you don't even realize when you're pressuring him into it that he genuinely doesn't want it and it's not a game. Maybe you believed the lies that women say no to seem modest but if she "gives in" that's how you know for sure she wants it. Maybe you thought physical arousal was the same as consent.

Maybe you thought being mean when you're in a bad mood wasn't abuse as long as you don't hit. Maybe you grew up in an environment where any conflict meant you had to hurt the other person as much as possible emotionally in order to "win".

Maybe you're a parent who learned that spanking or scaring your kids is how you keep them in line, which seems necessary to protect them. Maybe you don't realize how cutting some of the things you say are, or how thoughtless or unkind you're being. Maybe you never learned gentleness before you had kids, or don't understand what's age appropriate.

When you're an abuser or a rapist who didn't realize at the time how much harm you were doing, it can cause serious cognitive dissonance to realize the impact of your actions. It's easy to get defensive and decide that since you don't think of yourself that way, there's no way you could possibly be an abuser or a rapist.

It's easy to say that if you don't want to be an abuser, you're not. But it's not always true.

It is absolutely vital that everyone learns how to interact in safe and respectful ways. We're all responsible for figuring out how to not harm other people.

Believing that it's impossible you're harming other people can make you MORE likely to harm them, because you're not checking yourself to make sure that you're not.

#abuse #how to not be abusive #how to not be a rapist #abuse culture #thatdiabolicalfeminist #rape #rape culture

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personal-blog243 · 17 days

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She can say she wasn’t raped, but I hope she now has a better understanding that a teen intern being sexually coerced and given drugs and performing sexual acts on multiple older men DOES count as rape and that this was horrible.

FUCK JFK 🤬🤬🤬🖕🖕🖕🖕

Has anybody told Monica Lewinsky that she’s not alone?

#jfk #rape culture #this is rape culture #me too #times up #american history #u.s. history #john f kennedy #kennedy family #what feminism looks like #feminism #feminist #monica lewinsky #bill clinton #U.S. presidents

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femsolid · 11 months

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How rape victims are charged for making “false rape accusations”.

Compilation from the documentary “Victim/Suspect” available on Netflix.

#video #rape #police #justice #rape culture #feminism #acab #documentary

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ecoamerica · 19 days

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Watch the American Climate Leadership Awards 2024 now: https://youtu.be/bWiW4Rp8vF0?feature=shared

The American Climate Leadership Awards 2024 broadcast recording is now available on ecoAmerica's YouTube channel for viewers to be inspired by active climate leaders. Watch to find out which finalist received the $50,000 grand prize! Hosted by Vanessa Hauc and featuring Bill McKibben and Katharine Hayhoe!

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womenaremypriority · 8 months

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I actually think if a sexually-active women walked in a revealing outfit and got overpowered by a random man and froze up, she was still raped. Even if her body count was 100 even if she was drunk even if she was rude to everyone she met. And if she wanted an abortion she should get one free of charge. And if you don’t agree with me without hesitation you’re not a feminist

#Feminism #feminist #radblr #Radfem #rape culture #pro choice #abortion rights #radfem safe #My post #My bangers

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republicansexscandals · 7 months

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#gym jordan #republican hypocrisy #republican family values #sex scandal #republican sex scandal #rape #rape apologist #rape culture #child rape #Republican rape culture #ohio state wrestling #ohio state university

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rejectingrepublicans · 3 months

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#republican assholes #traitor trump #crooked donald #rapist trump #resist #$83.3 million dollar loser #Republican rape culture

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nansheonearth · 2 months

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Global military spending rose 9% last year. That's 2.2 trillion to spend on death and male violence. Endless genocides, murders, rapes, and environmental destruction.

#war #military #male violence #government #genocide #capitalism #patriarchy #rape culture #radfem #o

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liberalsarecool · 7 months

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🔥🔥🔥🎯

#rape culture

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